Blowjobs

[gurgeh85]

Okay, so I've crossed a frontier of some type by bringing this subject up, but I'm going to throw it out there...

There are two different types of blowjobs...

1, The lady is just kind of moving her mouth up and down on your dick, which means you might cum in like 20 or 30 minutes.

2, The lady is providing some kind of suction on your dick, which means you're gripping the mattress for dear life and saying things like, "Oh my God!" and "Holy shit!"

So, is it ever appropriate to tap lady #1 on the shoulder and instruct her in how to do #2?

 

[Halloween Mike]

I think putting a minimum of succion and pulling the skin down is a must do, a normal thing. If she does not do it, its probably she does not feel like it, she want to do it the easier way to save some work and such... so "coaching her" won't help much. BUT the speed, the little side things like licking the balls, that can vary from one guy to another so yeah you can mention it... Personally i would had trouble saying something, i mean she is a "pro" after all, its her job, so that would be weird to try to tell her how to do, and like i said most of the time if they don't do certain things its they don't want to...

 

[BookerL]

Boyzs and Girlzs


A very wet Blowjob mixed with interval of HJ and lots of suction ,eye contact ,some added lubricant to make it sloppy and slippery .Mix speeds
Alternate with some wet Daty and 69 ,its fun when she moans and her toes curls !


Cheers


Booker

 

[gurgeh85]

Mocha & Mike touched on this, so I'll bring it back. The problem is, how do you ask a woman to do it differently without offending her? And am I being too much of a weenie by not simply saying, "Suck it harder, baby!" I'm sure different people would have different opinions on this... I generally let the lady do it as she wants. A weak BJ is still a BJ after all, but this happens too often IMO and I want to know if it pisses ladies off to receive criticism in their technique, or if it's okay for a guy to ask for something more.

 

[Lily from Montreal]

Of course you have to say how you like it,every person is different,some likes to have theirs balls touched,some not at all...some like fast,some likes more sensual...there is no ''good or bad ''way ...and HM ,it is because the lady is a pro that she won't get offended but she is not a mind reader ....
Like Mucha said it is ok to tell what turns you on,or not...myself I do not like when someone touches my ears, I know it is weird but for me ears are not an erogenous zone,only purpose of ears (beside hearing lol) is as a glasses holder...so when a date lick my ears I will say not to do that because he probably had sex with a lady who did enjoy it...how can he know I do not like that if I say nothing...it goes both way...

 

[themonk83]

am i the only who doesn't like to get the skin pull back? i can't hit full erection when its pulled back because blood flow is disrupted

 

[juste moi]

am i the only who doesn't like to get the skin pull back? i can't hit full erection when its pulled back because blood flow is disrupted

...that sounds like me 20 years ago....needed to get that fixed.....look into that with a eurologue it could get worst but when fixed man its awsome.....look into that the monk .....

 

[wantbigbreasted]

I like my skin pulled back down hard with right hand and sucking at the head while left hand holding the balls and looking into my eyes.
But it is not always concentrating on the dick.
Time to time licking and biting in groin and inner thigh area also is very exciting for me.

 

[themonk83]

...that sounds like me 20 years ago....needed to get that fixed.....look into that with a eurologue it could get worst but when fixed man its awsome.....look into that the monk .....

wait, but it doesn't give me any problems. once fully erect, the skin will pull back by itself. i just don't enjoy when one pulls it down before full erection

 

[Amelie.courtesan]

hehehe, thing is, some guys like hand, no hand, pulled back, not pulled back, no skin to pull back, suction, no suction, hell even actual blowing
Everyone likes it differently, and we are professionals, everything is better for everyone if both parties feel free to share what they enjoy and not enjoy!

Just my two cents

 

[Halloween Mike]

Hum i may try that next time i have a subpar BJ, lol thanks ladies.

 

[cobra1]

hehehe, thing is, some guys like hand, no hand, pulled back, not pulled back, no skin to pull back, suction, no suction, hell even actual blowing
Everyone likes it differently, and we are professionals, everything is better for everyone if both parties feel free to share what they enjoy and not enjoy!

Just my two cents

exactly we are not mind readers
communicate in a gentle and positive manner
and all will be fine

 

[hormone]

There are two different types of blowjobs...

1, The lady is just kind of moving her mouth up and down on your dick, which means you might cum in like 20 or 30 minutes.

2, The lady is providing some kind of suction on your dick, which means you're gripping the mattress for dear life and saying things like, "Oh my God!" and "Holy shit!"

So, is it ever appropriate to tap lady #1 on the shoulder and instruct her in how to do #2?

Actually, as alluded, there are MANY types of blow jobs. Sometimes I want to be turned on and prepared for FS... sometimes I like to be brought to the verge (oups... sorry did not intend this play on words) and stop... and repeat... Sometimes I want to explode... Really it depends. I can't say that all ladies should be sucking you so hard you hang on to the bed... he he he..

And yes, it,s totally appropriate to ask to do it differently... Just be nice about it... when you don't know the person!

 

[gurgeh85]

Thanks, ladies! I appreciate your two cents! I've had it happen that a woman would go down on me and within the first five seconds I'd think, "Well, that's not going to work." But what to say?

You have to understand what guys are dealing with sometimes. I know a woman who is well-known for her oral and is also well-known as a control freak. The first time I was with her, at some point, she told me, "I love it when a guy takes charge." So, is she a control freak or not? The only way to really find out is to take control and find out her limits on your own, I guess.

I just wanted to know what to say to a woman who is giving a weak BJ & I've gotten my answer...Thanks!

 

[Sol Tee Nutz]

Married too long and hate condoms, prefer an excellent blowjob to CFS and Non CFS is out of the equation.

 

[PSEfreak]

The type of blowjob I prefer are the one's performed willingly

 

[Numerati]

From my encounters I can say this. If her purpose is just to get you hard for sex the bj will not be so enthusiastic. If her purpose is CIM with or without swallowing bj would be out of this world amazing.

 

[montreal_guy00]

Do you guys get pissed off when you have to keep telling an SP not to use teeth or extreme suction during a blowjob over and over and over.

 

[Robert 21]

Do you guys get pissed off when you have to keep telling an SP not to use teeth or extreme suction during a blowjob over and over and over.

I find the BJ, CBJ, and My Fav the BBBJ...a Gift, that I truly ENJOY!!!
I’m trying to think...no, no teeth, unless She is being Playful (careful).
I may ask or motion for BLS, or to go Lower....YES YES YES!!!


***BJs ARE GIFTS, TY***

 

[chowzilla]

i feel like there is a category 3 for blowjob queens. The ones who pride themselves on their abilities.

its all about technique bro.