To me a GFE is a chick who has all of the qualities I look for in a chick I would like to hangout with in real life: she has to be articulate, smart and have a sense of humor. She also has to be good in bed.
It has nothing at all to do with what she does in bed, by the way. Nothing to do with the services she offers.
Its a matter of attitude and smarts. There is nothing more of a turnoff than a dumb chick.
Some guys turn the definition of what a GFE is into an equation such as: GFE = + DATY + ... etc.
There are women out there who share this attitude to a GFE being a question of what specific things they do.
I`m not a fan of BJs whether covered or uncovered, period, so whether it is offered or not is not important to me, for example.
I`d much rather that she be spontaneous and just go with the flow. I am a big fan of intensive foreplay so if she wants to take me through a sequence of activities instead, I know I`m not spending time with the right chick.
I never remember what I do with a GFE, what services she provides. I always remember what it was we said to each other, the private jokes we shared.
What bothers me about PSE is this: does it mean that the chick will go into that fake moaning which goes into porn film soundtracks? No thanks.