Kaempferrand said:Okay kind of extreme there in regards to the definition of single in your point of view! Naaah.... single is never about celibacy. It is about freedom and independence with most importantly self-preservation where formlessness and the ability to constantly redefine who you are and want to be. That is something you don't want to lose. That is what single is about. Well that is my take on it.
If you don't know what this truly means well when one day when you spend your weekends shopping for tampons and all that Hello Kitty/Sanrio crap instead of heading to say cutting some fresh powder with your snowboard, then you wish you were a game less dork.
I know I have freedom, and I travel a lot. I get drunk probably way too much too. But just the most basic things in life that virtually everyone takes for granted, I've never really even experienced. Thing of this, I'm in my early thirties, and I've only had girls willingly have sex with me (ie not having to pay) 10 times. TEN TIMES!! I realize, yes, that it's not a competition, that in 100 years, I'm going to be rotting and it won't matter, but when you're alive, it really does matter (oh and no, it's not just about sex for me, thank GOD i have a pretty low sex drive)... Even if I were to get married, I would enver want kids anyways. I've been on public transport, I've seen the guy with his wife who probably gained 100 lbs since they got married, and the screaming brats running around and I could just tell he was feeling dread and hating his life... But I'm sure he also had some fun.