If SP's could do reviews of costumers

[chowzilla]

Personally I wouldn't mind at all, I sometimes find myself escorting the girls lol. Maybe I would have like 12 pages of reviews lol. jk

in all fairness, lets say the hobby is meant for the "disadvantaged" guys. Wouldn't the SP client board make it harder for them?

I know what all the girls are going to promote that its just a review board to share whether you are a "good" client, are you clean, respectful etc... but just like MERB and we're all human, there will be extra details added that objectifies the clients just like we do here for the girls
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I can already imagine it!

Yes Mr.X is very nice, he came on time, gave me the donation at the beginning, was very respectful, good hygiene.
but he's so awkward
but he sweats too much
but he brings food all the time
but he's into bdsm
but he's always high
but he has a deformity
but he's weird
but he's too fat
but he's bla bla bla

it's a slippery slope... this would probably lead to the best girls getting the best clients, not sure that's the goal of this industry.
Regardless its not a concern of mine, as I wouldn't mind being in the top percentile

do what you will ladies

 

[Sylar]

If I wanted to hear about my shortcomings (pun intended) I'd just get a girlfriend.

On a more serious note, I wouldn't mind and am actually interested in genuine feedback.

 

[Iceman71]

Garanteed most sp review look like this

what the John thinks of himself: good looking, fit

ahhhh. So then it is one of those infamous “white knights” thread!
Defender of the ladies.
I love the r-rated reviews. The more details the better. This should not be “bleu-nuit” reviews.

You are quite presomptuous and my intention is solely based on the simple question how would you react if an SP would do a bad review. I'm not implying this forum should only have bleu nuit reviews or that all posts should be positive to save the ladies.

 

[hungry101]

In the US they would say “his money is green and covered with dead Presidents.”

 

[TheBlob]

How would you guys handle having a bad review ? I know this may sound weird but have you ever thought what kind of reviews we would have if it was the other way around.

I would try to improve myself, if i judge the reasons are legit. Hygiene or attitude are things you can work on. If it's about look, i would say too bad, i'm the one paying and i can't change my face.

 

[Anwar]

I like the idea of being publicly reviewed. As far as I know, providers have their own internal channel for discussing their experience with particular clients anyway; it'd be great to see those reviews in public.

As for negative reviews, I would handle them the same way I handle legitimate criticism from my real-life partner; it stings at first, but it's an opportunity to improve myself. It's how we grow as mature adults.

 

[hungry101]

There is a review board for you. The girls have a place to go on MERB to report a bad client and you cannot see what they write about you. Also, they have back channels just like the we do so rest assured you will be talked about. Pay the girls advertised rate and err on the side of being generous, be clean, respect boundaries and try to be fun.

 

[rosedelacourt]

There is a review board for you. The girls have a place to go on MERB to report a bad client and you cannot see what they write about you. Also, they have back channels just like the we do so rest assured you will be talked about. Pay the girls advertised rate and err on the side of being generous, be clean, respect boundaries and try to be fun.

Couldn't have said it better myself

 

[luvdozer]

And the kind of reviews I would get would be some of the greatest reviews ever written on MERB because I am the greatest lover the world has ever seen!

I am pretty sure you meant to say second greatest lover the world has ever seen

 

[Anna Bijou]

Valerie. I agree with you for providers sake. A private board.
but what OP wants is a public board where a provider can say what she thinks of him and he can see it.

Very useful and it is a great way to feel like you have a network and backup.

I joined on a few sites many years ago when I was out west.

For all the benefits that this kind of resource provides for us, every single one that was part of a review board eventually devolved into a shit show. These are private areas for ladies only but that means any sp can join. Eventually there are always a couple of girls who don't like each other, who start shit up. Sometimes it's because sp X has something unfavorable about a client, it can be lies or smears or it can be totally accurate. Sp Y decides to ignore the rules and tell the client about the details of what was said in the thread, not only by sp X but by the rest of the alphabet of Sp's. Maybe it's just to fuck sp X but it could also come out that sp y and client are involved romantically.

Every sp feels betrayed The drama spills into the main forum, some Sp's are banned from the ladies forum. Everyone is freaked out and worried about posting anything.

There's also the reality that no one ever knows who is moderator (usually ends up being the boards owner and a male member but who knows who else has access).

I have either been a witness or unwittingly been sucked in the eye of the hurricane on 3 different review boards. It's not always instigated by a lady either. In the end, it fucking sucks because the information about bad dates and time wasters isn't being shared and you lose a supposedly safe space.

Eventually some of us got fed up with the bs and set up our own private board, moderated by ourselves and accessible by invite only. Someone would nominate an sp they thought should be invited and the members had a discussion about it. If there were objections, we would simply not invite the person and they'd never even know. It was solid, no cattiness, even if we didn't all get along with everyone. That was the only girls lounge that was totally about support and safe space to talk with a bunch of ladies who were going to understand. This was a long time ago though.

So, yes in a sense we did write reviews. But not based on the same criteria as clients. The purpose these 'reviews' serve is completely different than reviews about services and physical features lol

I don't care if he had abs of steel or a dad bod, I also don't need to know if he was a god in bed. I want to know if he was an asshole, if he didn't respect boundaries, had really bad hygiene or asked for bbfs.

 

[Anna Bijou]

My friend, such review board already exists and that's call twitter . If you go there, you will see, most SPs all day long complaining/retweeting about bad clients, how they treat them badly, how review boards are toxic place etc. After reading all that, not sure if you would still like to see them

And reddit lol

 

[WasteIslander]

How? Most comments that clients write about SPs are very positive.

I would say take some time and go through the archives are far back as you can go.

It may seem less so now than it did 10 years ago, but it is still there teaming under the surface.

The he said she said shit show that some threads devolve into is deplorable. It would actually make an interesting thesis topic, but it is likely already done.

 

[sene5hos]

If we look at the vast majority of indie reviews that are announced on this site are very good.

Also the reviews of agency girls largely are very good (except Mae 888).

If we take the indies reviews that are announced on Ann123, AI, LL, Hump etc ... are less good.

In short, I think we could make a correlation with the customers who operate in these three categories.
So the importance of having this kind of board would be very good for the SPs of the three categories in descending order.

 

[Sol Tee Nutz]

I prefer not to be patronized, all the " Wow, is that old fat fuck incredible " may go to my head.