Danger of bbfs

[Bonclay20]

I saw a girl recently and she was really amazing. But then when I was asked her menu, to my surprise, she offered bbfs. I obviously didn’t partake but it gave me chills. At that moment, I asked for a hat and continued its course since I was already very turned on.

Now I’m wondering what’s everyone though, would you have walked away? Would you see that girl again? She was really good and I’d repeat but her practice got me worried. My little brain is telling me just be careful and repeat but I’m worried for my safety if I do go see her again.

I won’t tell her name, please don’t ask.

 

[PSEfreak]

The title of your thread a question ?

The dangers are clear.
I was offered BBFS from a booker as an option a few weeks ago. I’m glad he did. Walk away baby

 

[LeDodo]

I got a pretty similar situation but I learnt about it after the deed ...

 

[throwaway1234535]

I'm surprised to hear so many of you have been propositioned. Maybe because i generally avoid the LL scene. Too risky...

 

[Salbandini]

I'm surprised to hear so many of you have been propositioned. Maybe because i generally avoid the LL scene. Too risky...

Its not just the ll scene

 

[Salbandini]

The title of your thread a question ?

The dangers are clear.
I was offered BBFS from a booker as an option a few weeks ago. I’m glad he did. Walk away baby

A booker? Thats even worse lol

 

[Bonclay20]

I'm surprised to hear so many of you have been propositioned. Maybe because i generally avoid the LL scene. Too risky...

It wasn’t ll, it was from an agency

 

[Bonclay20]

The title of your thread a question ?

The dangers are clear.
I was offered BBFS from a booker as an option a few weeks ago. I’m glad he did. Walk away baby

Thanks for the input, I guess I have to resist not seeing her again

 

[Like_It_Hot]

I saw a girl recently and she was really amazing. But then when I was asked her menu, to my surprise, she offered bbfs. I obviously didn’t partake but it gave me chills. At that moment, I asked for a hat and continued its course since I was already very turned on.

Now I’m wondering what’s everyone though, would you have walked away? Would you see that girl again? She was really good and I’d repeat but her practice got me worried. My little brain is telling me just be careful and repeat but I’m worried for my safety if I do go see her again.

I won’t tell her name, please don’t ask.

This discussion is legit but I think it would be better to discuss it in the LOUNGE or in the HEALTH INFO within the GENERAL AREA.

 

[LeDodo]

I'm surprised to hear so many of you have been propositioned. Maybe because i generally avoid the LL scene. Too risky...

Its not just the ll scene

It wasn’t ll, it was from an agency

It was an agency for me also and not in Canada.

 

[HL99]

I'm surprised to hear so many of you have been propositioned. Maybe because i generally avoid the LL scene. Too risky...

It happened to me twice last year.

One time at "very popular French agency" where the girl just wanted to hop on without a condom and without asking.

Another time at "small Asian agency" where the girl asked me if I'm ok without condom - uh, no...

Both meetings were from ads here on merb.

 

[throwaway1234535]

It was an agency for me also and not in Canada.

Yeah not in Canada seems likely. but any reputable agency in Canada offering bbfs, that also from the booker, is absolutely insane and should be avoided like the plague. Genuinely wish there was a way to combat and boycott such places without promoting them.

This discussion is legit but I think it would be better to discuss it in the LOUNGE or in the HEALTH INFO within the GENERAL AREA.

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Also definitely need to move the thread. Can a mod help do that please?

 

[PSEfreak]

It wasn’t ll, it was from an agency

Asian on LL receiving on South Shore.
Previously reviewed on MERB and the thread disappeared

 

[kirankumar]

I'm surprised to hear so many of you have been propositioned. Maybe because i generally avoid the LL scene. Too risky...

Could be the reason. I also am not much into leolist and was never offered bbfs thankfully

 

[LC18]

Choosing to continue seeing someone you know for sure does this is a choice and a silly one in my opinion. You voluntarily increase risks of contracting a STI

Your health is too precious for you to be this reckless

 

[LC18]

This discussion is legit but I think it would be better to discuss it in the LOUNGE or in the HEALTH INFO within the GENERAL AREA.

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Doesn’t matter where he posts, it will be locked as discussing this is against the rules

 

[ForeverEscorts]

The ladies and the clients who make or seek risky offers are usually the ones who won’t read this thread, so having this conversation mainly reaches people who are already aware of the risks.

That said, I must admit I’m still mind blowned to hear some clients say things like: “I don’t have time to get tested, the last time was years ago,” or “I don’t have any symptoms, so there’s no need.” I automatically ban those.

If you engage in this hobby on a regular basis, you should get tested very regularly : for everyone’s safety. I’m very annoying with that, but it’s a responsability on all ends. And of course, never see a provider who claims to offer risky services, and always report it to her booker.

 

[Salbandini]

Choosing to continue seeing someone you know for sure does this is a choice and a silly one in my opinion. You voluntarily increase risks of contracting a STI

Your health is too precious for you to be this reckless

Whats more worrysome and dumb imo is that no one who knows what. Op makes a post about being offered , “ i wont mention the name but i wanna see her again” theres yours problem. So we know this persons doing this sp is doing thjs now we dont know who it is so more and more will be offered partake and well there you have it .

 

[Lexus3]

I'm surprised to hear so many of you have been propositioned. Maybe because i generally avoid the LL scene. Too risky...

It's not only the LL scene, there is an Asian agency that was actually promoting this on their website for a while.
And is not only STI that you can catch

 

[Lunaseraphim]

I suspect some of the people who post about this and comment on these threads are trying to find out which SPs offer it even if they act outraged over it lol ..

Maybe this will sound off topic but it's more common than you think for clients to bully or manipulate girls who are new and vulnerable into bbfs, or to remove the condom when they see these girls.

Last summer I think I had one person or people (who knows) message me from a fake phone number to ask for bbfs almost almost every day for months. Some of the messages were bragging about doing it with agency girls "on purpose"... Around the same time a friend told me her friend who worked for an agency was pressured by a popular Merb user who then forced her and removed the condom. I don't remember who it was but I had a similar experience of a big reviewer asking me for bbfs as soon as he got to my place in 2022. Obviously I didn't do it but he got aggressive afterwards and it was a very traumatic booking.

That's also why you have to get tested more often if it's that common.. obviously the risk of someone having STI is way higher if she does bareback with a lot of random dudes, and you may not know that she does, or that one of the clients who saw her also saw a SP you just saw.

I think it says a lot if it is true that a lot of SP are offering this.. it shows there's a demand for it and there are economic pressures pushing them to do these things. I don't think anyone should be offering these and I think potentially if a girl is doing that chances are she's really not well mentally and in a bad situation, so maybe if that happens at an agency someone could intervene, I don't know.. I've heard of high end girls who are very low volume offering them for a higher rate, but that's not the context we're talking about here