Are some SW offended if you just want to cuddle and talk?
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Your saying you would rather be pounded for an hour by a 6'7" 280 pound gorilla than cuddle and talk to him? Indies might have special rates for this but agency girls in most cases don't. The OP didn't specify that he was looking for an indie.....
Why are you assuming the average client is a huge guy who wants to non stop pound the provider for a hour? It's just not my experience. Getting pounded non stop for 60 minutes would end up being painful for anyone lol. You can't really use this comparison, and this isn't really something that is as common as you think at all.
Yeah obviously if physical pain is involved and I feel like I'm being tortured I prefer cuddling and talking.. but sometimes purely sexual bookings are easier and go by faster for many reasons. I have had purely social bookings and stuff like cuddling sessions that were actually really difficult because these clients were talking about really heavy topic or being extremely emotional around me. Sometimes my social battery is dead and a shorter booking without much talking will fly by..
The fact that some indies have a special rate already indicates that this is a thing and there are girls to choose from.. Heck, even when I was working at a spa, it's happened a few times that guys just wanted to cuddle. I didn't take it the wrong way.
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I don’t think most guys are looking for just sex especially not the ones that repeat with the same lady many times.
Perhaps the first time physical attraction is enough but afterwards at least for me I need to actually like that person and hopefully she feels the same.
No it is not about falling in love, that is ridiculous and if that is what you are looking for then definitely don’t look for it with an SP, but we are all human beings and it is far better being with someone you actually like, get along with, and look forward to seeing.
I never understood the guys who see multiple SP a week and think it is some kind of achievement and status symbol that they fucked over a hundred different women in a year. Those women don’t even know you exist the moment you walked out the door and you probably don’t remember more than 10 of their names.
We see eye to eye on this.. I'm cool with being booked for short sessions by guys who don't want to talk AT ALL and only want sex, but these sessions are often not memorable even if I still do my best to provide the best service I can. From what I'm seeing, as a SP.. and maybe this isn't representative of everyone's client base.. Most of my clients want a connection, particularly the ones who come back often. The guys who JUST want sex are usually the same ones who want novelty, like you said. It's my job to accommodate clients like this too and it's also my job to respect their desires and try to fulfill them.. but it makes sense to put the focus on your regular and repeat clients.
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Honestly as a very self conscious person I would 100% think that if I wasnt made aware before the booking takes place.
This is something I'd be happy to offer if someone inquired about it (and I'm a good listener), but if someone simply booked without mentioning their intentions and just showed up being like "yeah we'll just talk" I would want to hide myself and feel embarsssed the entire time thinking I'm too ugly but he stayed out of politeness lol
Or in person your were so radiant that it intimidated him to death
That's more likely to be the case in my experience! But yeah usually clients have told me that's what they wanted beforehand or they have me an explanation that's what they were actually looking for when they arrived. (That only happened twice)Or in person your were so radiant that it intimidated him to death
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