How often do you have sex with wife...modified

[chef]

Knowing When to Leave

There is an old Burt Bacharach song entitled "Knowing When to Leave"; one of the lines is, "Knowing when to leave can be the smartest thing that anyone can learn".

Wish I were smart.

 

[General Gonad]

My ex and I literally melt into one another whenever we hug, to this day. We lived under the same roof for 5 years. I slept on the sofa downstairs maybe 5 hours the whole time, why? Because no matter how bad things were, we could not bear to be parted from one another's arms at night. To this day, when we meet and hug, it's the same thing, a mystical pull. We have that chemistry, we have love, and deep incompatibilities about a lot of the rest. Grrr!

Do I wish it would have ended sooner without that bad last period? Who's to say. But I have a beautiful friend for life and will become the North American mentor of her daughter, should she return in later years.

I completely understand what you mean. My wife is my best friend. We are both very close and there for each other, especially when the chips are down. However, in many ways, we're incompatible, especially in our sexual drives. I don't blame her - I am not always easy to deal with.

But I just wish she made an effort once in a while to seduce me like I make an effort to be romantic. Does anyone else feel this way?

GG

 

[General Gonad]

Love is amazing only when you are free to move with nothing holding you back where the only consequence is that it doesn't work out and you go your seperate ways and later looking back that eventhough it didn't work out the way you want them to but it was still worth it. This means no wife and no SO before you entered this game.

Very interesting but I still think that it is a lot tougher "going your separate ways" when you're married. But I like what you wrote because love for me does mean giving it my all and never holding back. Even when I got burned, I still went into my next relationship with an open heart. I would never hold back when I truly love someone...NEVER!!!

GG

 

[General Gonad]

There is an old Burt Bacharach song entitled "Knowing When to Leave"; one of the lines is, "Knowing when to leave can be the smartest thing that anyone can learn".

Wish I were smart.

Me too, me too!