Late 50s. Been married a few times, in a long-term relationship now. I only hobby once or twice a year, and I do it for a few reasons...I kind of got hooked on the excitement of the knock on the hotel room door, and I also like threesomes and my lady is not into it. However, she does reap the benefits of me getting reinvigorated by spending some time with a couple 20-year-olds from time to time.
I don't talk to her about "the hobby." If I found out she was sneaking out once or twice a year, would I get mad? Of course not. That wouldn't be fair, would it?
The downside...as recently as 10 years ago, I could see six escorts in a day without using phamaceuticals. Those days are long gone. It's all I can do to see three in a day (a duo and a "nightcap" with a solo performer) even with the blue pill.