Danger of bbfs
- Thread starter Bonclay20
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What difference does that make.
Stupid comes in all shapes and sizes and in every age group, and so does being a douche bag.
If you have half a brain you want to protect yourself as much as possible and not put others at risk either.
You don’t want to wear a condom, go find yourself a girlfriend.
I am over 50 and would never see an escort who would not insist on a condom.
You didn't understand my tone...
I was using an example of the kind of excuse someone could give in order to take risks like this one. It could also be "the world is ending so might as well engage in risky behavior" or "nothing bad ever happens to me so why would this be different".. "I'm old so might as well take risks cause you only live once" is a similar excuse. It could very well be "I'm really young and people my age rarely face health problems" or "why would this happen when I'm just beginning this" as well.
Do you see what I mean now? I was using that example because someone else brought it up, not me. I don't feel like you even read my comments.
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When I started seeing escorts about ten years ago, I had major anxiety about STIs. I accessed various medical studies (using my academic credentials) on the topic in order to estimate the risk that I was facing in having unprotected oral and protected intercourse. I became quite knowledgeable on the topic of STIs, even if a risk estimate remained elusive. I also even called a free telephone line about HIV on a few occasions to be reassured. Fast forward ten years (and a total of zero STI acquired, confirmed by frequent testing), I realize how effective condoms are, and my anxiety has greatly diminished. As a responsible adult I do not understand those who have unprotected penetrative sex with casual partners. One thing for sure though: they are less anxious than I am!
Been seeing escorts for about 10 years now and I have been offered BBFS for an extra price. I personally would never accept this cause there's just way too many risky factors. And I also try not to partake in any LFK or DFK unless I know the person a little bit more. The most I'll do is BBBJ. It's happened once where this girl was jerking me off and rubbing my chest, she immediately tried to get on top and she put the tip-in with no protection. I was in euphoria for a sec and I didn't notice and quickly stopped her and asked for protection. I was so paranoid after that and I got tested to be safe (thankfully I didn't get anything). But after that, I had to take a break for a few months. Point is, if you ever plan on doing it, I suggest you ask them for a recent STD test.
Unless that test was taken as they were driving to see you that day (and even then) it's a waste of time too. Bottom line, if you're fucking raw you're running a bigger risk.
