I don't think that seeing an SP off the clock after having sex with her is a good idea. Sex change everything, plus you've met her in her "work status", it changes the dynamic I think.
Take it from all the guys that have spent time with SP's outside the biz. Just don't do it. I know it sounds like a good idea and all and i know the thoughts that will go through your head but it's a poison pill.
Realistically, with all the crazy people out there to which you have no idea how they can react to a "no",
Any girl willing to go to a nas concert is worthy of having your child!!!!!!
Thanks chowzilla for sharing your story. It reinforced what I have always been deeply convinced about: SP's are women, and they get attached to some of the men they meet the same way we get attached to some of them. We're all human after all. Granted sometimes it's not easy as we always tend to think it's fake at least to some extent (and I'm guilty of that myself as well), but once that "ice" is broken, it's great!We ended up at her place again. Had my first sexy time with an SP off the books.
It wasn't complicated after that, we both assumed we were together then she took a break from escorting.
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second one lead to a 1 year and half relationship until we broke things off.
This whole time I knew she liked NaS but didn't believe it until she named me all his albums. I only enjoy rap concerts with my friends, so I said "fuck it, here have the tickets", because I really didn't want to go anymore. She said to me "lets go together". I chuckled and said "don't worry you can have both tickets, take a friend, please, you'll have more fun". She reluctantly said "well I have a friend that I could think of who I would like to go with, so ok!". Once I handed her the tickets, she replied without hesitation "hey friend! someone offered me free tickets! wanna go with me?!". Call me a chump if you want, but I melted. She insisted on buying dinner since I bought the tickets, went to the concert, walked around downtown. We ended up at her place again.
That's great that you had this moment with her chowzilla (frankly, to me it's faith in humanity restored). I would've melted too just for her to be such a NaS fan. Obviously, she trusted you a lot to have you walking in public with her (I'm saying that from experience).
In the end, it's your business, but why not keep in touch with the NaS fan girl, just dropping a holiday cheer greeting every now and then (or her bday)? That's what social media is for.
Dude, civilian or pro, I'm having trouble getting into the artists now - Future, Fetty, Rich Homie, - that this new gen of girls are getting turnt up too, and feel I may not relate to the new gen, civilian or pro, in terms of music.