Dinner dates and overnights

[LC18]

I have several questions to ask (yes again).

I am starting to receive more and more requests for dinner dates which is very pleasant. I’ve grown to realize that I really enjoy it. It makes it more fun to get to know someone or to spend quality time with someone you already know. I love overnights because I usually don’t look at the time, I arrive at a set time obviously but will leave when we feel like it’s the right time. Usually around 9:00-10:00 AM. I’m thinking of restructuring my rates and packages.

Dinner dates
What do you prefer? Dinner first or dinner last?
Would you book it more if the rate was cheaper?
What is a good duration for a dinner date?

Overnight
What is a good duration for an overnight?
Would you prefer if it was incall or outcall?

 

[LC18]

Dinner last (way less lethargic and I may be able to actually concentrate on the convo)

See, if the man chose dinner last, I’d be willing to stop the clock and just enjoy it. Let’s say we spend 2-2.5h in private and the remaining in public.

Overnight - never done that. Can a guy expect a quickie before work or is it just cuddles?

I’ve never said no to that

 

[What's My Name]

Dinner dates
What do you prefer? Dinner first as I find that as we are eating and drinking and talking it's a great way to have a nice conversation. Also I find that it also builds for what is to come later.

Would you book it more if the rate was cheaper? For sure, at one point about 3 years ago I had a lady that had a $1200 for 6 hours, I am led to believe that it may be more now.

What is a good duration for a dinner date? 2-2.5 hours.

Overnight
What is a good duration for an overnight? I did 2 overnights and they began a 5pm or 6pm until the next day until about 9am
Would you prefer if it was incall or outcall? Outcall because you get a nice hotel and in the morning you can have breakfast in bed, isn't that romantic.

 

[CuriousGent]

I have never done either but I would also prefer diner last. Sexy time with a full belly is not always the best. I also feel like you are able to enjoy diner without the stress of rushing through it because you don't want the diner date portion to eat into the sexy time portion. I really like your suggestion about stopping the clock on the diner portion, I mean if the company is enjoyable no reason to cut it short at a set time.

There are comments on a lot of other threads about gentlemen who would never go on a diner date for various reasons. I tend to fall in that category as well. I don't know how rates are structured for diner dates but I feel that since the gentleman is paying for diner I would not pay for your time at the restaurant (hopefully i don't get crushed for this opinion). If I was to do it, it would be with a lady I have seen multiple time that I am confortable with so I know conversation will be enjoyable and I would ask for her input in the choice of restaurant so at least she has a say on where we go. Something like if it's a 3h booking or more then going to diner is an option after but not charged since the man is offering diner. Not telling anyone how to run their business, just an opinion.

overnight I would say from 6-7 pm to 9 am. I would prefer incall because i think the ladies would be more confortable being in their environment.

 

[marky mark]

If any gentleman finds a young lady who'll stop the clock for dinner by all means take her up on it! But a substantial tip should be expected to thank her properly for her time.
I've never had a formal social time date with an SP as they usually seem to charge the same hourly rate regardless of the activity, as is their prerogative.

 

[curly]

There is only one problem. I snore. Do you?

 

[LC18]

but I feel that since the gentleman is paying for diner I would not pay for your time at the restaurant (hopefully i don't get crushed for this opinion).

Depending on the restaurant it might be an option or at least a reduced rate. I know some of my friends would.

 

[LC18]

Oh, and i have a CPAP machine, so if you find yourself tangled up in my hose, dont think I'm into bondage...

A king size bed would be a good option for your future overnights

 

[envelopes]

Overnight
Would you prefer if it was incall or outcall?

Hmmm.... good question. If it was an overnight, I'd actually prefer incall. That way I can just get up in the morning and leave instead of awkwardly kicking her out

 

[LC18]

Hmmm.... good question. If it was an overnight, I'd actually prefer incall. That way I can just get up in the morning and leave instead of awkwardly kicking her out

Ok that part made me chuckle

 

[chiff209]

Disclaimer: I make it a point to never tell you ladies what to charge, if I disagree with a rate I don't book it and move on. The following is simply my inner thoughts when I see your rates.

I've been tempted by overnights or extended sessions that included social time, but the rates tend to be more than I can justify considering how much time is spent sleeping or on non-bedroom activities. For a dinner date, dinner first and 4 hours sounds right. I'd definitely be tempted to do it if the rate were less (something like your 2 hour rate + 1/3-1/2 your 2 hour rate for dinner time would be enticing to me).

For overnights, when the rate is more than 6x the 1 hour rate, my mind can't help but think how many 1-2 hour sessions I'm missing out on to have a no-clock session and then sleep next to someone.

Now, even if the rates fell into the categories I described above doesn't mean I'd automatically book them. It would need to be someone I had seen at least once before, felt we got along well, and really wanted to have a special evening with them.

 

[Thor Jr]

A king size bed would be a good option for your future overnights

I have had a king size bed since i was child, i am an action sleeper. When i was younger i would always end up on the floor during the night, i toss and turn a lot, so i was upgraded to a king early in life.

And i was joking about the entanglement. lol.

 

[WasteIslander]

Actually one of my more memorable dinner dates was me and this SP, no longer working, where we cooked dinner together in her kitchen and finished over a bottle of wine.

Gabrielle Laliberte used to offer similar experiences, and I've had her cooking and am kicking myself in the ass that we didn't do a solo session.

 

[LC18]

For overnights, when the rate is more than 6x the 1 hour rate, my mind can't help but think how many 1-2 hour sessions I'm missing out on to have a no-clock session and then sleep next to someone.

Are you sure about that? I see overnights range from 2k to 4k

And hourly rate from 160 to 1000

 

[LC18]

so for me outcall 100%.

Overnight outcalls are typically at an hotel unless it’s a client you know and trust a lot

 

[Fradi]

I would only do dinner dates and overnight with someone I have known for a long time and that I am friends with and the social time would not be paid for.
I want someone to want to be there for dinner or for overnight not because I am paying her.
Otherwise a 90 minute or 2 hr booking is my usual if I want to see an SP.
I have no interest in having dinner or an overnight with someone who doesn’t want to be there and is only there because I am paying her.

 

[LC18]

I have no interest in having dinner or an overnight with someone who doesn’t want to be there and is only there because I am paying her.

Yeah I was about to add that as a P.S in my initial post. “P.S: Fradi we already know you don’t ‘pay to have friends’ .”

 

[Rosie Sparkles]

Nothing more satisfying than going brunch after an intense sexy time. I love brunch. Brunch at every meal.

 

[LC18]

Nothing more satisfying than going brunch after an intense sexy time. I love brunch. Brunch at every meal.

You’re right we call it dinner date but it could be a brunch date also

 

[blow20102010]

I have several questions to ask (yes again).

I am starting to receive more and more requests for dinner dates which is very pleasant. I’ve grown to realize that I really enjoy it. It makes it more fun to get to know someone or to spend quality time with someone you already know. I love overnights because I usually don’t look at the time, I arrive at a set time obviously but will leave when we feel like it’s the right time. Usually around 9:00-10:00 AM. I’m thinking of restructuring my rates and packages.

Dinner dates
What do you prefer? Dinner first or dinner last?
Would you book it more if the rate was cheaper?
What is a good duration for a dinner date?

Overnight
What is a good duration for an overnight?
Would you prefer if it was incall or outcall?

Me personally if the rates of indy SP were more cheaper, I would book her more often. There is an great SP that have up her rates recently and now she is out of my range. It is sad because her clientele was disable people and most of the time these people are on welfare (I know because I'm disabled and was on welfare and I know most of them who book SP). Still love her and understand her choices but I don't think she will have lot of disable client more regularly. They will just save for couple of months and when they have enough they will call her or an SP with lower rates.