How would /will you retire?

[Jamesrenard44]

Hi everyone!

I've retired once and came back being too addicted to all the beautiful ladies. Unfortunately, my schedule as been impossible lately and I've had to last minute cancel some highly expected appointments (I apologize again to all the beautiful ladies). I've also realized that I need a connection to really have fun. At one point, I'm not as turned on of getting my dick sucked as I was before. I believe a relationship with benefits will be more profitable for me and my future partner.


So I've come to the conclusion that I need to retire for good, stay away from the hobby temptation and try me new plan. The problem is that last time, I've quit suddenly a this time, I wanna go a last run to get it out of my system. I'm currently planning a meeting with a super hot sp. If The email exchange is a guarantee of our future encounter, it's going to be amazing.

I was just wondering if you ever have thought about it and what was your plan/idea?

 

[2458p]

I'm 30 and relatively new to the game ( only 44 appointments this year ) but one thing I know:

I'll never retire.

Even if I fall in love with the girl of my dreams. Yeah I'll like her...but love is one thing and sex is another. Life is too short to stop. It's my guilty pleasure, je l'assume, it is what it is.

 

[Jamesrenard44]

Only because the suit doesn't suit me. i've met gorgeus sp, some really smart one but the thing is that a had a blast when i was able to have a connection with them. I understand you guys, the hobby is great if it fulfill your needs but reality is it doesn't for me. I'm not shy to say that i've had the sex with sp but as fun as it can be, i need more and it would fucking stupid to look for more in the SP world. it's like buying pastries at the grocery store, it's offered but ....

 

[Ricky bonds]

I have retired twice, once for a commited, deeply loyal relationship with my fiancè that lasted a few years, ending right before this summer..
And the second time was this summer when i dated a courtesan.
Now i am fully commited to myself and don't have any immediate or future plans to quit hobbying anymore, ever!
Of course there are events that transpire in life that can come at any moment and change everything but i enjoy hobbying and some courtesans bring me more than the best of my most deeply commited relationships ever could. Plus i enjoy my alone time and seeing sp's gives you a magic off switch that you couldn't necessarily push with a gf or wife.

The real key is knowing how to hobby..
You go see the right girl for the right thing? Its quite simple actually.
You don't go see lydhia for passionate lovemaking while making eye contact with intense cuddling and mutual caresses..and you dont go see cinderella for hair~pulling, anal and hardcore pse sex

If you want to have the best natural, down to earth, simple yet complex girl as a dinner date who will make every second with her feel like the world has stopped spinning? And only the 2 of you are moving at the right speed...you don't call up some random girl on backpage? You book with amelie gray

Picking the perfect girl for the perfect time is a big step in hobbying correctly and never getting fed up, or being deceived.
I prefer maintaining one special regular, having one on call for certain fetishes, and having a specific girl for every specific need that i maintain friendships with.
Following these guidlines leads me to believe i can hobby until my death and still be satisfied

 

[Stroman]

Wow! Once again..you are stealing the words right off my keyboard.

 

[Lily from Montreal]

If you put aside the money consideration of course, I would think that for a gentleman a good time to retire would be when your mind can but your body is not following...
I've had a few meetings when I was worrying I had killed my date and some where no matter what nothing is happening,it is hard on my ego...

 

[Jamesrenard44]

@ricky

Thanks for your input. I believe that you are right. But again, I'm realizing that I want the impossible perfect solution : flirt, teasing, sex, a little intimacy but no relationship. Am I looking forward for something impossible, probably yes! But I guess I still wanna give it a one last try...

@lily

Although it never happened to me (thank god!), I must say that flirt and teasing will always amplifie the pleasure that I can have with a lady, sp or not. I need the build up to really enjoy it. As I said, the best sex that I've had as been with spas. Maybe I need a long break instead of retirement lol

 

[Arrrg]

It's complicated lol

I really enjoy meeting the variety of girls out there with no strings attached, yet I don't have fun just to drop my pants and go for it.

I really enjoy meeting the girls that stimulate me intellectually, but then I find it gets boring for both sides and I need to move on

I don't really particularly enjoy the hunt.

I probably should retire lol.

 

[WasteIslander]

It was a tough decision, and one I just made. Due a to major change in my relationship status, and being I want to give 100% to the relationship I have decided to retire. You never know if things change or not, so who knows whether I will be back. I figure that if I keep the hobby as a back up that I am not fully committing myself into the relationship, and that isn't fair to anyone.

That being said, I will miss all the lovely women I have had a chance to be with and who have been quasi regulars for me. They know who they are.

Merb had been a great tool in my adventures.

 

[Passionné]

Like Patron I've never seen this hobby as anything to retire from. It seems to me like you would be retiring from eating your favorite ice cream. For me you either you have some when you want it or you have found something else more appealing.

Some people love the life of selecting different hot women all the time. Like WasteIslander and I many would stop if they got into a great relationship. For me it's a fall back option. When there's someone I'm seeing I don't bother with escorts, when there's no special lady around I'm calling for escorts. The idea of retirement does not fit into that.

 

[WasteIslander]

Don't call it a retirement then, how about a possible extended hiatus?

 

[TheDon]

3 reasons to retire

-I run out of hobby money
-My dick don't work
-I find true love

blah...

 

[minutemenX]

3 reasons to retire

-I run out of hobby money
-My dick don't work
-I find true love

blah...

Ah, it is everybody dream to die while fucking. Regrettably our transition from healthy life to death goes through unpleasant stages of declined abilities and illness. So you retire by attrition: calling girl first every week, than every other week, than every month and finally calling duo to see girls having sex with each other when you are sipping some wine… After this you retire and promptly die.

 

[Aellyn Rose]

Ever thought of looking for a regular whom you connect with??

Hi everyone!

I've retired once and came back being too addicted to all the beautiful ladies. Unfortunately, my schedule as been impossible lately and I've had to last minute cancel some highly expected appointments (I apologize again to all the beautiful ladies). I've also realized that I need a connection to really have fun. At one point, I'm not as turned on of getting my dick sucked as I was before. I believe a relationship with benefits will be more profitable for me and my future partner.


So I've come to the conclusion that I need to retire for good, stay away from the hobby temptation and try me new plan. The problem is that last time, I've quit suddenly a this time, I wanna go a last run to get it out of my system. I'm currently planning a meeting with a super hot sp. If The email exchange is a guarantee of our future encounter, it's going to be amazing.

I was just wondering if you ever have thought about it and what was your plan/idea?