At what point, after meeting someone, do you call it quits?

[Julia Sky]

Hmm maybe! But then this cancels the idea of "I was fulfilled so I don't feel like I missing out on anything anymore", if you feel the need to live vicariously through people who see escorts maybe you do feel like you're missing out! Lol

(I'm not judging btw, I'm just genuinely curious. The human brain is fascinating)

 

[Fradi]

I would like to know, at what point do you call it quits after meeting someone, that someone that you might have a chance of having a lasting relationship with?

I think you are answering your own question. If someone is serious and really thinks that they want a real relationship then they wouldn’t be asking the question you are asking.
Why do you want other people to make the decision for you lol?

 

[Thor Jr]

I think you are answering your own question. If someone is serious and really thinks that they want a real relationship then they wouldn’t be asking the question you are asking.
Why do you want other people to make the decision for you lol?

I think that everyone thought i wanted you to make the decision for me, not at all, just curious if this ever happened to you and what was your reaction in your own experience. I have been in this situation enough that already know what I'm going to do and every situation has been different with a different outcome.

I would like to know, at what point do you call it quits after meeting someone, that someone that you might have a chance of having a lasting relationship with?

So, i was just curious about your reactions in these situations and if you made the same decision each time.

I always do what i need to do, its the same when it comes to choosing an SP, i don't let a review steer me, i decide if i am attracted to her from the basic information provided and then i choose to see her and if its not a great experience, then i can either decide to see her again to see maybe i missed something or i can choose to not have a repeat.

So if anyone is curious, i am still seeing the lady, i have cut back a little on my SP visits, because some promise has shown, but nothing yet that would lead me to call it quits just yet. I think we are just feeling things out for now and not too sure if this is right for both of us, at least this is how i am perceiving the situation. I am in no hurry, I'm having fun.

And if your not curious, then never mind, this isn't a soap opera anyway, lol.

 

[Fradi]

So, i was just curious about your reactions in these situations and if you made the same decision each time.

Yes I have been in this situation and I realized it is a waste of time for me and the lady I was dating.
She was totally gorgeous and I knew her well for many years, she was fun, nice to be with but there was nothing there., just maybe friendship which I knew was not what she was looking for.

Unfortunately I realized that for me there will never be another since cancer took the love of my life who I was with for over 30 years.
In the end it would always come down to an unfair comparison that no one can win.
I have decided to spend my time with my family , friends, grandchildren and I have become friends with a gorgeous young SP who I see regularly and another occasionally who fill the void some what.
If somewhere down the line for some reason I can’t see them anymore then I will just quit and be a full time grandfather.

 

[johnybird]

This brings the question... I've always wondered why people who no longer partake still visit the forums. What do you get out of it? I know that personally I would probably rather spend time with my partner, friends and family than hang out online with strangers on an escort review board if I stopped seeing escorts. So I'm curious why some people still come here (and some very religiously haha) even when they no longer partake in "the hobby".

I enjoy and am interested in reading other people's experiences and opinions on the different subjects posted here on the board. I spend plenty of time with friends and family, never had any issues there even when I was in the hobby, I'm not on these forums on a daily basis. I'll check every once in a while. Do I still have to partake in the hobby to share some of my experiences and opinions? It's like any other form of entertainment. Plus if I ever decide to jump back into the hobby I'll be all up to date!