Do you guys lose sexual interest easily?

[Siocnarf]

I also used to think it was unavoidable, that desire always wore off after a few times. But I found that it can last with the right lady (and I'm not talking about love or wanting a GF, but an escort-client relationship that can work for a long time).

I have one SP now I've been seeing regularly for a year and I'll probably keep seeing her as long as she works. She's exactly what I always wanted in an escort and trying new ones doesnt seem really worth it at present. To me it's like having a mistress. Some level of real affection with no responsibility and complete freedom on both parts. I see her once a month on average. It seems just the right amount of time so I look forward to it.

There are no rules, and we're not being graded, so just have fun!

 

[Roadtripr]

Common sense says.

Continued exposure to anything desensitize you over time. For example, if you rarely see a naked woman (come on guys this is hypothetical, work with me here), you see a naked woman so you're going to be excited. After you see a thousand naked women, you think "that's nice" where's the next one?

After a while, the "edge" is gone. Like someone mentioned early in this thread, novelty... gone.

Today's world of instant gratification and short attention span, it's not surprising. Shit, I sound like my parents!!!

 

[TheDon]

I agree, sex is everywhere now and too easily acessable.

I remember a time when going to a strip club and seeing a pair of naked breast was a big deal!!!

 

[Gentle]

Reverse gangbang with about 10 of the hottest sp's mtl has to offer

Best expression and best idea I heard since 2012 on this board !

Sometimes I think, despite the Leafs and American Politics... that you have some of the best ideas and replies on this board !

 

[snoodle]

to help counter the boredom effect i find it helps to mix things up.
Always banging hot chicks gets boring.

Right now I'm on the hunt for fat girls..next month it might be gilfs..soon id like to try a bald girl also..also I'm dying to bang a pregnant chick..like 8 months pregnant...mix things up a bit to keep things interesting. lol

 

[lgna69xxx]

At Snoodle,

Variety is the spice of life they say, Kudos to the way you look at the hobby...same here only not as extreme as your examples lol.. ps there is a preggo girl advertising , or at least she was last week (not on merb)

 

[snoodle]

where ? on announce 123 ?

 

[easyguy]

Oh guys, I have an opposite problem. I can easily get attached to a lady who seems to enjoy sex with me or plays it well (lol). Thus I also try to use 3f or 3/3/3 rules but for completely different reasons

 

[dolt]

...guys who see SP on a regular basis ( 1 or 2 times a week )...

I just want to know what y'all do for a living that you can drop 200 to 500 bucks a week on SPs. (assuming you don't go high-end for more dough)

-all kidding aside this is an interesting thread, and I'd like pose this Q:
anyone is or has been in a long-term relationship in which everything worked but the lust part? -WTF am I saying ? of course someone has !
I mean be with someone you really do love and can't fathom parting with, but the sex is just blah even tho she's got above average drive and skills?

 

[czar]

For me, lately I've been easily losing interest with new ladies. I guess I have expectations of service and if I don't click with the new SP, I pretty quickly give up no matter how hot she is. Yet with my favs, I'm hard and excited before the meeting in anticipation. There is a level of comfort as well...no surprises with an SP that I already know.

I think a lot has to do with pacing myself. Of course if I saw a fav SP 5 times in a row...I might not be very interested on the 6th visit. But I cycle through about 10 favorites, rarely seeing the same one consecutively.

Czar