Get this I meet this woman about 5 weeks ago and we hit it off real good, alot of passion between us and the sex is awesome....... I figured out 2 weeks ago she is an escort "SHIT"........... Now I have a serious conflict between my brain and my johnson....... who do you think will win ?
Damm Girlfriend issue !
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who always wins??? Just keep dating her, and you can keep seeing escorts on the side! Its a win-win situation! Worse case senario, she finds out what u are doing, and u just say so what, she does the same thing!
You actually got it pretty good! You have an escort that is 100% GFE seeing how she is your gf...
You actually got it pretty good! You have an escort that is 100% GFE seeing how she is your gf...
I don't know !
Being with an escort is one thing having an esort as a girl friend is really fu__ed up ! She only works 2 days a week but what am I supposed to say too her when she leaves for work have a good day but don't work too hard...lol
Worst/ Best thing is the sex with her is soo good I haven't been with an escort or even a strip bar in 5 weeks !
Being with an escort is one thing having an esort as a girl friend is really fu__ed up ! She only works 2 days a week but what am I supposed to say too her when she leaves for work have a good day but don't work too hard...lol
Worst/ Best thing is the sex with her is soo good I haven't been with an escort or even a strip bar in 5 weeks !
Big Dog, I understand your dilemma, but I think we are getting into double standard here. It is OK for you to see other SP but not OK for her to see clients?
And you are probably more in the wrong cause you are doing it behind her back and paying for it, whereas she told you about it and she makes money out of it (ok the money part is shallow)
How about a novel idea you tell her also
This brings an interesting question which I will probably start in a new thread:
Why do we start seeing SP? Would you want to see SP if you were in love and harmony with the one you are with?
So keep dating her for now, the answer might come later as the relationship develops.
(actually this new thread I was talking about would be too personal for me, forget it. Better to have loved and lost than to have never loved before)
And you are probably more in the wrong cause you are doing it behind her back and paying for it, whereas she told you about it and she makes money out of it (ok the money part is shallow)
How about a novel idea you tell her also
This brings an interesting question which I will probably start in a new thread:
Why do we start seeing SP? Would you want to see SP if you were in love and harmony with the one you are with?
So keep dating her for now, the answer might come later as the relationship develops.
(actually this new thread I was talking about would be too personal for me, forget it. Better to have loved and lost than to have never loved before)
Gor for it...unless???
Hello Bigdog,
So let's take a good look at this. You have what we all fantasize about ....sexually anyway. You have a totally hot escort who gives it to you for free. So what do you want out of it? If you want to have fun without strings...go for it. If you want a relationship eventually, you may have to bail out right now.
If you want a monogamous relationship you have make it clear to her what your intentions are, and find out what her interests are too. Perhaps there can be a meeting of interests here. But we all know that escorts aren't likely to suddenly become loyal to one guy. I know some that have multiple boyfriends and still work like dedicated escorts. In short, don't let any delusions linger for your own sake. Decide what you really want, see if there is some agreement, make your best choice and try to live with it without regrets.
Good luck,
Korbel
Hello Bigdog,
So let's take a good look at this. You have what we all fantasize about ....sexually anyway. You have a totally hot escort who gives it to you for free. So what do you want out of it? If you want to have fun without strings...go for it. If you want a relationship eventually, you may have to bail out right now.
If you want a monogamous relationship you have make it clear to her what your intentions are, and find out what her interests are too. Perhaps there can be a meeting of interests here. But we all know that escorts aren't likely to suddenly become loyal to one guy. I know some that have multiple boyfriends and still work like dedicated escorts. In short, don't let any delusions linger for your own sake. Decide what you really want, see if there is some agreement, make your best choice and try to live with it without regrets.
Good luck,
Korbel
Love Big Tits ; No there is no double standard I haven't seen another SP or even gone to a Strip Bar for that matter since I'm with her.... Because partially what freaks me out is that if I was to do something dirty with a Stripper or An SP it would just make me think of what her job actually is ! Having a loved one do dirty shit with u is cool but that same loved one going and doing it with other people also...hmmmm I don't know!!!!
Tis a puzzlement
I can only imagine the amount of self confidence a man has to have to have his girlfriend or wife in the business. I know several strippers whose husbands throughly support their lap dancing, and one escort who has a long term significant other. I am both amazed and awed by the mens abilities to disconnect the job from their emotions. I don't know if I'd be that strong. Big dog if you are.... Good on ya! cheers
I can only imagine the amount of self confidence a man has to have to have his girlfriend or wife in the business. I know several strippers whose husbands throughly support their lap dancing, and one escort who has a long term significant other. I am both amazed and awed by the mens abilities to disconnect the job from their emotions. I don't know if I'd be that strong. Big dog if you are.... Good on ya! cheers
Big Dog said:
If what she does bothers you that much then you're not cut for it and will only cause turmoil for you and her later.
You can't have your cake and eat it, too. If she had told you what she did before you began dating, would you be experiencing this inner conflict or would you be with another girl whose lifestyle you could stomach?
BD,
Is she a well known SP? How did you find out she's an escort? What agency does she work at? What does she expect from your relationship?
Is she a well known SP? How did you find out she's an escort? What agency does she work at? What does she expect from your relationship?
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quick your complainning BD
what are you complainning about ? you just won the lottery. Think about your current situation. Most women you date will shun the fact that you are a hobbyist. With an sp you dont have to explain yourself nor does she. The sex is great and look on the bright side you can either
1. save money on your hobby
2. shes making a killing on your 401k
what's the problem? Obviously there is a double standard in that it's ok for one to frequence an sp and not think twice until she's " your girlfriend". How many girls out there are giving it up for nothing that we havent even though about. There is no issue here life is short and happiness is far and is shortage. Make the best of it if you are so agaisnt it then dont be a hypocrate and find a way to help her out of the business. Exclusivity of the goods can be expensive.
what are you complainning about ? you just won the lottery. Think about your current situation. Most women you date will shun the fact that you are a hobbyist. With an sp you dont have to explain yourself nor does she. The sex is great and look on the bright side you can either
1. save money on your hobby
2. shes making a killing on your 401k
what's the problem? Obviously there is a double standard in that it's ok for one to frequence an sp and not think twice until she's " your girlfriend". How many girls out there are giving it up for nothing that we havent even though about. There is no issue here life is short and happiness is far and is shortage. Make the best of it if you are so agaisnt it then dont be a hypocrate and find a way to help her out of the business. Exclusivity of the goods can be expensive.
wouldn`t it be funny if you call for an escort and your girlfriends shows up at the door..
then charges u extra for
then charges u extra for
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Actually, that`s not a bad thought A$$LoVeR. Maybe you could try booking her for an hour if you want to have that big talk. It would be a good way to break the ice and just put it all out there.
A$$LoVeR said:wouldn`t it be funny if you call for an escort and your girlfriends shows up at the door..
then charges u extra for
C'mon now! You don't LOVE this girl. I mean, the only thing you've offered to us (besides that she's an SP) is that the sex is great. I don't mean to be harsh or presumptuous, but I sense your attachment is solely based on the sex. No problem there, just recognize it...and hopefully you can get through it. I'm guessing that you also have found out in week 3 for a reason...this could be the point where it will continue (if you get through this) or end...and she likely knows it.Big Dog said:
My advice...don't change how you treat her or force her to choose...and the the great sex will continue.
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