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ciscok1d

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Anyone have issues with certain positions? Mish, doggy, plus standing positions are fine for me, but for some weird reason I can't stay hard when I'm on my back. Not sure if it's a mental thing or some pelvis related issue as one is in a more relaxed position when laying down and less muscles are activated compared to other positions.

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mikey 2424

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Anyone have issues with certain positions? Mish, doggy, plus standing positions are fine for me, but for some weird reason I can't stay hard when I'm on my back. Not sure if it's a mental thing or some pelvis related issue as one is in a more relaxed position when laying down and less muscles are activated compared to other positions.

Thoughts?
It happens to me when doing doggy,very strange,but that’s what it is.No problem in any other position
 

mprimmer

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No problems on my back or doggy. I can never keep it up in missionary more than 2 minutes for some reason
 

Pedro1965

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Anyone have issues with certain positions? Mish, doggy, plus standing positions are fine for me, but for some weird reason I can't stay hard when I'm on my back. Not sure if it's a mental thing or some pelvis related issue as one is in a more relaxed position when laying down and less muscles are activated compared to other positions.

Thoughts?
Same here, dont no why
 

ciscok1d

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Yes, very strange. Fortunately, positions on my back aren't my favourite, but it is nice to switch things up a bit from time to time instead of relying on the same couple of positions that do work.
 

kabukicho

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Yes, very strange. Fortunately, positions on my back aren't my favourite, but it is nice to switch things up a bit from time to time instead of relying on the same couple of positions that do work.
any chance you beat off the most while on your back? maybe your brain or whatever is more associated to that activity.
 
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kabukicho

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For some reason, i can't keep it up when a chick goes cowgirl on me.
is it because she does the work and you aren't thrusting, up in this case? maybe when you are thrustless you aren't engaged and lose interest.
 

bobdude42

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I sometimes go soft during doggy. My personal theory is that it is due to the lack of visual stimulation since I am used to masturbating to porn (and I guess I am not an ass guy). So I am more excited when I see the girl's face and boobs.
During cowgirl, if they just move their pelvis around, there can be a lack of sensation for me too, but if they go up and down, I sure do love it, specially when they are super tight!!
 

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is it because she does the work and you aren't thrusting, up in this case? maybe when you are thrustless you aren't engaged and lose interest.

I get soft when she's on top too - I think it's because she's not so tight? Visually it's great but I prefer missionary or lazy doggie (prone bone).
 

Motok

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Maybe a lack of stimulation or bad blood flow, since you have no problem standing and other positions when the blood flows down to your dick, but when on your back , blood needs to flow up. Contrary to what some still believe, there is no muscles in your dick, only a sponge like membrane that gets filled up with blood. That's why Viagra and other meds like it work, they facilitate blood flow.
 
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ciscok1d

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Maybe a lack of stimulation or bad blood flow, since you have no problem standing and other positions when the blood flows down to your dick, but when on your back , blood needs to flow up. Contrary to what some still believe, there is no muscles in your dick, only a sponge like membrane that gets filled up with blood. That's why Viagra and other meds like it work, they facilitate blood flow.
maybe.. the condom doesn't help for sure, but nothing you can do about that, so gotta work with it. Meds definitely help, but not something one should rely on.
 

harryenjai

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I sometimes go soft during doggy. My personal theory is that it is due to the lack of visual stimulation since I am used to masturbating to porn (and I guess I am not an ass guy). So I am more excited when I see the girl's face and boobs.
During cowgirl, if they just move their pelvis around, there can be a lack of sensation for me too, but if they go up and down, I sure do love it, specially when they are super tight!!
Try playing with her asshole with your thumb if she permits.
 

Motok

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maybe.. the condom doesn't help for sure, but nothing you can do about that, so gotta work with it. Meds definitely help, but not something one should rely on.
For meds, you do what you got to do...
 
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