Yes, it is. If you try to do something to achieve an imagined goal then you're a slave to an imagined master. But the tricky thing is then that one ends up trying to play, as if it was just another technique. From my experience, a sure fire solution is observing myself performing/playing/whatever with no judgment at all and developing a habit of doing this , but it requires a kind of solid meditation practice and years of frustration. Some SW are willing to play in this way where we can look at the whole situation together objectively, but unfortunately that is rare. Seeing sex workers is a performance no matter what for both people most of the time. It's mutual servitude, not unlike most conventional relationships. So, inevitably, it will involve horrible failure, delusion, frustration, and misery as well as any of the pleasures involved. Can't have one without the other. We're doomed gentleman. We've got to see as many lovely ladies as we can before the terror sets in!
How to perform like a stud?
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guys if your feeling a bit tired before a session take some pre workout 20-30mins before your session. pre workout will dilate your veins causing more blood flow and gives you energy.
Part of my preparation routine like before going to gym.
I heard you could have similar result with Citruline. It comes from watermelon.
Last time, I told her I was a bit worried about an anal tryout. She generously offered me a genuine blue pill.
I did feel good at meeting time so I didn’t took it.
Did prepare her ass with oil and twin fingers nail to nail digit technique.
As she had the twist to keep me hard, I made my way like a champ in her cute small ass.
Squeezing lower part of dick while entering is a plus for successful dilatation.
Don’t have doubt anymore.
She gave me the pill anyway and I kept it for an upcoming extra long session.
I would always take a pill if I'm lucky enough to get a good anal session booked. If a girl is offering up her butt, last thing I want is to struggle to get it in, or not be able to really go at it. There's no downside to popping a pill before a session, for me anyway. Some get headaches, or too flushed. I get a nice buzz, almost like from a beer or some other kind of drug, which, combined with the anticipation that I'm gonna be banging a brand new girl, adds to the excitement of the experience.Part of my preparation routine like before going to gym.
I heard you could have similar result with Citruline. It comes from watermelon.
Last time, I told her I was a bit worried about an anal tryout. She generously offered me a genuine blue pill.
I did feel good at meeting time so I didn’t took it.
Did prepare her ass with oil and twin fingers nail to nail digit technique.
As she had the twist to keep me hard, I made my way like a champ in her cute small ass.
Squeezing lower part of dick while entering is a plus for successful dilatation.
Don’t have doubt anymore.
She gave me the pill anyway and I kept it for an upcoming extra long session.
Interesting. I’ll try it next time.
I now got 2 in a row with good preparation without medication. I must admit I’m not an anal freak but it’s nice to vary the menu from time to time. In fact, I never had much anal sessions in my life (under a dozen) and last time I enjoyed an anal master class as I told her I was not much experimented. I found it very instructive about what’s going on when she’s performing anal. She told me that there ain’t much stimulation if it’s only anal. She said that If she stimulate her clitoris with her hand or vibrator, it will click with anal to produce an intense orgasm.
Never too late to learn new stuff.
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Is it getting hard/ staying that is the issue? Or Cuming to fast? Cause these two are different ...
If cuming to fast is the issue... there's spray with active ingredient that will desensitize the erea!! This works wonders for me when I've not been active for a while... and I just know I'm not going to last.. just one spray will make me cum only as a "normal" person would.
For getting and staying hard... 45 and still no issues. Not overthinking it either...
Hope this is any help!!
If cuming to fast is the issue... there's spray with active ingredient that will desensitize the erea!! This works wonders for me when I've not been active for a while... and I just know I'm not going to last.. just one spray will make me cum only as a "normal" person would.
For getting and staying hard... 45 and still no issues. Not overthinking it either...
Hope this is any help!!
Work out more, lads.
Pre-CoVID I was still in pretty good shape (wrestled+lifting and climbing 4-5 times a week). No problems fucking.
These days, I get tired from getting a blowjob.
Pre-CoVID I was still in pretty good shape (wrestled+lifting and climbing 4-5 times a week). No problems fucking.
These days, I get tired from getting a blowjob.
Nike Training Club: Fitness on the App Store (apple.com) - If you have old Apple and Android devices would be ideal. The new update sucks.
adidas Training: Home Workout - Apps on Google Play
PUMATRAC Run, Train, Fitness on the App Store (apple.com)
If you are in Montreal, Report Fitness | HIIT & Calisthenics Gym ---- Best and the most productive 30 minutes you will experience.
adidas Training: Home Workout - Apps on Google Play
PUMATRAC Run, Train, Fitness on the App Store (apple.com)
If you are in Montreal, Report Fitness | HIIT & Calisthenics Gym ---- Best and the most productive 30 minutes you will experience.
My personal recipe: one drink, not more. No drugs of all kind. No masturbation for 2-3 days. One pop of cialis, which I get over the counter
For a huge load here’s my recipe
I take a testosterone booster (tribulus+fenugreek+magnesium) and
Zinc! I drink a shit load of water. If I’m able to hold it and not masturbate for a full week or close to that… The day I release… they call me Pablo Picasso, cause I can paint their whole face and body
healthy diet, exercice and good sleep length will help obviously… but these three are harder to get for me
For a huge load here’s my recipe
I take a testosterone booster (tribulus+fenugreek+magnesium) and
Zinc! I drink a shit load of water. If I’m able to hold it and not masturbate for a full week or close to that… The day I release… they call me Pablo Picasso, cause I can paint their whole face and body
healthy diet, exercice and good sleep length will help obviously… but these three are harder to get for me
I had that once. A popular escort asked when am I going to cum cause her jaw was hurting and that next time I shouldn`t book her for 2 hours. As you can imagine there was no next time.
Is this uncommon? This happens to me so much! Most SP I've been with complains that I want a BJ too long and their jaw is hurting (I usually want like a 20 min BJ, too long?). So sad
I'm on a bad streak atm, last few girls Ive seen, i havent been able to get properly hard and putting in bad performances in bed.
Man. You put too much thought into it. Stop trying to perform. Let her work
I have a few tips that were extremely helpful when i was in my hobbying prime & most active:
-I did a lot of research & read several books written by experts & researchers in how to satisfy women. The Hite Reports books were very helpful & i even read the one intended for female readers since i wanted to learn from a woman’s perspective.
-I learned from watching porn. I’m talking about porn from the golden age of porn where there was more emphasis about pleasing women. Today’s porn sucks & doesn’t turn me on one bit. It’s misogynistic, violent & only serves to degrade & humiliate women. Not my thing.
-By the time I discovered the hobby in my mid-30’s i was already very experienced & had practiced my technique & gained sexual confidence with over 40 different partners by then. I learned to adapt my style since i was aware that each woman’s tastes are different. Some prefer TLC, some like dirty talk, some like it rough & others like a mix of everything.
-My love of sex & pleasing women sexually led me to maintain physical fitness more seriously & more regularly once i was in my 40’s. I was regularly in the gym working on my cardio & lifting weights. I even built my own gym at home. As i got older i realized that drinking alcohol prior to a date & doing the deed was not recommended. I also realized I preferred having sex with a clear head. I performed better & enjoyed it better.
-The more sex partners i had & the better I performed the more confidence i gained & for me this was a key to being able to maintain my interest in having a lot of sex. And realizing & being told i was very good at pleasing the opposite sex was a great boost for the ego.
-Over time the confidence i had made it easier to experiment & fullfill whichever sex fantasy was still on my checklist. I had my most satisfying sexual experiences in my late 40’s into my 50’s. The hobby also permitted me to discover great sex partners & they were a match for me mostly because they were equally as experienced as i was in the art of pleasing men & being aware of themselves & what works for them to be fullfilled sexually.
-I did a lot of research & read several books written by experts & researchers in how to satisfy women. The Hite Reports books were very helpful & i even read the one intended for female readers since i wanted to learn from a woman’s perspective.
-I learned from watching porn. I’m talking about porn from the golden age of porn where there was more emphasis about pleasing women. Today’s porn sucks & doesn’t turn me on one bit. It’s misogynistic, violent & only serves to degrade & humiliate women. Not my thing.
-By the time I discovered the hobby in my mid-30’s i was already very experienced & had practiced my technique & gained sexual confidence with over 40 different partners by then. I learned to adapt my style since i was aware that each woman’s tastes are different. Some prefer TLC, some like dirty talk, some like it rough & others like a mix of everything.
-My love of sex & pleasing women sexually led me to maintain physical fitness more seriously & more regularly once i was in my 40’s. I was regularly in the gym working on my cardio & lifting weights. I even built my own gym at home. As i got older i realized that drinking alcohol prior to a date & doing the deed was not recommended. I also realized I preferred having sex with a clear head. I performed better & enjoyed it better.
-The more sex partners i had & the better I performed the more confidence i gained & for me this was a key to being able to maintain my interest in having a lot of sex. And realizing & being told i was very good at pleasing the opposite sex was a great boost for the ego.
-Over time the confidence i had made it easier to experiment & fullfill whichever sex fantasy was still on my checklist. I had my most satisfying sexual experiences in my late 40’s into my 50’s. The hobby also permitted me to discover great sex partners & they were a match for me mostly because they were equally as experienced as i was in the art of pleasing men & being aware of themselves & what works for them to be fullfilled sexually.
Well said Doc!
Like "I learned from watching porn. I’m talking about porn from the golden age of porn where there was more emphasis about pleasing women. Today’s porn sucks & doesn’t turn me on one bit. It’s misogynistic, violent & only serves to degrade & humiliate women. Not my thing".
I feel the same when I read some reviews where "choking, hair pulling etc" are mentioned in connection with ladies I know and have been with who are not the rough and tough type.
Just a personal view.
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I tried fenugreek for a while, but didn't notice any difference when I stopped taking it. Maybe it has to be combined with other ingredients ?
Same thing for maca.
The placebo effect is very important though, as someone mentioned, if you think you'll fail then you'll be more likely to fail.
Sleep has an effect for sure, but it's complicated. For example being woken up too early does me good, for some reason.
Also, as others mentioned, with an escort you have zero obligations of hardness and stamina. Plenty of other obligations, but not that.
She can find herself a young stallion in her own time, don't you worry.
I for one don't last long and I'm pretty sure they actually prefer that.
@cloudsurf, @envelopes, and @Motok if you guys can last that long, how often do you masturbate and for how long do you masturbate for? Can you guys cum on demand or you are unable to cum at all? Thanks
Semen retention for three weeks minimum does some wonders. A month would be ideal. Then book a girl who does CIM. For those who have done it know how that feels.
Remember fondly when I made a brief return to the hobby in 2005. Also deleted my porn stash like three months prior so I did the 90 Day NoFap thing many were raving about. Honestly it is kind of a myth and no magic super power elixir but when you bust a nut it is going to be huge dump. First girl I saw was Sophia of MTLGFE and she was recommended by Mike. Oh what an experience that was.
Remember fondly when I made a brief return to the hobby in 2005. Also deleted my porn stash like three months prior so I did the 90 Day NoFap thing many were raving about. Honestly it is kind of a myth and no magic super power elixir but when you bust a nut it is going to be huge dump. First girl I saw was Sophia of MTLGFE and she was recommended by Mike. Oh what an experience that was.
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