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Do you ever just have BJ only sessions?

Anna Bijou

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The key to a great BJ is a great suction technique. Proper lips locked on to your dick the correct way lol, imo

BJ's are like art (well. they are art). There is no single 'correct' way. I don't think men realize that you don't universally like the same kind of BJ. There are different styles and the "correct" way for you might be disappointing to someone else who likes a completely different style of BJ. I've had a lot of regulars who were exclusively BJ sessions in the past. After meeting a few times and it became evident that we had compatible "styles", we'd agree on the details change the usual GFE "formula". A client in Vancouver always called it cock worship sessions, which I found funny. If someone is really enjoying it, I can't tell you how much of a charge it gives me.

But not all BJ's are the same. I had a super uncomfortable experience a few years ago that I'll always remember and that illustrates what I mean:

On one hand I had a regular who came to see me specifically for the BJ, would not stop raving about it. He liked a specific type of BJ that happened to match perfectly with my style.

On the other hand, I had an appointment one day with someone who kept asking me to do this, that, this way instead, etc - basically completely different than what I was doing. Some of what he was asking I don't do, some I wasn't enjoying and it overall wasn't enjoyable for me or for him. We came to the obvious conclusion that our BJ "styles" were not at all compatible. I mean, they don't need to match up perfectly, there's ways to find a middle ground most of the time. But this was complete opposites.

It would have been better if he'd specified he wanted, as many thankfully do, because I could have told him we weren't a match. But it was one of the most awkward situations for both of us when we had to agree that we were so mismatched there wasn't any point in continuing. He was super nice, we were both uncomfortable but it was the only possible conclusion. I gave him part of the donation back because I did feel bad for him. But I knew it just wasn't going to work for either of us. He had assumed that there was only one way to give BJ's.

So, you could ask one guy and he'd tell you my BJ was the best he'd ever had. But if you asked the other, he'd tell you he didn't enjoy it and I didn't do it the "correct" way.
Who you agree with is a matter of what your "correct" way is. If you think there's only one universal way that all men enjoy BJ's, then it's pretty confusing to read both.
And if you read only one, how much value does it have if you don't realize the person might not enjoy the same type of BJ you do at all lol

There is no single "correct" way. There are different styles and finding someone who's style matches yours is what makes the difference between getting a great BJ or a shitty one. (excluding complete lack of skills, that's a different story)

It's also a reason I'm hesitant to committing to a BJ only session with someone I've never met because neither one of us knows what the others "style" is. I enjoy giving a BJ I can tell the person is really loving. Otherwise it sucks for both of us. Does that make sense? Do some of you know what I mean?
 

Nachoy

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BJ sessions is all I did when I started in early days
Back then Just went massage places most girls don’t do FS which was okay for me but there was a few times I really wanted a pussy to hug my dick
When I graduated to escorts service is when I started to explore extensive menu
Now BJ only session is rare now for me. I did ask a agency if it was available and the handler told me it was too tiring to suck cock continuously for entire session
 

Don Julio

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For me condoms are a mood killer, I mostly enjoy LFK, warmup whatever you want to call it and finish in 69 or DATY first then BBBJ to finish. Rose with XXXTASE was the exception, she got me motivated.
 
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mat514

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I've done BJ-only sessions with independents. I haven't seen new independents in awhile now, but when I'm curious and want to see what's out there outside of agencies, I'll opt for a 15 min to test them out. Often, I turn around at the door, but if they have a nice face, will do a quick BJ session to see what the rest of her body looks like, how she is. If I like it then will return for complete services.

There's an independent girl that I got lucky with and have been seeing often over the last 3 years. Have seen her so often that she knows how I like things, and we have blowjob-only 30 minute sessions.

I've yet to do a 60 minute blowjob session, and would love to. I'd want a girl that knows how to be playful, has variety, and can edge, so that I can have a nice explosion at the end.
 

Dohwsun

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For me condoms are a mood killer, I mostly enjoy LFK, warmup whatever you want to call it and finish in 69 or DATY first then BBBJ to finish. Rose with XXXTASE was the exception, she got me motivated.
I feel this, I rarely finish with a rubber on during FS unless I've been saving the load refraining from masturbating for about a week. There's a girl I see in mtl at a spa knowing she's on her period just to get the BBBJCIM cause it's that good. From toronto but I visit quite frequent.
 
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bodick7

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100% FS but I had to constantly push Alice head away to achieve that goal...
 

bodick7

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So I used to have this issue, until a girl I was dating suggested I might be using the wrong size condoms. If you have larger girth than average, you'd be surprised how not having that strangling feeling changes everything.
I have comfortable rubbers but in the end, I just like to paint a nice pair.
I still don't know if I feel them as a mood killer for BJs. Most of time it's bareback so when I get a covered one, she has to be very very good.
 

griffon909

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A few years ago in Quebec City, the indy I called to my hotel forgot to bring rubbers ! But she had ❄️. So we still had fun. It was a 60 min of nonstop (almost) BJ. I was pissed at first when she told me she did not have rubbers, but we had a good time. And I saw her again on my next trip to QC. She didn’t forget the rubbers the second time !
 
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