I have been involved with 2 SPs "outside of work". Now that I am out of my involvement. Looking at the situation from 36,000 foot view, even civilian women have tons of issues/baggage, and SPs have even more issues (mental issues and/or drug issues) ! Women who have had too many sexual partners have a hard time in forming a bond with their husband, i.e., the thousand cock stare (see attached pic). Men are different! We can still form a bond with our wives despite the number of sexual partners.
Thanks to Montreal, I have seen close to 200 SPs. After so many years of hobbying, I actually wanted to stop hobbying and settle down and get a wife. Not an easy task! Even civilian women have had too many cocks in their pussies
The best bet is women from traditional Middle Eastern cultures. They talk softly and never raise their voice!
If you marry a SP, she may still be "working". Not sure how you feel when your wife comes home from "work" all sore and can't give you any nookie!