How many if any of the Hobbiests in this forum are still engaged pursuing service providers at age 69?

[Footandleglover]

How many if any of the Hobbiests in this forum are still engaged pursuing service providers at age 69?
I reached the age of 69, 4 months ago and although I am still in reasonably good shape, my sex drive and my libido is a fraction of what it used to be.
Five years ago, I would wake up with a woodie, but not anymore. It seems that as we age us men go through a period of andropause which is the male version of female menapause.
I have had only one session in the last 5 years with a masseuse from YPG back in June, and I had to use Sidenafil (the generic for viagra) and it was OK but not great. I also looked at how inflation has caused the fees and rates of these service providers to escalate! Back in the day, I would pay the massage parlor $40 to $50 for the room for an hour and then $80 to $100 for the girl for a total of between $120 > $150. Today those rates are pretty much double and when I think how I could better spend $300, I get turned off to the idea of seeing a service provider besides the fact, that I am just not nearly as horny as I used to be in my younger days!
I guess I can take comfort that in my earlier years I experienced tons of masseuses, strippers and way back when street workers in the Red Light district of Montreal. So I definetly had my fill of experiences, some good and some not so good!
I have written a book on my experiences but I'm not sure if it's OK to share the details here without getting permission from the Mods, but it is filled with stories and pictures.
Bottom line, maybe it's time to seek out a female companion girlfriend to spend quality time with and not be by myself for the rest of my life.. And the sex part won't be an important component of the relationship, and I'm OK with that..

 

[2fast2slow]

im not 69 but im definietly getting up there....its still good to hear you had an experience in June. Did you get it up with Sildinafil? did you fiinish? was the girl ok with your age?

As for prices, theyve gone up like everything else. But I get it. For us old timers, psycologically its not motivating to spend $300

 

[Sweetguyyul]

"when I was your age a chocolate bar cost 3 cents"

Sorry gents, comparing 1972 to today is completely unnecessary.

 

[czar]

Hey. I’ll be turning 60 very soon. I, like you, have had a lot of experience with a lot of different escorts massage parlors, street meat, etc. over my lifetime. Many great unforgettable experiences; plenty of mediocre ; and some truly horrible ! I have noticed some decline obviously compared to when I was in my 20s but I’m still in pretty good shape and I’m able to fuck on a regular basis without any problem. And of course, libido has declined, but still pretty strong. I think with age we just realize there’s other things to occupy our minds and maybe we don’t think about sex as much. I do experience some fatigue sometimes if I go at it for a little while before finishing, I occasionally have trouble finishing.

As far as prices… Yeah, SP and massage prices have certainly increased significantly post Covid. But so has everything else!

Czar

 

[Julia Sky]

"when I was your age a chocolate bar cost 3 cents"

Sorry gents, comparing 1972 to today is completely unnecessary.

Agreed! Lol the things I would do to have a rent that costs 300$ like they did decades ago

 

[Footandleglover]

im not 69 but im definietly getting up there....its still good to hear you had an experience in June. Did you get it up with Sildinafil? did you fiinish? was the girl ok with your age?

As for prices, theyve gone up like everything else. But I get it. For us old timers, psycologically its not motivating to spend $300

Yes I did get it up with Sidenafil , but unfortunately I couldn't take a few puffs of a marijuana joint before the session as the combination of Sidenafil and Cannibis are contraindicated. In the past I have always gotten a little high off a marijuana joint before sex as I always found it accentuated the experience, And yes I did finish with Lina and yes she was OK with my age. The experience of getting a FJ from Lina wasn't terrific as she had never given a man a FJ before and she wasn't that good at it.. Also her toes were on the short side and I always preferred longer toes. So no repeat for me and it was my first sexual experience getting a FJ since Sara the independent masseuse retired back in October of 2019.
Total damage was $80 for the room & $160 to Lina for a total of $240.
There is one massage parlor that still has reasonable prices and that is Massage Altazea in Rosemount, but their girls are not that hot.
There are a couple of girls on my radar and that is Alekxia from Massage Adagio and Lola from XO Escorts, ( Although Lola never seems to be on the schedule) and an hour with either of these gems would cost $300.

 

[Footandleglover]

"when I was your age a chocolate bar cost 3 cents"

Sorry gents, comparing 1972 to today is completely unnecessary.

When I mentioned prices for massage parlors being $40 > $50 for the room and $80 > $100 for the girl, it wasn't in 1972.
We're talking mid 2005 thru 2013, those were the prices and and escort was between $160 > $180
So about 10 or 11 years ago, those were the prices and not 1972..

 

[Giselle Montreal]

Are we discussing seeing escorts in your senior years or the increase in escort rates? I wanted to say that many of my clients are in their 70s! You are not alone. If you enjoy the overall sexual experience and the physical and intellectual intimacy, is there really a problem if your stamina isn't as it was before?

 

[nounours_]

Maybe I should plan to celebrate my 69th birthday in the 69 position.

 

[Footandleglover]

Are we discussing seeing escorts in your senior years or the increase in escort rates? I wanted to say that many of my clients are in their 70s! You are not alone. If you enjoy the overall sexual experience and the physical and intellectual intimacy, is there really a problem if your stamina isn't as it was before?

The sex provider would have to work harder and longer to make a senior reach orgasm as it takes longer for a senior to reach orgasm, and I don't know how eager sex providers would be to work harder and longer to make a senior reach orgasm when they can service a younger client that should be easier to make him cum..

 

[Giselle Montreal]

The sex provider would have to work harder and longer to make a senior reach orgasm as it takes longer for a senior to reach orgasm, and I don't know how eager sex providers would be to work harder and longer to make a senior reach orgasm when they can service a younger client that should be easier to make him cum..

It's usually the exact opposite.

 

[Flyingby]

Bottom line, maybe it's time to seek out a female companion girlfriend to spend quality time with and not be by myself for the rest of my life.. And the sex part won't be an important component of the relationship, and I'm OK with that..

so you been bangin’ hot 20-30 year olds
And now you want to seek out a female companion
Unless you loaded. Which by your hidden comments on rates under pretense of an age discussion thread probably means you are not. So…good luck breaking the habit

 

[Sweetguyyul]

The sex provider would have to work harder and longer to make a senior reach orgasm as it takes longer for a senior to reach orgasm, and I don't know how eager sex providers would be to work harder and longer to make a senior reach orgasm when they can service a younger client that should be easier to make him cum..

Wouldn’t it be an Hour?

 

[lou67]

Never hidden it, I am a babyboomer of the 50's , and have been active for many years, but footandeglover is right, it takes much more time to have fun know these days , why I try to take 60 minutes, otherwise nothing happens, and waste of money.
I try to take more MILF type, then the younger generation, who want to finish to quickly, and good luck with me if they can do it , it aint't going to happen, and again their are MILF's and GILF's who want to do it in 20 minutes as well, good luck to them as well with me.
The other point, we like the old days pricing, because that's what we remember, because at our age we are on a fix income, and many SP's don't take our FADOQ card for a discount , however the STM , movie theaters and others do
I know their will be a day, where I will stop and stay home and dream about the good old days, and then again it may be my Alzheimer' days and won't remember, any of the SP's I have seen.
69 is around the corner, and hope to live long enough to read my obituary on the web....

 

[MCTJ]

Bottom line, maybe it's time to seek out a female companion girlfriend to spend quality time with and not be by myself for the rest of my life..

Better late than never I guess
Mieux vaut tard que jamais

 

[Footandleglover]

Wouldn’t it be an Hour?

It should be an hour but many SP's like to finish off their client(s) faster so they could move to the next client.. Also I think many SP's would get frustrated taking so long for a senior to reach orgasm..

 

[Giselle Montreal]

It should be an hour but many SP's like to finish off their client(s) faster so they could move to the next client.. Also I think many SP's would get frustrated taking so long for a senior to reach orgasm..

You mean that when you book for 60 minutes, you expect 59 minutes of sex?

 

[Footandleglover]

You mean that when you book for 60 minutes, you expect 59 minutes of sex?

I would expect however long it takes for the SP to do her job and make me cum as long as it's within the 1 hour of booked time. But with me, I need a lot of quality teasing and quality foreplay before the act and the better the teasing and foreplay, the better and faster I would reach orgasm..

 

[sphunter]

I have been a client for about 15years, and I was quite young, I was rubbing shoulders with the biggest names in the industry today. At the same time I made some lifelong connections (clients) along the way. I think among the 30 clients I knew that were 50+years, most are still active today, so to answer your question, yes they still indulge in the hobby. The ones getting close to their 70s, not so much, mainly because they just dont have the motivation or hunger to hobby. I learned an immense amount from the old cats.

very few of them were married, mostly divorced or they've given up on traditional relationships because the hobby was more fulfilling. I assume they are catching up on what they missed out in their younger years. fair.