Arrangement or SP?

[curly]

I've been looking at this website with curiosity: www.seekingarrangement.com

And I'm wondering the benefits of arrangement vs escorts.

On one side, you get a "regular", may be cost-effective, probably more genuine than meeting with various escorts, probably less variety.

On the Escort side, you know what you get, most of the time. You get variety, and when you use a reliable agency, some reliability. It also suits your schedule.

Any thoughts? Any experiences out there? What do you guys think?

 

[franky]

[I would suspect you would have better luck with escorts. Most girls seeking arrangements will cerainly cost more than just using escorts. I think arranging such a situation would be difficult and time consuming. Are you willing to go out and find an apartment for her to use? How about a monthly "stipend" of say 2k a month for a nice place.
Far more reasonable would be to find an escort you like, treat her nice and develope a "friendship"
franky

 

[Bob22]

I am wondering if this type of arrangement exists in Montreal.
I visited the web site and didn't find any girl in Montreal or around.
Anybody with experience using this service in Montreal ?

 

[curly]

I am wondering if this type of arrangement exists in Montreal.
I visited the web site and didn't find any girl in Montreal or around.
Anybody with experience using this service in Montreal ?

Search by location, using Quebec as province. You will even find pornstar Karesse in there looking for an arrangement in Montreal.

 

[TheDon]

The advantage of an SP is the "no strings attached". You have sex with an SP, pay her, and then she leaves. No risk of emotional attachment, no chances of girl stocking you or your family or girlfriend/wife.

Arrangements can lead to emotional attachments that you don't want. Last thing you want is a "Fatal Attraction" type of senario to happen.

 

[Ricky bonds]

Search by location, using Quebec as province. You will even find pornstar Karesse in there looking for an arrangement in Montreal.[/QUOT


Come again..?
I didn't see her there...,? Do you remember what type of arrangement she was looking for..?

 

[hungry101]

I've been looking at this website with curiosity: www.seekingarrangement.com

And I'm wondering the benefits of arrangement vs escorts.

On one side, you get a "regular", may be cost-effective, probably more genuine than meeting with various escorts, probably less variety.

On the Escort side, you know what you get, most of the time. You get variety, and when you use a reliable agency, some reliability. It also suits your schedule.

Any thoughts? Any experiences out there? What do you guys think?

Me and my buddy have this conversation all the time. I keep telling him that nothing is free. Usually woman have something in mind. With escorts it is easy. Escorts want 180$ when they enter or when they leave. Fuck buddies appear to be free at first but they have second thoughts. They want respect and want to come clean and...well it is tough to figure out what they really want but 180$ wont cut it. I believe it is best to have an escort. We pay them to leave after we are done with our 1-hour fantasy of playing newlyweds.

I've had affairs and got away with it...or thought I did. One time one of the girls I was banging had a best friend. Her best friend took a new job with my wife. It was nearly 10 years after the fact but the bitch had to come clean because my then wife gave her a ride home. With escorts this shit doesn't happen. OMG I could give you more examples.

 

[Ricky bonds]

I checked it out... I can see how it can be tempting for someone that lives in an area where the sp prices are through the roof,And most of the girls around are chubbys and bbw's..
But in Montreal... At the lowest rate these sugarbabrs are asking..( 3000-5k )..
Let's just say you still pay top dollar and don't get a better rate than the standard 180..?, you could have 16 dates in a month with 3k.
I don't see this working in Mtl.

 

[curly]

Why 3K? Is is the minimum amount for an arrangement?

Could someone share experiences in arrangement? I'm spending between 500$/1K per month, but I must admit being tempted with such arrangement, probably lest empty than with random SPs.... but does it get boring? Quality of the girls also seem nice, from the pics on this website.

 

[Ricky bonds]

I signed up to the site for fun.. And so far the ladys I've spoke to are looking for a source of income ( the lowest a lady asked for was 2500 a month )
so basically this one girl said in exchange for 3000$ I can see her only Friday nights..? That's some pretty expensive p*ssy.. At 750$ a date. And she didn't specify the length, or even the nature of our encounter.
The other girl I communicated with at 2500/month wanted the same type of arrangement, saying she was free 2 nights a week..!( even that would be pricey at 312.50 per date .. 8 times a month..)
this place isn't for me, I could meet a girl on the day to day that will do the job just for occasional shopping sprees.. And out of town time once in a while ( without a fixed monthly rate )
I'm not at all in the tax bracket needed to comfortably have a girl on the pay roll.
And I also enjoy the freedom of selection within montreals ever-growing roster of fresh young talent... So sticking to one lady, for the same amount that can get me at least 15-25 hot encounters is out of the question.
Oh, and it's one of those scam sites where you sign up for free.. And you can't communicate until you upgrade to payed member.
And in the first day they send you messages saying 'so..,and so' wants to meet you.( then when you actually pay, the same lady never responds..?)

 

[hungry101]

Holy Shit Batman this is what you are talking about? I thought we were talking about affairs. Fuck that. Too much for a kept woman anyway.

 

[curly]

After meeting a couple of arrogant and obnoxious girls requesting 3K-5K + shopping just to spend time in their company (lots of restriction, no sex the first night, etc, etc), I finally met an intelligent and pretty 22yo student. Deal is I pay her rent, we meet about once a week for dinner, evening and sex. I pay her every week when we meet. Her hug and kisses were very GFE when I met her. Sounds good so far, money wise equivalent to SP, but longer and more personal encounter. Don't know how long it will last or if I'll become bored. Will keep you posted.

Too good to be true or I'm just lucky? If any of you try this, please post here!

 

[Parkyboy]

I've been seeing a 22 year old student once a week for 16 months now and have done this twice before. I've averaged about 18 months every time. I pay them every week the equivalent of a vip SP. I like meeting the same person as we get to know each other quite well and she becomes a good friend. Very GFE relationship more than with most sp's I've met and also there is no clock watching. I have to admit that it does get a little routine after a year but we always find things to spice it up. The difficult part is finding a girl that does not want you to totally support her (3-5K a month). There are girls who will be quite happy with 1-1.5K a month.

 

[anon_vlad]

I've been seeing a 22 year old student once a week for 16 months now and have done this twice before.

If you don't mind, how do you find them? SugarDaddy, some other site or ?

 

[Parkyboy]

If you don't mind, how do you find them? SugarDaddy, some other site or ?

The first was introduced by a female friend of mine, the two others were from CL on the adult gig section (now gone).

 

[Naturalbeauty]

i find sugardaddy.com and such site are great but be very clear about what you are looking for.....like how many times a week and what you are willing to pay and if there are extras like shopping, travels.

A lot of girls are looking for sugardaddies!!! you just have to be on the same wave length good luck with your search!!! hey maybe ill see you on the site!

xo
NB

 

[curly]

Is the rent on her name or yours ? What if she moves out or you stop paying, will she be kicked out ?

How about paying her a car ? Will it be registered on her name ?

Man... I'm not supid enough to put her rent under my hame.... I pay a fix amount. She's a student and has a roommate, and wants to move by herself. We also discussed how we get out of this relationship at some point without drama. Seems all good so far...

 

[curly]

Last update. My gal is moving to TO this summer, May is our last month. So far, I have to say it was a very pleasing relationship, so I'm not disappointed at all. But I have to admit I got lucky.... not all girls on this system are like her.

 

[EagerBeaver]

curly,

You need to find a replacement arrangement effective June 1. Please let us know how the replacement search goes. I would start now and if you find a replacement, break off with the other one before the end of May. Do not wait.

 

[Davo]

I've also had some success with arrangements, but like it's been written here, it's all about finding the right person. Not always easy and sometimes time consuming. I've had a few longer-term arrangements. One with a lovely art student who was 24 at the time, one with a 37 year old secretary. Both really great people. Both felt comfortable enough (after a few meetings) to invite me to their homes. This made the difference for me. I gave them an average of $300 per rendezvous (usually a long afternoon or evening date). Lately I tried my luck again on one site. Met a very cute lady about 30. She asked me for $1000 per meeting and insisted I book a 4 star hotel room each time. For that kind of change I could book a few rendezvous with HDH's, so I politely declined. It's all about the people involved, and what their expectations are. An arrangement is more like having a "lover". Both options have their merits.