Ethical question

[EagerBeaver]

ricola,

You are a devilish troublemaker! This is not mrten's problem. If his life is so problem free and boring and he has nothing better to do than stick his nose where it does not belong, he will follow your advice, but I don't understand why you would want to open up a can of worms that need not be opened.

What the friend does not know will not hurt him. Why intentionally hurt him?

Mrten, mind your own business!

 

[EagerBeaver]

Your comment has no basis in fact in this thread as mrten has actually stated the exact opposite, which is that he doesn't go to strip clubs much, so Eastender's sage remarks are much more apropos of this thread than yours.

 

[John Legend]

I actually sort of had this happen to me. A girl that lives on my street is a dancer in a club about 50 miles from where we live, She is 20 not 18. I had no clue and I was in that area for work. I am not friends with her father, but when I walked in the club she didnt hide it and came right up to me and wanted to dance. So after thinking it over I did. Since then, so far we have fucked close to 20 times, so I am a bad one to ask this question!!!

 

[ricola]

ricola,

You are a devilish troublemaker! This is not mrten's problem. If his life is so problem free and boring and he has nothing better to do than stick his nose where it does not belong, he will follow your advice, but I don't understand why you would want to open up a can of worms that need not be opened.

What the friend does not know will not hurt him. Why intentionally hurt him?

Mrten, mind your own business!

That's right EB ignorance is bliss.
But let me ask you one question... if it was your 18 year-old daughter, would you want to know?

 

[Fat Happy Buddha]

That's right EB ignorance is bliss.
But let me ask you one question... if it was your 18 year-old daughter, would you want to know?

I suspect that if every father of an eighteen-year-old girl found out tonight what his daughter did or had done, the headlines tomorrow would be the discovery of the bodies of hundreds of middle-aged men floating under the Jacques Cartier Bridge.

 

[EagerBeaver]

Not that I go to strip clubs very often

See the above quote. If you are going to offer commentary and hope that it sounds intelligent it may actually be helpful to read the whole thread and not just the introductory post. Otherwise it kinda looks like you are shooting from the hip and don't what you are talking about.

 

[korbel]

Unless???

Mind your own business.

Hello all,

Excellent advice! She's a mature, together individual, in a wholesome atmosphere, making a free choice with all the same rights to privacy as the rest of us. Unless...she's immature, disturbed, facing hostile pressure, in a degrading and corrupting atmosphere. Not my daughter, none of my business...okay. My daughter...NOT! Which is right???

Questioning,

Korbel

 

[mrten]

Ok Beav, point taken, however I think we should all strive to frame our opening questions as clearly as possible whenever we start a new thread, especially when the issues are somewhat complex.

I thought that it was a pretty clear question but your right about trying to pose the question with as much information as possible.
In my younger days I did spend a lot of time with buddies in strip clubs. I've probably been in most of the Montreal area up to and including the ones in Ste. Jerome. Now it might be every couple of months or so when I do hook up with this one paticular friend.
However, the frequency (or lack of) my visits to SC's does not change the point of the actual question.
Of course we all love strippers, who doesn't,but hey are all someones daughters, just not ours. Therefore.........

Ps, not that there's anything wrong with it