What's your personal standard for judging whether a woman has come? I usually figure she has to be smiling. If she isn't, she didn't come. Do other people agree with that or do you have some other way of telling?
How do you know if she came?
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It varies very much with the woman. Some turn red; others get goose bumps. Some get very sensitive and can't tolerate further oral stimulation after they come. This board describes a rare few who squirt. What makes it even harder to tell is that orgasms can also vary markedly in intensity.
I believe that what one female character in "Le Déclin de l'empire américain" said is true. Women come far more easily if they are in love with their partner.
One lover (who I don't think was lying, because she told that she didn't come the first twenty odd times) started coming with me afterwards. However, I was never able to tell.
However, I think that it is more important for a man to try to put a woman at ease before he first touches her and pay attention to the way she responds during sex than play detective to determine if she came afterwards.
Please correct me if I am wrong, female merb members.
I believe that what one female character in "Le Déclin de l'empire américain" said is true. Women come far more easily if they are in love with their partner.
One lover (who I don't think was lying, because she told that she didn't come the first twenty odd times) started coming with me afterwards. However, I was never able to tell.
However, I think that it is more important for a man to try to put a woman at ease before he first touches her and pay attention to the way she responds during sex than play detective to determine if she came afterwards.
Please correct me if I am wrong, female merb members.
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Although women love orgasms too
We don't need to cum in order for an encounter to be fully satisfying. I just love being teased, so maybe it is just me, but that wired feeling I have after being teased with no release, is just wonderful to me. Being horny has such a wonderful intensity that it can make riding the Metro enjoyable!
I am a quiet cummer myself - but I do get extremely wet, and if you touch me I will react like you just jolted me with 1000 watt live wire! lol!
xoxox
Anik
We don't need to cum in order for an encounter to be fully satisfying. I just love being teased, so maybe it is just me, but that wired feeling I have after being teased with no release, is just wonderful to me. Being horny has such a wonderful intensity that it can make riding the Metro enjoyable!
I am a quiet cummer myself - but I do get extremely wet, and if you touch me I will react like you just jolted me with 1000 watt live wire! lol!
xoxox
Anik
I work very hard at getting women to orgasm. To me, my orgasm becomes so much more intense if the woman is also cumming as well. As for telling if she did, I can usually tell by the change in her tone. You can always tell the fakers, the over exaggerated "OMG", O yes, etc. You can see it in her face and hear it in her tone. My advice for younger MERBITES, learn how to eat pussy for a long long time. Make sure you stay there until the woman changes tones, and you feel the juice drippin down your chin. Once she is so soaking wet and your chin is dripping like you got cut shaving, then insert your cock and go to town!!!
How do I know?
Because she gets seismic spasms that set off Richter scales in New Delhi.
No seriously, because she tells me "...nobody has ever made me cum like that General...wow, it's like taking a trip to the moon and floating near heaven!"
GG
Because she gets seismic spasms that set off Richter scales in New Delhi.
No seriously, because she tells me "...nobody has ever made me cum like that General...wow, it's like taking a trip to the moon and floating near heaven!"GG
Maybe this.
Hello all,
I read somewhere in a physiological or medical report or whatever, I can't remember where, that touching right after an orgasm can be painful for most women. When she wants you to stop or pushes you away after an involuntary quivering, that was probably it. Been there done that...lol. Also, When one SP suddenly snaps her thighs in a vice around my ears until I get a whiplash...lol...that's definitely it. Neck brace anyone...
Ouch,
Korbel
Hello all,
I read somewhere in a physiological or medical report or whatever, I can't remember where, that touching right after an orgasm can be painful for most women. When she wants you to stop or pushes you away after an involuntary quivering, that was probably it. Been there done that...lol. Also, When one SP suddenly snaps her thighs in a vice around my ears until I get a whiplash...lol...that's definitely it. Neck brace anyone...
Ouch,
Korbel
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I suppose if she gives you your money back and asks for your phone number you did something right.
Boy, this makes me replay some of the best female orgasms in my head! Thanks for the memories!
I love it when a women's legs jitter uncontrollably after sex, so much so that it's like she was in a spell. If you touch her at the Y, she jolts again. And if you do it repeatedly, she wants you to stop. But to touch is so much fun at that point.
When you are inside during good intercourse, her insides can sometimes expand and contract causing a grabbing effect. And often she would be grabbing your butt when in mish.
Here is the funniest explanation of an orgasm that my ex-wife made many moons ago. She said she felt like "blue light" came out of her fingertips. Hahaha. I know that's like one of the other lines in When Harry Met Sally - "You made a girl meow?!?" Lol... she never said that one again.
I suppose all women orgasm differently. I know that one of the SPs I was with more than likely felt nothing. Her moans were fake. There wasn't that resonance to the moan and it was too much in time with the pushing. My experience is that the moans would not be so regular. Dispute that one if you want.
The other one I'm pretty sure did get one just because of the way her body moved and her sounds. She asked for my number ... lol. But I'm sure she wanted to cut out the middle man. No not mine! In any event, I liked the feel of her and had I not been leaving the next day I would have seen her again.
>>>Sad<<<
I love it when a women's legs jitter uncontrollably after sex, so much so that it's like she was in a spell. If you touch her at the Y, she jolts again. And if you do it repeatedly, she wants you to stop. But to touch is so much fun at that point.
When you are inside during good intercourse, her insides can sometimes expand and contract causing a grabbing effect. And often she would be grabbing your butt when in mish.
Here is the funniest explanation of an orgasm that my ex-wife made many moons ago. She said she felt like "blue light" came out of her fingertips. Hahaha. I know that's like one of the other lines in When Harry Met Sally - "You made a girl meow?!?" Lol... she never said that one again.
I suppose all women orgasm differently. I know that one of the SPs I was with more than likely felt nothing. Her moans were fake. There wasn't that resonance to the moan and it was too much in time with the pushing. My experience is that the moans would not be so regular. Dispute that one if you want.
The other one I'm pretty sure did get one just because of the way her body moved and her sounds. She asked for my number ... lol. But I'm sure she wanted to cut out the middle man. No not mine! In any event, I liked the feel of her and had I not been leaving the next day I would have seen her again.
>>>Sad<<<
Girls don't hate me, please!
The best way to figure out: heart rate. Just like man's, woman's heart rate accelerates and stays very high while and couple of minutes after an orgasm.
Also dry maulth and visible neck spasms.
As for DATY, it can be frustrating when lasts too long.
It's a bit of mythology that women enjoy it over anything. As women are very different and men not allways considering that fact, indicators telling you a woman has an orgasm can be indicators of the opposite. Lots of juice sometimes can be your own saliva, not all women get that much wet.
Muscle contraction are volontary ( to enhance the intercourse pleasure)when well developped and exercised, so it is not a clean sign of an orgasm either.
Pushing her man away -can as well be a very significant sign of her being in some very bad pain. Bad, because a little pain is tolerable when the rest is pleasurable.
Many women get very sensitive on nipples and/or clit after an orgasm and don't want to be touched in any way. Orgasm makes tired ( to the point to fall asleep right there) and can cause some lowerback pain for a little while.
For a woman to enjoy sex in general, the climax is absolutely not a nesessity,and can not happen at all times. And too much effort in that direction can push her away from you. So don't insist and ask her if she did-sometimes it's ambarassing to say "no, I didn't, but..."
"Women use sex to get love, men use love to get sex"- an ancient proverbe, sometimes true today.
Bori
The best way to figure out: heart rate. Just like man's, woman's heart rate accelerates and stays very high while and couple of minutes after an orgasm.
Also dry maulth and visible neck spasms.
As for DATY, it can be frustrating when lasts too long.
It's a bit of mythology that women enjoy it over anything. As women are very different and men not allways considering that fact, indicators telling you a woman has an orgasm can be indicators of the opposite. Lots of juice sometimes can be your own saliva, not all women get that much wet.
Muscle contraction are volontary ( to enhance the intercourse pleasure)when well developped and exercised, so it is not a clean sign of an orgasm either.
Pushing her man away -can as well be a very significant sign of her being in some very bad pain. Bad, because a little pain is tolerable when the rest is pleasurable.
Many women get very sensitive on nipples and/or clit after an orgasm and don't want to be touched in any way. Orgasm makes tired ( to the point to fall asleep right there) and can cause some lowerback pain for a little while.
For a woman to enjoy sex in general, the climax is absolutely not a nesessity,and can not happen at all times. And too much effort in that direction can push her away from you. So don't insist and ask her if she did-sometimes it's ambarassing to say "no, I didn't, but..."
"Women use sex to get love, men use love to get sex"- an ancient proverbe, sometimes true today.
Bori
The only person who knows if she came is herself!
The only person who knows if she came is herself!
They will always make you think that they came to make you feel good...but nah, I never bought that. Of course, as a gentleman, I play their game and act as if I believe them for that...But hey, let's face it:
how can you meet several men with whom you have no emotional attachment and have an orgasm??
Even physical signs (such as a very wet Y) has no meaning: some ladies are naturally wet even when
not having any particular desire.
I will not say that an SP will never have an orgasm with a customer....it can happen I guess....but it might be as rare as finding water in the desert.
The only person who knows if she came is herself!
They will always make you think that they came to make you feel good...but nah, I never bought that. Of course, as a gentleman, I play their game and act as if I believe them for that...But hey, let's face it:
how can you meet several men with whom you have no emotional attachment and have an orgasm??
Even physical signs (such as a very wet Y) has no meaning: some ladies are naturally wet even when
not having any particular desire.
I will not say that an SP will never have an orgasm with a customer....it can happen I guess....but it might be as rare as finding water in the desert.
Great thread. Those answers tell a lot about the poster.
My answer.
For ordinary girls. You can ask them. Heavy breathing, writhing hips, moaning to a crescendo & vaginal spasms are clues.
For pros and SPs. You cannot tell. They fake it very, very often. But that's wht we pay for sometimes.
My answer.
For ordinary girls. You can ask them. Heavy breathing, writhing hips, moaning to a crescendo & vaginal spasms are clues.
For pros and SPs. You cannot tell. They fake it very, very often. But that's wht we pay for sometimes.
we pay sp to make us cum..not the other way around.
but i know when my girlfriend cums cause she digs her finger nails into my back, usually drawing blood.
but i know when my girlfriend cums cause she digs her finger nails into my back, usually drawing blood.
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