Do you keep a head count and/or tabs of your encounters?
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Anyone asking for a body count is automatically cast aside for whatever toxicity they have to say next. No one asking for a body count is asking with an open mind. Run away...
I kept a head count and tabs before my trial time as an escort when i was 18-19. Had a list of who i kissed, a list of who I called boyfriends, and a list of people I was intimate with, including how old I was for each encounter. By 18 yro I stopped keeping track. Not sure if I still have the diary I wrote these lists in, but probly still do, somewhere.
And admittedly just realized.. in my own way i still do now too.
I think the answers I'm expecting is that we all lost count a long time ago lol
I first book an SP after i got dumped and cheated on back in 1993, and i been doing this on and off since that time, sadly wasted time with relationships 3h and 9y etc.
1998-2000 then 2003 to 2005 and now since 2013.
Its impossible for me to keep a head count because I had so many, now i realize how much money i spent into all those SP pretty depressing hhahahah
1998-2000 then 2003 to 2005 and now since 2013.
Its impossible for me to keep a head count because I had so many, now i realize how much money i spent into all those SP pretty depressing hhahahah
Since I stopped trying to rationalize that fact a long time ago, I choose to forget!
And admittedly, I can be desperately very childish sometimes with my contributions. Part of me refuses to grow old, and this hobby makes me feel forever young.
To be honest never ever tell a girl you are interested in your body count, excluding SP, at 23 i met a stripper at night school, after once more i had been cheated on by a horse face girlfriend, she showed me the ropes, she said your looks aint the issue you are too much of a good guy and women hate that, low confidence low self esteem. She introduce me to the best sex i ever had, 1996 must have been my best year, no SP only girls that were attracted to me, after that at 25 I went to IT college and met a firefighter, best wingman ever again going out and there was a lot of women back them but I was young beach body chiseled face and long hair.
Sadly also back in 1998 I met a good women and I blew it she was wife material but I was just not ready, that women loved me and she did anything for me, she ask me for a bodycount and wanting to do the right thing I told her my back story, that scared her away......
Of course I will be 52 next month, funny thing I just got hit on by a dental hygienist 2 weeks ago, I went to get a tooth repaired, since I am not use to this anymore I just froze she was a beautiful women 47 etc, but I been single for so long 11y going.
Who knows that gave me a confidence boost but if I ever meet a women I am interested in I will not tell her the full story, in relation I never cheat on my girlfriends so my past even if I lie won't really matter.
I go for SP because online dating is a huge waste of time, and I still have high libido at my age.
Sadly also back in 1998 I met a good women and I blew it she was wife material but I was just not ready, that women loved me and she did anything for me, she ask me for a bodycount and wanting to do the right thing I told her my back story, that scared her away......
Of course I will be 52 next month, funny thing I just got hit on by a dental hygienist 2 weeks ago, I went to get a tooth repaired, since I am not use to this anymore I just froze she was a beautiful women 47 etc, but I been single for so long 11y going.
Who knows that gave me a confidence boost but if I ever meet a women I am interested in I will not tell her the full story, in relation I never cheat on my girlfriends so my past even if I lie won't really matter.
I go for SP because online dating is a huge waste of time, and I still have high libido at my age.
LoL. Being an SP is my online dating life lol... I don't see much difference from what it was before to what it is now except finances.
Even the men who are on online dating aren't much different. Most reach out with lewd comments, a handful of gents, and very few I am comfortable with actually meeting face to face.
Only real difference is I'm not baseing them on how attractive they are, or turning them down because of it. But i get to see some really sweet people who might not have been as blessed in appearance, but find them so much more attractive because of personality.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, its that simple, i mean no offence saying this its just my experience.
In 2013 when my ex left me I lost a lot of weight for the first time in many years I had my beach body back, grew my hair a bit and went to Cuba, at 41 I had women attention again the worse those women were half my age...
When I came back I wanted something more serious, I said to myself online dating I am 41 how hard could it be to find a good women right. I had a good profile, all my picture were recent, I had been online younger at 25 on MIRC and when messenger had single channels.
To my big surprise I got rejected like crazy and people were mean, the worse is that those women posted modified pictures after all a 40h old women no wrinkles nothing sorry but no, even the dental hygienist who asked me out 2 weeks at was 47 and she showed her age.
I have so many stories but I will not share them on here too long and I got over this, like one SP I book from summum xxx who was not very pretty told me that for what I look like I can't expect much, the week later I call love3x they sent me channel she was drop dead gorgeous, and she clicked one me right off the bat WOW you are fit you train etc... I was so confused. Like my last date 8 years ago were she looked like a cavewomen, looked dirty 2 kids full time in between job and she told me I was ugly LOL.
Online dating sadly is a place were women shine, some of them even post lets forget about our looks because they know how they look and yet insult people who talk to them that do not fit there high standards.
So no SP is not online dating at all, but there is still a thing like click or not, if the SP finds you attractive she will give you a lot more then if she finds you repulsive.
Yeah I had that a lot when I shaved my head had that puffy fat face and gut... no success with women there ahhahah
I have a specific number in my head, but I'm a bit hesitant to share it as I don't want to gross out anyone.
No.
I mostly see my ATF and I lost count years ago, no point, it will always be not enough times.
I mostly see my ATF and I lost count years ago, no point, it will always be not enough times.
Like many of you guys, I’ve lost count years ago but i don’t find it important anymore.
What I can say is I’ve only been with ONE outcall service so far. Im still in the camp where I got to know the woman a little before any intimate relation. And my big turn-on is to get the woman wanting me as much as I want her.
Separated from my ex-girlfriend since almost two years, I go out to meet woman with only sex in mind. I get bored on dating app. Im still capable to pick up girls at the bars/pub but the nights i don’t succeed, I find myself looking at MERB and LL on my phone. A bartender caught me on LeoList last week. Still trying to figure thing out to what’s best for me. The only thing I know, I don’t want to be in long term relationships.
What I can say is I’ve only been with ONE outcall service so far. Im still in the camp where I got to know the woman a little before any intimate relation. And my big turn-on is to get the woman wanting me as much as I want her.
Separated from my ex-girlfriend since almost two years, I go out to meet woman with only sex in mind. I get bored on dating app. Im still capable to pick up girls at the bars/pub but the nights i don’t succeed, I find myself looking at MERB and LL on my phone. A bartender caught me on LeoList last week. Still trying to figure thing out to what’s best for me. The only thing I know, I don’t want to be in long term relationships.
what compels you to participate here?
what was the consequence of this?
Ive always been fascinated by the hobby, long time reader of the forum, i found myself looking more and more the lounge section.
No consequence as i know the bartender. A stripper also caught me scrolling the LL adds at Sex Appeal the other night. She seem half surprised half excited by it.
ThePervert said:
What I can say is I’ve only been with ONE outcall service so far. Im still in the camp where I got to know the woman a little before any intimate relation. And my big turn-on is to get the woman wanting me as much as I want her.
Not flaming you or nothing but you do realize that SP offer a service, the women wanting you more as you do kind of does not apply..... yes some SP might find you attractive but in the end its all about money, if you don't pay her she won't give it for free. I been seeing my regular for a while now she compliments me, she like my big D its hard etc, but in the end If i tell her i don't have money that week the texting and compliment stop.
What I can say is I’ve only been with ONE outcall service so far. Im still in the camp where I got to know the woman a little before any intimate relation. And my big turn-on is to get the woman wanting me as much as I want her.
Not flaming you or nothing but you do realize that SP offer a service, the women wanting you more as you do kind of does not apply..... yes some SP might find you attractive but in the end its all about money, if you don't pay her she won't give it for free. I been seeing my regular for a while now she compliments me, she like my big D its hard etc, but in the end If i tell her i don't have money that week the texting and compliment stop.
Without surprise. Try to pickup a girl without a salary income is also a pain in the ass...
What if she provides you with a lot of extras without charging for them? For the rest, she has to earn her living.
If she is giving up her income then it will comes with some responsibilities because somewhere you are accepting to be in relationship.
