First experience....and it was horrible

[mariohamiltonn]

I've always wanted to dabble in this world of SPs and finally took the plunge 2 weeks ago. Unfortunately, I didn't do enough research and LL was my go to resource for finding the ladies. In hindsight, coming on this forum would have saved me $240 but that is the cost of the lesson.

I initially told myself that I'd only reach out to verified ads on LL. After 1 to 2 hrs of texting multiple SP for outcalls and not getting fast enough responses I decided to cast the net wider and started msging non verified posts. One of the girls I reached out to goes by Daphne. If you go on LL laval and search this name you'll find her post.

Pictures looked amazing. She responded fast. Said she would do GFE for 240/hr and also said ok to giving massage and lapdance.

Arranged for her to come ....she shows up 1hr late. I open the door to my hotel and the person looks nothing like who I saw in the picture. Maybe it was the same girl and perhaps the pics on LL were her 5 years ago? Anyways, lots of makeup, about 30lbs heavier than pics. I let her in. She sits on the bed. Asks for the money which I proceed to give her. Then she just pulls up her shirt and tells me to take my pants off. No foreplay, nothing. I tell her let's kiss and she said no she doesn't do that. What about the massage? No apparently she doesn't do that as well. Proceeds to put the condom onto my flaccid guy and sucks me off. At this point I'm so confused as to the situation I'm in. I didn't want to argue and jist proceeded. I asked if I can play music. No she doesn't like that. Everything thst was communicated and confirmed via text seemed to just disappear into thin air.

The entire experience was so synthetic. She was in and out in 10 mins. I thought she'd stay for 1hr and I'd be able to relax with a nice massage. Felt totally scammed.

Any tips on how to improve my experience in the future? I see that using agencies has been suggested here alot. Anything else I should be mindful of? Once you cum is the session done? It's a one and done thing even if you get half hr bs full hr? Is there any validity to verified ads on LL?

 

[acoly]

Sorry to hear that, but hopefully there will be many more great sessions that will even it out.

Stay away from LL unless you do research on them. Just use the search function with the last 4 digits of their number to get a grasp of them. Good providers on LL are rare, but they do exist.

Normally you can cum more than once in a 1hr session with an agency. Agencies aren't a guarantee for a slam dunk, as it also depends on the girl, but they will be far better than what you have already experienced. Pro for agency girls are that reviews are dime a dozen.

 

[RobertNYC]

You’re going to get a lot of advice and assistance from the good MERB crowd, most of whom are always anxious to help.

The best advice I can offer is to do your research and understand what the top agencies are, and who are the most reputable independents.

During my first visit to Montreal in 2012 or 2013, I had thought just about any agency is worth reaching out to based on high expectations from friends. I learned the heard way even in Montreal some agencies are really crappy, and you need to be selective.

Use reputable agencies that are commonly reviewed. In Montreal those include Euphoria, Vogue, XO and perhaps Velvet. And then drill down with further research on the girls.

Every girl and agency has a different policy on shots on goal, but I would expect 2 shots in an hour. For appointments less than an hour, you might get resistance.

I personally would avoid LL and Humphries and all those other lowbrow provider boards. In the US I avoid even using sites like EROS. The best advice I ever got was it’s better to do fewer appointments over time and get decent quality than do several appointments with girls at whom you’d never give a second look.

 

[Numerati]

My first SP experience was absolute shit. It was at Vail and it was from a phone book. When she showed up it was some lady in her mid to late 30s. She kept her panties on at all times and her unshaved twat smelled like rotting dead fish. Just got a handjob and was done with it. What a waste of time and money. Well my next two SP encounters which was in Montreal were not so inspiring either. It was GFE but it wasn’t memorable. Thought of giving up and just truly call it quits with this hobby. The Hobby gods from above were not having it ha ha. They found another “sucker” and they are not going to let go. My third Montreal encounter which I almost cancelled gave me the kind of experience that hit me with a two ton emotional truck. It was so intense that I returned a month later and only saw her for a whole week I was in Montreal for dinner engagements. Now looking back at that I realized I over did that one and what nonsense lol.

Learned much from those beginning experiences. Better to learn from this hobby than outside of it. In the hobby you leave with a lesson and outside of it you leave with deep scars. Ha ha.

 

[MCTJ]

Any tips on how to improve my experience in the future?

You prefer outcalls? I'll make it simple for you. Contact Vog. You'll even have a link to the girl's reviews on her page. You can book in advance, you are guaranteed that the girl on the picture is the one you will see and she will be there on time (most of the time; they can be late, but never by an hour). Enjoy!

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[Artvandelay_importer]

Sorry to hear. Some on the indies from Indy Companion are really good. You can reach out to them. They would have some kind of a screening process. There are some indies who are very well reviewed here and you would really enjoy the experience.

When I started out in German FKKs, I had similar experiences. The first three-four experiences were meh. You just have to find a few who give a great experience and you can stick to them.

 

[Doc Holliday]

My first ever experience went better than my expectations. It was with a very well reviewed sp from a popular agency at the time. I wanted the moment to be a positive one so i spent a couple of weeks doing my research & asking around. The second appointment i had two days later was a disaster & it thought me a lesson i learned early: never see anyone you know nothing about & doesn’t have many reviews. Also don’t rely too much on pictures. Some of the worse sps i saw had great pictures but what i saw in person was not an accurate depiction of the pictures. On the other hand some of the best sps i saw & repeated with had very plain pictures & absolutely didn’t do any justice to how they looked in person. I retired after that second sp but u -retired six months or so later after giving the hobby one more try & absolutely clicked with the third girl. She wasn’t necessarily my body type but personality wise we clicked big time. And the rest is history…

 

[GreyPilgrim]

All that advice you got above is gold, but… if I may add something, here’s my two cents.

Sounds to me like you’re looking for a true GFE experience. A real, genuine connection with the SP. Not just a balls to the walls, wild sex romp (although, who would complain?), but quality time with someone who can both knock your socks off AND play the part of your “confidante”. Am I right?

If so, your first and main criteria should NOT be about looks, but personality. Read reviews. Find a lady lots of different people seem to easily connect with. Someone who can make this whole thing feel like a date rather than a booking.

And I have a strong suspicion that might lead you to some of our indy gems.

As for the rest, well… you know… it’s like the whole Forest Gump box of chocolates thing: you just never know!

Cheers and welcome to the Board!

 

[mariohamiltonn]

Thank you all for the warm welcome and solid advice. I'm going to spend some time on this forum, esp the reviews section, before I dive in again.

It's good to hear that most of us all went through similar first experiences. I guess its kind of an initiation that preps you to be more aware of what this hobby is about. I've got lots to learn but think this community is going to be a genuine positive resource.

 

[Numerati]

Thank you all for the warm welcome and solid advice. I'm going to spend some time on this forum, esp the reviews section, before I dive in again.

It's good to hear that most of us all went through similar first experiences. I guess its kind of an initiation that preps you to be more aware of what this hobby is about. I've got lots to learn but think this community is going to be a genuine positive resource.

One important lesson. Do your due diligence. Do your homework/research. Nothing is guaranteed but you hedge your bets and reduce your risk.

I mean with an SP if you see +10 pages of great reviews that is a sure given you will have a good time if you are respectable and clean. As for the hotel you go to oyster.com or expedia and check out the rooms. You like the location and the rooms you book.

 

[bimma328]

Outcall. Not the same person. Just refuse. It's a hotel the person won't cause any problem. If they do they're stupid. You will learn !

 

[2by4]

When you make the appointment, tell them that the girl has to be the one in the pic. Or you will refuse delivery.

 

[Numerati]

Sometimes the pic is the girl but from 10 years to 15 years ago. Kelly of WildTime comes to mind. The pic on the website was like all the right curves but in person looks like a bowl of flatulence and greasy poutine put together.

 

[RobertNYC]

When you make the appointment, tell them that the girl has to be the one in the pic. Or you will refuse delivery.

The top three Montreal agencies are using actual photos. The only time I ordered an escort to my room and was seriously disappointed is the time S—-N—VIP sent an NFL linebacker to my room. She was a new girl with no photo but I was assured I’d like her.

I gave her a portion of the donation and sent her on her way. And actually there was a second time with a top 3 agency, but the owner made up for it and even called to apologize when I arrived back in Jersey. New girl, no photo. Not even on website schedule. Learned about her when I called after a cancellation. He actually hired a booker’s friend. He acknowledged it was a mistake.

 

[IamNY]

Any tips on how to improve my experience in the future? I see that using agencies has been suggested here alot. Anything else I should be mindful of? Once you cum is the session done? It's a one and done thing even if you get half hr bs full hr? Is there any validity to verified ads on LL?

3 mistakes come to mind. Never believe the pictures are real, think with the bigger head, and come here before you dive in, not after. My first experiences in Montreal were with Eleganza, so I was very fortunate to have met some of the most hottest girls in Montreal at that time. Improving your experience in the future, do the research. Stick to the agencies, pick out a few girls you like, check out the reviews, and take the plunge. Even if your experience isn't outstanding you can always post a review about her or reach out to the agency and voice your opinion directly. The major agencies mentioned in this thread is a great start. Give them an idea as to what your looking for and they will try to accommodate. Depending on when you cum will determine if your session is over. Personally, I've always been a one shot guy so after 30-45 minutes of sport fucking the session is over. If you pop early, usually your granted the all important second pop. Ask, and they will tell you. HH is usually one pop, and an hour is usually 2, but you need to ask. Ads on LL can be legit but I would stick to the agencies, build relationships with other board members, exchange info, and then explore the Indys.