Feeling guilty

[Georgy07]

So i want to talk about something.

I consider myself a very ugly man. I am pushing 50, losing my hair, kind of fat and i have a small dick. Everytime i go meet an SP i see in their eyes that ... it's going to be difficult for them. I hate to see that. I really wish i could be a good looking man but it's me and i will never be able to change.
The thing is that i never had a girlfriend in my life. It's very difficult for me to even consider talking to a woman. So i tend to use the services of escorts everytime i have an urge. And i cant get over the fact that i feel guilty for them. I feel guilty to make them do that for me.

Is there something i could do about it ?

Do you guys relate ?

 

[sam311]

So i want to talk about something.

I consider myself a very ugly man. I am pushing 50, losing my hair, kind of fat and i have a small dick. Everytime i go meet an SP i see in their eyes that ... it's going to be difficult for them. I hate to see that. I really wish i could be a good looking man but it's me and i will never be able to change.
The thing is that i never had a girlfriend in my life. It's very difficult for me to even consider talking to a woman. So i tend to use the services of escorts everytime i have an urge. And i cant get over the fact that i feel guilty for them. I feel guilty to make them do that for me.

Is there something i could do about it ?

Do you guys relate ?

It sounds incredibly exhausting and painful to carry that much weight and judgment about yourself. I’m so sorry you’re feeling this way.
I just wanted to remind you of a few things:

It is completely normal for our body to change, lose hair, or carry extra weight as we age. This is just a standard part of the human experience, not a personal failure, and it doesn't change our values and who we are. When we are hyper-critical of ourselves, we project our own fears onto other people.

The SPs you meet are running a professional business. They don’t care about physical "perfection". They care infinitely more about a client who is exceptionally clean, respectful and kind. Those are the traits that make someone a great client.

 

[Fradi]

So i want to talk about something.

I consider myself a very ugly man. I am pushing 50, losing my hair, kind of fat and i have a small dick. Everytime i go meet an SP i see in their eyes that ... it's going to be difficult for them. I hate to see that. I really wish i could be a good looking man but it's me and i will never be able to change.
The thing is that i never had a girlfriend in my life. It's very difficult for me to even consider talking to a woman. So i tend to use the services of escorts everytime i have an urge. And i cant get over the fact that i feel guilty for them. I feel guilty to make them do that for me.

Is there something i could do about it ?

Do you guys relate ?

I think you look green to them, just like everyone else, so don’t worry.

 

[Gazoo64]

Don’t be so hard on yourself. As mentioned previously, as long as you’re respectful, polite and clean, it’s all good!
And let’s not forget the envelope. Lol!

 

[twenty4seven]

Is there something i could do about it ?

Do you guys relate ?

There's lots you can do about it but the main issue is gonna be the critical view of yourself. Work out, lose some weight, get a style makeover, whatever. It won't do anything if you are beating yourself up about your flaws (which you can never fully eliminate, and everyone has them).

Be clean, respectful, on-time, and pay without being asked and you'll be aces in any providers book. There's a ton of guys that look like hot shit that providers hate to see bc they're missing some (or all) of those criteria, even if they have a big dick or are handsome af.

Find a provider you have fun with and worry less about how you look in their eyes and more about how you make them feel with your words and actions.