Clits are not DJ booths and you are not a DJ

[LC18]

Clits are very sensitive, please be mindful of that when playing with them.

1. Wash your hands

2. Trim your nails

3. Some women don’t like it being touched because of how sensitive it is so always ask first

4. Works best when lubed otherwise it feels like starting a campfire. Oral and lube are a good way to get it started

5. Apply gentle pressure, it’s not a panic button and there’s no need to push it hard. Now would be a good time to use the famous “you like that baby?” to know if what you’re doing feels right to your partner

6. Be very mindful when using toys. Once again because of how sensitive it is

7. Moving your hand rapidly in all directions isn’t exactly doing what you think it is

8. Don't tighten the skin by opening the inner lips and holding them tight on the side so you can see the precious in clear sight. It hurts. It could be compared with lowering down and holding tight the skin at the bottom of the penis and start masturbating without lube with the other hand. Let the skin move naturally!

 

[Sylar]

I've practiced all my life

 

[Giselle Montreal]

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Clits are very sensitive, please be mindful of that when playing with them.

- Wash your hands
- Trim your nails
- Some women don’t like it being touched because of how sensitive it is so always ask first
- Works best when lubed otherwise it feels like starting a campfire. Oral and lube are a good way to get it started
- Apply gentle pressure, it’s not a panic button and there’s no need to push it hard. Now would be a good time to use the famous “you like that baby?” to know if what you’re doing feels right to your partner
- Be very mindful when using toys. Once again because of how sensitive it is
- Moving your hand rapidly in all directions isn’t exactly doing what you think it is

- Don't tighten the skin by opening the inner lips and holding them tight on the side so you can see the precious in clear sight. It hurts. I could compare this with lowering down and holding tight the skin at the bottom of the penis and start masturbating without lube with the other hand. Let the skin move naturally!

 

[Sylar]

So you can see the precious in clear sight.

I almost choked. Thank you Giselle!

 

[LC18]

- Don't tighten the skin by opening the inner lips and holding them tight on the side so you can see the precious in clear sight. It hurts. I could compare this with lowering down and holding tight the skin at the bottom of the penis and start masturbating without lube with the other hand. Let the skin move naturally!

What an horrible image but thank you because that’s 100% true let me add it to the main post

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

C’est certainement très pertinent comme thread, je suis de ceux qui demandent toujours du feed-back pour ce genre de choses, et, en effet, c’est préférable de commencer doucement!

Mais j’ai quand même été confronté à certaines demandes qui étaient nettement du côté plus brutal. Tout les goûts sont dans la nature, comme le veux l’adage.

 

[LC18]

Mais j’ai quand même été confronté à certaines demandes qui étaient nettement du côté plus brutal. Tout les goûts sont dans la nature, comme le veux l’adage.

Comme pour tout mais ce n’est pas la norme et je pense qu’on ne commencerait pas en donnant des coups de fouets meme si c’était le souhait de la personne. C’est toujours mieux d’attendre la lumière verte, les phrases “plus fort” et “plus vite” me viennent en tête

 

[MCTJ]

On a related note, have you encountered men who pinch and twist nipples??

 

[Giselle Montreal]

On a related note, have you encountered men who pinch and twist nipples??

Yes... Too many.

 

[LC18]

On a related note, have you encountered men who pinch and twist nipples??

Yes but lucky for me they asked before doing it

 

[Julia Sky]

On a related note, have you encountered men who pinch and twist nipples??

I have. I actually enjoy it when it's not extreme (like please don't pinch until your fingers touch each other and I scream in pain lol), to me a pinch feels better than softly brushing on them. My nipples are EXTREMELY sensitive and sometimes the softer stuff feels overwhelming in a weird way so I prefer a pinch lol