Drama-Free vs Affection

[curly]

I know we each have our very own reasons for hobbying, the least of which is lust. However, in addition to that lust, the decision to purchase sex from a pro rather than looking for civilian women is also motivated by one of two things: affection or drama-free. Affection is obviously subjective but we all need it and seek a provider that will show some level of genuineness in the warmth she gives her clients. Seeking a drama-free event is also a factor as civilian women most often expect to some extent some form of seduction, commitment and romance to have first sex with them, and some expectation of "monogamousness" if you want to repeat.

On my side, the drama-free aspect has been paramount. Being able to have sexual variety without screwing up my personal life is extremely important to me. I could probably, and did a few time, get a civilian lover or sugar baby, but the attraction of hobbying for me is mainly when I want something simple and drama-free.

What about you guys? What is the dominant aspect for you, beside lust?

 

[jilpale]

Fast. I hate putting effort in finding fun.

 

[Sol Tee Nutz]

Dominant factor is having sex with someone out of my league, basically out of the ballpark.

 

[jilpale]

I know we each have our very own reasons for hobbying, the least of which is lust. However, in addition to that lust, the decision to purchase sex from a pro rather than chasing it in the streets is also motivated by one of two thing

Streets? Is this even possible? If there are specific street in Montreal where this happens, please let me know what streets? I don't know busy places except where everyone would go regardless of who they are - aka Coffee - aka Tim Hortons , vast fishing pool but if there are other places, lemme know. It used to be malls but malls died after Amazon took over.

 

[curly]

Streets? Is this even possible? If there are specific street in Montreal where this happens, please let me know what streets? I don't know busy places except where everyone would go regardless of who they are - aka Coffee - aka Tim Hortons , vast fishing pool but if there are other places, lemme know. It used to be malls but malls died after Amazon took over.

Streets was just a metaphor for meaning "out there", basically meaning anywhere in life. Will edit my original post. I agree it can be misleading.

 

[curly]

Dominant factor is having sex with someone out of my league, basically out of the ballpark.

Ok. But in choosing this lady out of your league, what other quality are you seeking?

 

[jilpale]

Streets was just a metaphor for meaning "out there", basically meaning anywhere in life. Will edit my original post. I agree it can be misleading.

When you look "out there" where do you look? What tools do you use?

 

[curly]

When you look "out there" where do you look? What tools do you use?

Any way you can meet civilian ladies: dating apps, bars, office, regular dating, etc.....

 

[Fradi]

When you look "out there" where do you look? What tools do you use?

Tim Hortons or Walmart.
Shopping cart

 

[sene5hos]

Still on Merb.

Before I was looking for "a beautiful woman, sympathetic, uncomplicated, without drama, to empty my balls first and then we see if there are possibilities of seeing her again.

Now because of the pandemic, I only see one pearl, she fills me in all points of view. (no drama with affection).

 

[jilpale]

Any way you can meet civilian ladies: dating apps, bars, office, regular dating, etc.....

So basically only dating apps because rest are now unavailable due to Covid

 

[You2]

Simplicity, experimentation, variety and to have fun with a personality I would not likely get on with over the long term.
On the other side, it allows me to maintain my sanity within the rigors of a relationship.

 

[Sol Tee Nutz]

Ok. But in choosing this lady out of your league, what other quality are you seeking?

I am a simple man with simple tastes, a heartbeat will do it.

 

[Sol Tee Nutz]

I don't know busy places except where everyone would go regardless of who they are - aka Coffee - aka Tim Hortons , vast fishing pool but if there are other places, lemme know.

Taco Bell at 1am, can not beat the talent there.

 

[Fradi]

Initially it was to be with the most gorgeous woman I could pick out of many who’s websites I looked at.
What I got instead was not only someone gorgeous but someone who is kind and a total sweetheart .
She turned into being an amazing friend so now it is much more than just lust and drama free.