MikeM, the girl didn't refuse you, they stated their preferences and YOU refused to abide. You could have agreed on the spot. If you'd agreed, the transaction would have happened.
We can say a girl is refusing a customer when THE CUSTOMER HAVE NO CONTROL on the decision, no matter what he did once the girl was there and no matter what he did before.
The skin color, the size, the girl feeling unsafe with him, his face remembering her an old abusive uncle, that, the customer have no control on so, in these cases, if the deed didn't occurs, it can be the girl who refused.
The girl doesn't like bad smells? The customer could have washed before she showed up so, by not doing so, he's refusing a girl who doesn't like bad smells. Customer's problem.
The girl doesn't like drunks? He could have been sober but he choose not to so, he's refusing a girl who doesn't like drunks. Customer's problem
The girl only takes 30 minutes? That's her right to fix her price and conditions. The customer refused the deal, not the girl. Customer's problem.
The girl has pussy hairs? She could expect it wasn't an issue since a lot of guys don't mind or even find it arousing. The customer decided to refuse. Customer's problem.
You get the drift?