Do escorts prefer incall or outcall?

[Valdo]

I was reading the interesting thread http://Thread: curious about outcall charges and was wondering something.

When I am in Montreal, I choose incall but when I am out of Montreal, I always choose to bring the escort to my hotel (outcall).

For me, the advantage when I am in Montreal is that I do not have to pay any hotel and the advantage when I am out is that I do not have to move (traffic congestion) in a city I do not know.

But what do escorts prefer? Incall? or Outcall?

I am curious to have your opinion (en français or in english) on this subject.

 

[cobra1]

i think it varies, some would find it
hard stuck in a hotel room 4-6 hrs
so an outcall here and there is nice.

others, travelling, getting dressed
especially in winter, is not their fortay

 

[Julia Sky]

Outcalls actually make me anxious lol. Too much fake calls, also the pressure of someone waiting for me, the traffic, the fear of being sent back home because of my looks and having to pay myself for the driver anyways... Oh and the time it consumes.

I am a little anxious human and I like the comfort of staying in my incall ! It also doesn't bother me as much to get fake calls when I just wait at home. Idk for other girls but I get mortified with the feeling that someone is watching me from their window when I get to an outcall location and no one answers the door, lol. And I'm SO not lucky with outcalls, 90% of the times I did one it was a fake call. I don't know exactly how to screen clients yet lol...

 

[Valdo]

Thanks for your answers Cobra1 and Lexie_Diamond.

I understand you Lexie... because I am rather anxious myself.

, 90% of the times I did one it was a fake call. I don't know exactly how to screen clients yet lol...

But I do not understand why you get so many fake calls for outcalls. In fact I do not even understand why a hobbyist would make false calls. He has no life and has a lot of time to lose? Maybe this has to do with the hostility (coming from a Jewish-Christian cultural background) that some men have towards escorts?

 

[BookerL]

But I do not understand why you get so many fake calls for outcalls.

Fake calls aren't limited to outcalls ,incalls are also recipient of fake calls .
Many times false calls are the result of jealous competitors .Sadly !

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Cheers



Booker

 

[Halloween Mike]

I would suspect the esccorts probably prefer incalls for the same reason some guys like me prefer outcalls. Being in the confort of there room, being able to relax, take a break, do whatever you want after the deeds is done, security even maybe when its somebody they don't know or that the agency never booked anybody with. Fake calls as Lexie said...

Also incall = no traffic = more clients probably for the ones that don't mind seeing more guys per days...

 

[someMTLguy]

Im new to all this but i suspect for safty incall is always best. For many of the reasons mentioned already.

Outcall do you even know who your expecting or what dangers you may be in? Maybe for regulars outcall would be better since they are already vetted.

SMG

 

[Maria Divina]

Like I already wrote in the other thread http://Thread: curious about outcall charges

I do prefer outcalls. I am someone meeting very few, and I verify/screen before agreeing to meet someone.
I am meeting at most just few times a week or we can even think by month.
Even when I tour and receive, my max will be one person per 1/2 day.

That's probably the secret why my genuine interest & stamina to live my encounters is intact, I imagine.

 

[Mtdl]

Im new to all this but i suspect for safty incall is always best. For many of the reasons mentioned already.

Outcall do you even know who your expecting or what dangers you may be in? Maybe for regulars outcall would be better since they are already vetted.

SMG

Don't you think it would be the opposite? Going to an hotel room, where there are many people around would probably feel safer for the escort? Even if she goes to a private residence, if it looks unsafe she can always leave. On the other hand, if the guy comes to her place, it's probably much harder to get him to leave and there's the risk he'll harass her after (if it's an unwanted client).

 

[Valdo]

BookerL: I am surprised by your answer. Thank you for teaching me something I had not thought myself.

Halloween Mike and someMTLguy: That's what I thought too.

Maria Divina and Lily of Montreal: The point of view of those who know best the answer to my question... Thanks for your reply!

 

[Valdo]

On the other hand, if the guy comes to her place, it's probably much harder to get him to leave and there's the risk he'll harass her after.

Especially if the escort receives in her own apartment.

 

[someMTLguy]

good points

Maybe its my inexperienced look at it all.

Don't you think it would be the opposite? Going to an hotel room, where there are many people around would probably feel safer for the escort? Even if she goes to a private residence, if it looks unsafe she can always leave. On the other hand, if the guy comes to her place, it's probably much harder to get him to leave and there's the risk he'll harass her after (if it's an unwanted client).

 

[Julia Sky]

There is also the fact that most people with the intention of hurting the girl wouldn't do it at their own home. Would you give your address to someone before stealing their wallet ? Hahahaha !! Incalls are definitely more risky, but I'm okay with the risk if it means I get to stay home. Lady and lazy are almost the same word and I am the reason to that. LOL

With all that said, I only got one scary experience and it was an outcall. The dude had a gun in his apartment and was high as kite, I said "as long as you dont hurt me..." and he said "Don't even get me started", adding I was a "million dollar babe".

Not sure if he would have hurt me or try to pimp me out lol but that was enough for me to Blacklist him as soon as I got outta his place

 

[BookerL]

if the guy comes to her place, it's probably much harder to get him to leave and there's the risk he'll harass her after (if it's an unwanted client).

This is one of the problem I encountered through my career as incall escort agency operator ,to prevent it to happen, we where rotating places and rooms in different establishment.




Cheers



Booker

 

[VictoriaJolie]

i prefer incall personally...I have my thing set up, i can have different lingeries, amenities set ready...I know my environnement and feel safe.While doing outcall i dont know the place, if its safe,clean...If they would be somebodyelse or if i would be filmed
VJ

 

[westwoody]

For the best possible outcome, the meeting should be wherever the lady is most comfortable.
If she is nervous in a strange place then it may not go as well.
If she is in her own comfort zone it will be better.

 

[TheBlob]

Incall for me.

I tried outcall at my place a few times, but my current appartment is not so discrete and i didn't feel it. Paying a bonus for an hotel room is not my thing, unless i'm visiting another city. When in my hometown, i prefer to put my money on service. So, Incall is my way.

 

[talkinghead]

For the best possible outcome, the meeting should be wherever the lady is most comfortable.
If she is nervous in a strange place then it may not go as well.
If she is in her own comfort zone it will be better.

I'm going to respectfully disagree. If a woman is uncomfortable doing a specific outcall, she should say so. I would never press a companion to do *anything* that makes them uncomfortable. Otherwise, if she does outcalls, then it's part of what she offers ... to make the client comfortable. (If it matters, I only stay in very good hotels, so none of this has been a problem for me.)

 

[westwoody]

I'm going to respectfully disagree. If a woman is uncomfortable doing a specific outcall, she should say so.

Women who work for someone else may not have that luxury.
They may be working very late night/early mornings and seeing an unsavoury crowd or being sent to calls where they are definitely uncomfortable but are not in a position to refuse.

 

[talkinghead]

Women who work for someone else may not have that luxury.
They may be working very late night/early mornings and seeing an unsavoury crowd or being sent to calls where they are definitely uncomfortable but are not in a position to refuse.

In that case we should not be contributing to the exploitation of those women in the first place. If a woman is being coerced into situations in which she feels unsafe, then seeing her in an incall is simply allowing that abusive situation to continue. Although I realize that it can be hard to tell, I always do my best to see only women who are working in conditions that are safe and supported.