Did a SP ever say something that hurt your feelings?

[jonmon]

I only went a couple times, so I was a bit awkward both times. btw I don't think the SP was trying to be mean, I walked into it.

I am on the younger side, so I asked "do you usually get client my age?" and she replied "No mostly old married men"

This made me feel like everyone else could get women, and I was a defunct young man.

I mean there is truth in that lol, but randomly made me feel bad.

Anyway, kinda funny to talk about your feeeling as the client as one would imagine its way more intense for the SP but I wanted to share that story.

I don't feel to self conscious or bad about it and don't think she was mean but still, made me realize to be careful what I say or else the fantasy might take a sour turn lol.

 

[jonmon]

Pretty sure if you pay up and wash your dick you’ll be just fine like the rest of the Johns. Good news is you’re probably about to get fake sympathy from sp’s on here because every defunct John is a perfect target.

lmao. like I said I don't feel too bad about this, im just curious to hear stories of other people who got in a similar situation.

 

[amirrima]

I only went a couple times, so I was a bit awkward both times. btw I don't think the SP was trying to be mean, I walked into it.

I am on the younger side, so I asked "do you usually get client my age?" and she replied "No mostly old married men"

This made me feel like everyone else could get women, and I was a defunct young man.

I mean there is truth in that lol, but randomly made me feel bad.

Anyway, kinda funny to talk about your feeeling as the client as one would imagine its way more intense for the SP but I wanted to share that story.

I don't feel to self conscious or bad about it and don't think she was mean but still, made me realize to be careful what I say or else the fantasy might take a sour turn lol.

Nah you are better than the old married men because most of them cheat on their wives and risk their children future. Just try to not become like them. My personal opinion tho you are free to do as you please.

 

[AirBo]

"I don't love you"

 

[Jaxan]

Thats it?

 

[amirrima]

I asked same question and got same reply.

 

[AirBo]

"That was quick!"

 

[Jaxan]

"That was quick!"

What are we gonna do for the other 59 minutes? lol

 

[AirBo]

• "Usually yes I do this, but not tonight"
• "My boyfriend has a really big dick"
• "I really like you but..."

 

[Thane]

"Pound my Cake Daddy"
It hurt so bad...

 

[Thane]

I only went a couple times, so I was a bit awkward both times. btw I don't think the SP was trying to be mean, I walked into it.

I am on the younger side, so I asked "do you usually get client my age?" and she replied "No mostly old married men"

This made me feel like everyone else could get women, and I was a defunct young man.

I mean there is truth in that lol, but randomly made me feel bad.

Anyway, kinda funny to talk about your feeeling as the client as one would imagine its way more intense for the SP but I wanted to share that story.

I don't feel to self conscious or bad about it and don't think she was mean but still, made me realize to be careful what I say or else the fantasy might take a sour turn lol.

Try to take things constructively.
You asked her a question and she answered honestly. Would you prefer she lied to you?
Try to learn from things and improve yourself.
There is nothing wrong with you but always room for improvement.

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

"I don't love you"

Dude, trust me, it’s better that than ” I love you $$$”

 

[AirBo]

You asked her a question and she answered honestly.

I would also add that this was a perfectly innocent question (like you didn't "walk into it") and you got a perfectly innocent answer.

I only went a couple times, so I was a bit awkward both times

I am on the younger side

This made me feel like everyone else could get women, and I was a defunct young man.

I think that, for whatever reason, you simply feel guilty about seeing escorts. You haven't come to terms with that fact.

But I encourage you to persevere and soon, you'll be booking and seeing escorts like you're ordering and eating a pizza.

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

A long time ago at the Zipper in Saint-Hyacinthe, I spent a crazy amount of time in a booth, doing nasty things with a girl. When I finally put an end to it and handled her $300 she said I don’t need your money, take me to your place, I want your dick! It made me feel like a miserable sex object!

 

[Thane]

A long time ago at the Zipper in Saint-Hyacinthe, I spent a crazy amount of time in a booth, doing nasty things with a girl. When I finally put an end to it and handled her $300 she said I don’t need your money, take me to your place, I want your dick! It made me feel like a miserable sex object!

I’m sorry you were objectified but this is what happens when you flash your "beautiful" dick around town.

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

I’m sorry you were objectified but this is what happens when you flash your "beautiful" dick around town

Yeah, I’m glad I’ve learned my lesson there and keep it in my pants now.

 

[Gazoo64]

I only went a couple times, so I was a bit awkward both times. btw I don't think the SP was trying to be mean, I walked into it.

I am on the younger side, so I asked "do you usually get client my age?" and she replied "No mostly old married men"

I don’t think there was anything wrong with her answer. You asked a question and she gave you an answer.

I learnt not to ask very personal questions, or questions about other clients, etc. Don’t ask questions that you’ll regret asking or that you might not like the answer to!

IMO, discuss general things, or mutual interests, etc.

Also, it sounds like you’re uneasy about seeing SPs. You shouldn’t feel bad about it, if it’s something you want. And as you said, you shouldn’t make it come across that way, otherwise it will spoil the fantasy!

 

[jmioffe]

A long time ago at the Zipper in Saint-Hyacinthe, I spent a crazy amount of time in a booth, doing nasty things with a girl. When I finally put an end to it and handled her $300 she said I don’t need your money, take me to your place, I want your dick! It made me feel like a miserable sex object!

so did you do as she asked?

 

[Batista Mason]

The only one I can think of is a SP at Euphoria. Around 2016, I only saw her twice because I was not very active since I returned to school at that time. On the first meeting, she said she really like my look, that she would have dated with me if I wasn't introvert and that we didn't met as client/SP. On the 2nd meeting, which was about 4~5 months later, she remembered me and even told me in detail everything we talked the first time we met.

She retired early 2017. Since I was focused on my exams, I didn't had the chance to see her 1 last time to say good bye. We did manage to say good bye to each other via PM here.

 

[AirBo]

I learnt not to ask very personal questions, or questions about other clients, etc. Don’t ask questions that you’ll regret asking or that you might not like the answer to!

SPs "new in the business" will make you instantly regret asking the wrong question LOL but experienced SPs have seen it all and will most probably know how to answer correctly