Has a disgusting experience with a Service Provider Made You Consider Taking a Break from the Hobby?

[Obvio-0bvio]

A couple of weeks ago, I visited a massage parlor, and something happened during the session that really threw me off. For some reason, I’ve been struggling to get back into the hobby ever since. I’m not going to name the place or the service provider, as I’m not here to bash anyone, but I do want to share what happened.

Unfortunately, I noticed that the provider's underwear appeared dirty, with some red/black stains, and it left me feeling extremely uncomfortable and disgusted. This image has been stuck in my mind, and I’m having trouble processing the situation. I know that most service providers maintain excellent hygiene, but this experience was hard to shake off.

Has anyone else experienced something similar that turned them off? If so, how did you manage to get past it and get back into the hobby? I’d appreciate hearing how others have dealt with situations like this.

 

[LeDodo]

But did you continue the session? And that made your experience hard to forget in the bad meaning of it? Or you walk away?

 

[Flyingby]

Yes
Instant debonner. Walked away
Booked an atf 2 days later repeated a couple of times to help me remember the good times

Anytime I have even just a mediocre session I immediately book a fantastic one to help me forget

 

[Obvio-0bvio]

But did you continue the session? And that made your experience hard to forget in the bad meaning of it? Or you walk away?

I didn’t continue the session because it happened at the beginning , I made up an excuse about having an important meeting, jumped in the shower, and got out of there as fast as I could.

 

[Obvio-0bvio]

Yes
Instant debonner. Walked away
Booked an atf 2 days later repeated a couple of times to help me remember the good times

Anytime I have even just a mediocre session I immediately book a fantastic one to help me forget

Not a bad idea actually, it's kind of brilliant. One thing’s for sure: giving up just isn’t in your vocabulary.

 

[LeDodo]

I didn’t continue the session because it happened at the beginning , I made up an excuse about having an important meeting, jumped in the shower, and got out of there as fast as I could.

Didn't have such disgusting experience but that would just be in the list of unlucky encounters/experience.

 

[Obvio-0bvio]

Didn't have such disgusting experience but that would just be in the list of unlucky encounters/experience.

It's completely normal, especially considering how often I deal with service providers, that the occasional bad experience sneaks in. Let’s just say I’ve had two memorable ones this year. First, there was the delightful incident where a service provider managed to clog my toilet, and now we’ve graduated to the charming Nutella or red zone underwear situation. Not exactly my highlight reel.But, silver linings: 99% of my encounters are actually positive. This just... wasn’t part of that 99%.

 

[Flyingby]

One thing’s for sure: giving up just isn’t in your vocabulary.

Not necessary

 

[Obvio-0bvio]

Not necessary

Jokes aside, I genuinely think your approach is brilliant. To move past this recent bad experience, I’ve decided to take your advice and book a session this week with the best service provider I’ve seen recently. Honestly, I don’t know why I didn’t think of doing that sooner. Kudos to you for the solid perspective.

 

[neverbored]

Was there a naked guy with a boner at the atm ? lol

Honest question, was this a fs location ? Cause if its not and she's wearing a sponge during her period, why would it matter? Unless you're hemophobic which then I'd understand.

You're on a board that talks about making out with strangers after they've been with other strangers. CIM, DATY, Anal sex, used condoms in the barbage, theft, coercion, lube scented burps, etc... but dried blood in panties is where you tap out?

I once was with a SW that got up after riding me to Nirvana and was horrified to see a pool of blood all over my groin and sheets. Looked like I had just ended a date with Lorena Bobbitt. I couldn't stop laughing and even had her take a pic of me cause it really looked like I was the buffet in a vampire's den.

Imagine if SWs retired everytime they saw clients underwear that aren't brand new. Just the horror stories about having to explain to a client to actually wash their ass or insist on using soap seems far more traumatizing. There would be 0 SW left.

Sometimes I wonder if some of you ever actually lived with a woman. Dried blood stains black oh no!

Anyways... hope you feel better. Sounds like you could use a manicure and some healing crystals. <---- /s

 

[Obvio-0bvio]

Was there a naked guy with a boner at the atm ? lol

Honest question, was this a fs location ? Cause if its not and she's wearing a sponge during her period, why would it matter? Unless you're hemophobic which then I'd understand.

You're on a board that talks about making out with strangers after they've been with other strangers. CIM, DATY, Anal sex, used condoms in the barbage, theft, coercion, lube scented burps, etc... but dried blood in panties is where you tap out?

I once was with a SW that got up after riding me to Nirvana and was horrified to see a pool of blood all over my groin and sheets. Looked like I had just ended a date with Lorena Bobbitt. I couldn't stop laughing and even had her take a pic of me cause it really looked like I was the buffet in a vampire's den.

Imagine if SWs retired everytime they saw clients underwear that aren't brand new. Just the horror stories about having to explain to a client to actually wash their ass or insist on using soap seems far more traumatizing. There would be 0 SW left.

Sometimes I wonder if some of you ever actually lived with a woman. Dried blood stains black oh no!

Anyways... hope you feel better. Sounds like you could use a manicure and some healing crystals. <---- /s

Let’s be honest: do you really think a service provider would continue her session with me if my underwear had black and yellow stains? Highly unlikely. The same standards apply from my side as a customer, I’m not into anal “Nutella,” CUM or anything involving blood. That said, the provider still got paid, and I kept my comments for myself . It didn’t affect her at all, but it definitely affected me. I left feeling disgusted and $200 lighter . This isn’t about being picky; it’s about expecting basic hygiene, which is a non-negotiable for me.

 

[EagerBeaver]

The answer, after enduring this experience, which was much more graphic than the OP's experience, was no (please note this thread is over 20 years old now):

https://merb.cc/xenforo/threads/my-bizarre-easter-weekend-in-montreal.8752/

 

[Flyingby]

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Sometimes I wonder if some of you ever actually lived with a woman. Dried blood stains black oh no!

i see dried blood stains once a month at home
I see SP to escape the mundaneness of relationship sex.
I would definitely bolt and lose my desire when seeing soiled underwear…

 

[neverbored]

Let’s be honest: do you really think a service provider would continue her session with me if my underwear had black and yellow stains? Highly unlikely. The same standards apply from my side as a customer, I’m not into anal “Nutella,” CUM or anything involving blood. That said, the provider still got paid, and I kept my comments for myself . It didn’t affect her at all, but it definitely affected me. I left feeling disgusted and $200 lighter . This isn’t about being picky; it’s about expecting basic hygiene, which is a non-negotiable for me.

You mentioned stains. I'm assuming it wasn't full on fresh menstral blood, fresh poop stain or fresh vaginal discharge. Stains doesn't mean unclean... it just means stains. Its not lack of hygiene. If anything poor choice on her part to pick her period panties, who knows, perhaps it was the only clean ones she had in her drawer.

Now, if I went to see a top tier girl... I would be dissapointed to see her wearing her toss aways... hell even seeing her wearing missmatched socks would annoy me. But 200$, sounds like your typical trafficking asian incall mp to me.

 

[twenty4seven]

I haven't had any scenario where I felt disgusted with a provider. I have met with sps right at the beginning or end of their periods too, but they let me know and we adapted where necessary and it was fine. Yes, it's a service but there has to be some give-and-take when it comes to our bodies because they're not sex dolls. I can't imagine the number of clients that come with funky junk they have to deal with too.

 

[neverbored]

I can't imagine the number of clients that come with funky junk they have to deal with too.

There were are few posts on that in the past.... its way way worst then the sight of some stained panties that's for sure. Dudes that have no idea how to use soap or scrub down and think standing in the shower rubbing soap on your chest and letting the soapy water run down is just as clean.

But then I remember that the Qc Govt had to waste millions in advertising to teach people how to wash their hands and not sneeze on others. God damn naaasty people out there.

 

[Rebaynia]

Menstruation happens. You saw it on underwear. Others have had it spontaneously happen during visits. Yes I agree if you aren't expecting something of the sort, it could be very jarring.

She might have been unfortunate enough to have had whatever she was using leak, or it might have just started even without her knowing. We don't all just know the second we start. Often there are a lot of stained undies along the way, unless you start protecting your clothing before it even starts.

 

[Obvio-0bvio]

You mentioned stains. I'm assuming it wasn't full on fresh menstral blood, fresh poop stain or fresh vaginal discharge. Stains doesn't mean unclean... it just means stains. Its not lack of hygiene. If anything poor choice on her part to pick her period panties, who knows, perhaps it was the only clean ones she had in her drawer.

Now, if I went to see a top tier girl... I would be dissapointed to see her wearing her toss aways... hell even seeing her wearing missmatched socks would annoy me. But 200$, sounds like your typical trafficking asian incall mp to me.

If you're into dirty underwear, then by all means, I can point you to her and get your fix. But personally, that's not my thing. And no, this wasn’t some bargain basement Asian massage parlour. The $200 I mentioned was just for the provider; I didn’t even bring up the $80 I paid for the room. So if you think $280 in total is “cheap,” you must be living large.If I recall correctly reading one of your posts, aren’t you the same guy who browses Leolist just to save a few bucks? That’s the thing with you, you’re so full of animosity toward me that even if I said the sky is blue, you'd show up just to argue that it’s not. Let it go, man, move on.

 

[bodick7]

Menstruation happens. You saw it on underwear. Others have had it spontaneously happen during visits. Yes I agree if you aren't expecting something of the sort, it could be very jarring.

I don’t know why but I heard it’s turning on some gents…

 

[urquell]

It seems like a massive overreaction, TBH. If it was an MP where an HE was the expectation then I don't see how it would enter into it at all. If it was a full service MP then even so if that was a concern presumably her mouth of her hands were clean enough for the job. There didn't really seem to be any reason to run screaming for the shower and out as quickly as possible, never mind abandoning the hobby entirely. You've seen enough girls to know that this isn't the norm and shouldn't impact you in the future so what's the big deal? As was suggested above go see another girl you know you like if that's what you need to get over it. You met a dirty girl. So what? Sex is a dirty, dirty business. lol. If seeing one pair of dirty underwear is enough to traumatize you for life then maybe sex isn't for you. People are human, with human bodies and human body functions. If there's a little spillover sometimes that's regrettable, but it's also not the end of the world. I can't even imagine giving up hobbying because of a skid mark or a badly timed fart. It just seems to me like a completely over-the-top reaction. Of course, everyone's different, so it is what it is I guess.