At what point, after meeting someone, do you call it quits?

[Thor Jr]

I think you are answering your own question. If someone is serious and really thinks that they want a real relationship then they wouldn’t be asking the question you are asking.
Why do you want other people to make the decision for you lol?

I think that everyone thought i wanted you to make the decision for me, not at all, just curious if this ever happened to you and what was your reaction in your own experience. I have been in this situation enough that already know what I'm going to do and every situation has been different with a different outcome.

I would like to know, at what point do you call it quits after meeting someone, that someone that you might have a chance of having a lasting relationship with?

So, i was just curious about your reactions in these situations and if you made the same decision each time.

I always do what i need to do, its the same when it comes to choosing an SP, i don't let a review steer me, i decide if i am attracted to her from the basic information provided and then i choose to see her and if its not a great experience, then i can either decide to see her again to see maybe i missed something or i can choose to not have a repeat.

So if anyone is curious, i am still seeing the lady, i have cut back a little on my SP visits, because some promise has shown, but nothing yet that would lead me to call it quits just yet. I think we are just feeling things out for now and not too sure if this is right for both of us, at least this is how i am perceiving the situation. I am in no hurry, I'm having fun.

And if your not curious, then never mind, this isn't a soap opera anyway, lol.

 

[Fradi]

So, i was just curious about your reactions in these situations and if you made the same decision each time.

Yes I have been in this situation and I realized it is a waste of time for me and the lady I was dating.
She was totally gorgeous and I knew her well for many years, she was fun, nice to be with but there was nothing there., just maybe friendship which I knew was not what she was looking for.

Unfortunately I realized that for me there will never be another since cancer took the love of my life who I was with for over 30 years.
In the end it would always come down to an unfair comparison that no one can win.
I have decided to spend my time with my family , friends, grandchildren and I have become friends with a gorgeous young SP who I see regularly and another occasionally who fill the void some what.
If somewhere down the line for some reason I can’t see them anymore then I will just quit and be a full time grandfather.

 

[johnybird]

This brings the question... I've always wondered why people who no longer partake still visit the forums. What do you get out of it? I know that personally I would probably rather spend time with my partner, friends and family than hang out online with strangers on an escort review board if I stopped seeing escorts. So I'm curious why some people still come here (and some very religiously haha) even when they no longer partake in "the hobby".

I enjoy and am interested in reading other people's experiences and opinions on the different subjects posted here on the board. I spend plenty of time with friends and family, never had any issues there even when I was in the hobby, I'm not on these forums on a daily basis. I'll check every once in a while. Do I still have to partake in the hobby to share some of my experiences and opinions? It's like any other form of entertainment. Plus if I ever decide to jump back into the hobby I'll be all up to date!