Falling in love with your SP/MP

[Christian32]

If we ignore the know answers: "This is the worst possible idea ever", "You should do everything to remove that of you head", "You should consider getting castrated"...

And considering that it might be reciprocal or at least the SP/MP is showing interest to bring the relation on another level,

How should someone handle this "good" situation to get more intimate with their SP/MP?

Ask personal questions immediately?
Ask for their social media contact?
Invite them for a dinner date?
Invite them for a few hours in at in a Spa?
Invite them at your place for real sex (possibly no condom)?
Propose to pay for their time for that date?

 

[chinavibez]

No, no, no. For their sake and yours. It’s happened to me a few quite a few times where I’ve gotten phone numbers given, etc. anecdotally the transition doesn’t work.
Go in, enjoy the wonderful time shared with your favourite SP and then leave. No falling in love.

 

[Numerati]

mysiteonly very on point. Love them but don't be in love with them. It will ruin it if it crosses that line if there is one. Also see it that she gives her real name and number (which I am sure it is not her real cell) as a sign of trust and let it be that.

 

[Aspirine]

I do dinner dates, overnights. But it pretty much ends there. I love them. But I am not in love with them. Big difference.

Exactly how it should be! I got a few favorite SP that I see sometimes for dinner and crazy good overnights...but we both know where is the line

 

[sene5hos]

We must never forget one thing: it's their job.

And when there is money involved it affects things.

 

[Christian32]

I can't believe that no one ever managed to go from paying for someone time to not paying. Probably that they we still offering something, just not money. I wonder what this something was.

In one case that the SP gave me her personal phone number, I think she saw me as a good step dad. It didn't workout.

 

[Francoquart]

Why should there that limitation? If he falls in love with an SP, why shouldn't he give it a try? So what if it fails? Most relations do fail in the end. I know some people who actually ended up marrying their fav escorts. However, you need to know that what you get from her as an SP, is not what you will actually get in a relation.

 

[minutemenX]

This topic has been discussed on this board before at nauseam. There were even several quite franc testimonials from the parties involved. The short summary: it usually does not work. However, there were a couple of notable outliers. As with any human relation any statement is statistical by nature.

 

[Flyingby]

Thank you minutemenx. Painstaking how many time this has been covered. Like the price charged. A repeat topic

 

[The Nature Boy]

Here’s a thread to start. Any stories of a SP being obsessed with a client

 

[cloudsurf]

Here’s a thread to start. Any stories of a SP being obsessed with a client

I heard it happening with 2 very popular ladies .....but in each case the guy was married. Some escorts are into male strippers , but only as ff.

 

[Fradi]

Here’s a thread to start. Any stories of a SP being obsessed with a client

Yes you can do it too it is not that difficult.
Show her a copy of a winning lottery ticket, simple really you pick the exact numbers of the winning ticket from the previous week and show it to her with last weeks winning draw.
She will be obsessed with you until she figures out the trick.
Probably last time she will see you, not all have a sense of humour about these things.
It is worth the 5 bucks to see the look on her face lol.

 

[The Nature Boy]

I heard it happening with 2 very popular ladies .....but in each case the guy was married. Some escorts are into male strippers , but only as ff.

Heard about it too. Younger bloke. Not married. Was kickin it to another lady (civies) simultaneously and ended up with her instead

 

[bamjay]

Heard about it too. Younger bloke. Not married. Was kickin it to another lady (civies) simultaneously and ended up with her instead

It happened to me, too. It all started over a year ago. Actually she's still kind of obsessed with me, but has calmed down a little bit. I don't want to go into any more details for privacy reasons.

 

[etalon69]

No it usually doesnt work out. Does not mean that its not possible but the odds are very low that it will work.

 

[Flyingby]

I think you can fall in love with an sp/mp. I think it could work out if you are open and accepting.
but not with YOUR sp/mp. Not sure how long and how healthy that relationship can be with the way it started

 

[Fradi]

Why would an SP fall in love with a guy who visits escorts.
I hope they are smarter than that, he is obviously not to be trusted.

 

[bamjay]

Why would an SP fall in love with a guy who visits escorts.
I hope they are smarter than that, he is obviously not to be trusted.

Why would a guy fall in love with an SP who has sex for money?
I hope they are smarter than that, she is obviously not to be trusted.

 

[marky1234]

Call her tonight and tell her not to book any client this weekend because you want her to join you for a romantic trip to Quebec city. She should understand by the word romantic that you are not hiring her. Rent a nice convertible to impress her like any guy would do with a regular girl, it is gonna be warm saturday and sunday so perfect days to drive with your hair in the wind! Let us know what the answer is. I am curious. It could work.

 

[neverbored]

Unless you tell me she knows everything about you and more importantly, that you know everything about her... you're in lust.
You can't possibly be in love with someone who's favorites you don't know or share... just my 2 cents.