I’ve been around for a few years and I’ve noticed that all the high end SPs I’ve encountered on Twitter all had things in common. Now, that doesn’t mean it is the right answer and it doesn’t mean they are superior to other SPs.
• They were in their late twenties - mid thirties
→ Because it takes time to get to that level
• They didn’t have that many lingerie photos
→ They want you to be able to picture yourself taking her to a fancy restaurant or to a charity event maybe.
• They didn’t have tattoos or very small tasteful ones
→ The people with the kind of money to hire a high end SP are usually conservative people and would probably not be into very visible tattoos.
• They had a beautiful website with only a few pages. Only the essentials such as: About, visuals, rates and FAQ
→ A clean, professional and expensive looking website sure helps.
• They were on social media but only to post photos, a few tweets and go back to their activities.
→ A lot of times, I have seen people engaging in what we call “Twitter drama”. It is not a good look. Clients don’t care and it also makes you look like you have way too much time on your hands…maybe because you aren’t being booked.
• They usually had a large following but in return didn’t follow many accounts so if you made it to the short list of people they were following, you were part of the cool gang.
→ Because their photos are always impeccably done, they always receive gifts that are most definitely on your wishlist and travel to Pinterest like destination, it’s easy to understand how they gathered so many followers.
• Rate structure. The point that you were probably waiting for. I’ve noticed it was always kind of mysterious, no hourly rates and the words “up to” were often used. Exemple: $3,500 for up to 6 hours
→ They’re rarely clock watchers and they don’t really do 60 or 90 mins dates. They push dinner dates, lunch dates and events more than anything.
• Most were face out but I’ve noticed it was usually the American ones. The Canadian ones weren’t because they want to be able to travel down to the States.
→ Like I’ve mentioned many times, the U.S.A are a little bit hostile when it comes to SWs crossing the borders even if they have no intention working there.
• It was known or assumed that they had a long term arrangement with a whale and were just seeing a few clients on the side.
→ This justifies the high rates. If you already have a whale giving you 10-20,000 a month, do you really care if your high rates don’t attract many clients?
Oops forgot the most important point so I am editing this post.
• They have a 10/10 look. By that I don’t mean that they are a 10/10 on the attractiveness scale but more that their clothes always fit, their hair are always well done, their nails and grooming. Fresh face whether they’re wearing makeup or not.
→ If you’re going to pay in the 4 figures to spend time with someone, you would expect them to have the money to get the best upkeeps.
