Do you watch porn before an encounter?

[Doc Holliday]

I know many guys who watch porn prior to seeing an sp in order to get their motor running. Other don't, either because they're not into porn (which is rare for a man) or they don't want to get too turned on prior to the sp's arrival. One guy even once told me that he couldn't take it anymore & whacked off before the sp's arrival, and wound up not being able to provide any 'wood' once the girl showed up & it was time to get things going.

How do merbites feel about this? Porn or no porn? What about the ladies? Have some of you watched any porn prior to starting your shift?

 

[Halloween Mike]

I read the reviews of the girl, i watch her pictures... i tease myself... but i don't watch porn before a meeting.

 

[Max15411]

Usually when I book a massage, not often I see an sp, I'll start prepping a few days ahead of time. I'll watch porn but I won't let myself finish. I'll stop right before climaxing. I'll do that a few times in the days prior to my meeting. When I'm finally with her, I'm rock hard and it takes quite a while longer to finish, prolonging my pleasure.

 

[randolph]

Don't watch before an encounter, but don't mind when there is porn showing at the beginning of the encounter. Watching porn, kissing, back to watching, telling each other what we like in the porn . . . one way to get going.

 

[jacep]

at my age, yes i will watch porno be4 a meeting specialy if i had less than 3 day since previous sogs meeting.

even though wen i startd as hobyist, i didnt need porno to get in mood. for my first meeting, i was in montreal on busness and the hotel had a until checkout all you can watch porno price so i purhcased it. i was watching it wen lady (the famous jasmine - lilylove) came into room. she laffed wen she see wat i was watching. wen action started i think i turnd off television only to turn it bak on after she left.

 

[Doc Holliday]

I must admit that i have watched a bit of porn prior to an encounter years ago, but now i refrain from doing so because i don't want to get turned on too early & risk spoiling it. I love the build-up when i meet someone (especially for the first time) and following introductions not really knowing how close i am to intimacy. I love foreplay and that's all part of initially getting one another turned on.

A few years ago, an sp was running late. So i eventually called the agency and asked what was going on. Then told me she'd be in my room in 2 minutes. Five minutes later, she arrived. She asked me what i had been doing while waiting for her. I admitted that i had been watching a bit of porn in order to kill time & psyche myself up. She then chuckled and told me that the only reason she was late was because she was at my door at the scheduled time & could hear some moaning & groaning coming from my room. She thought i was with someone else, so she didn't knock & left. She called the agency & told them i was with another girl. Good thing i called them when i did or else she would have been sent to see someone else.

 

[Lily from Montreal]

That's funny Doc...
I like porn but not for a meeting since I do not see the tv unless I keep my glasses and I find the sound effects distracting. I prefer the moaning to be from me lol

What I really do not like is what happened (once )was that man,that I will never see again,was so much into the movie he was watching it instead of interacting with me...and when he was looking at me he was taking to me like in the movie...he obviously didn't do his homework to book me.,I am no porn star...I feel silly screaming :''fuck me hard!...'' really not my thing...one of my not-so-nice experience...

 

[Halloween Mike]

Lol fun story doc, that remind me of that guy who said a year or 2 ago an SP he was supose to see got the wrong door, the guy kept her, so he was left with no date lol

Lily : Thats why i don't open TVs now for meeting, it kinda remove the focus of where it should be, on the girl. There was a Habs game once and i was looking a bit too much at the TV while doing "other things" and she mentioned it to me, with a laugh, but still...

Its not like a game is more important or anything, its just its too hard to not give an eye when there is a huge play...

 

[Lily from Montreal]

I know, the brain is set up that movement in peripheral vision triggers a reaction in the brain,so it is very hard not to look...
It is ok with music but not when the tv is on on talking shows,somehow the news in the background is a turn off for me...

 

[BookerL]

Hi all

Don't SP's meet a certain part of the definition of porno
See Merriam -Webster def http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/pornography,movies, pictures, magazines, etc., that show or describe naked people or sex in a very open and direct way in order to cause sexual excitement.
A live sex show would be pornographic in nature?
For me it depends on the partner,I have no strict rule .I may watch it before and keep it on in the action !


Cheers


Booker

 

[Doc Holliday]

Good points.

The world of porn & escorting are very similar. It's basically sex between strangers for money without feelings involved. That's why it's very easy for porn stars to also escort, and why many pornstars & porn starlets have escorted before entering the world of porn.

In both worlds, success often depends in the ability of the provider to put on a good, believable performance.