The logic is that both have taken a shower prior to meeting, some will go like 10 to 15 before we arrive. Sometime that explain the 5 or 10 min delay we can encounter at arrival but it is for the best.
Me when I get to an incall location, I pretty much ask to go refresh right away.
I see this like the first act of respect between the people i the room.
Yep, shower is one of the last things I do 10-15 before the appointment. I will usually offer the shower but I will give the benefit of the doubt if they decline.
However, if their hygiene is not good enough to justify turning down the shower, I will not feel guilty if the service reflects that. That's 100% on them & I no longer feel bad about it because it's easily avoidable but they chose not to.
Also, I think men should consider washing their hands while using mouthwash. Every since I saw the stat that 69% of men don't wash their hands after peeing and a good portion of them don't think they don't need to... I often ask if they haven't done so on their own. Not even just the peeing thing, it's everything we've touched before and after as well.
I used to get a lot of requests for accompanied showers. I rarely get asked now but always found it hard to shower with someone while trying to keep my hair and face dry, that's all. It starts feeling cold lol