Is DATY & BBBJ are safe ?
- Thread starter Rockey001
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I might be biased but here is my take
BBBJ? Mostly safe plus feels great!
DATY? Risky.
Just kidding!!! But try to reserve some activities for your gf. In my case I do daty with her so don’t do it with sp’s. Since gf rarely gives me bj then I can reserve bbbj for sp’s
BBBJ? Mostly safe plus feels great!
DATY? Risky.
Just kidding!!! But try to reserve some activities for your gf. In my case I do daty with her so don’t do it with sp’s. Since gf rarely gives me bj then I can reserve bbbj for sp’s
I'm not giving medical advice here, I'm just saying it's funny that it cleared up. I researched it online before taking them and I found out that same type is also used to cure sinus infections. If it hadn't worked I would have had to rush to the emergency room because I was in so much pain but it relieved my pain immediately. I'm not recommending that other people do the same. It was just an absurd anecdote.
If your GF doesn't give you head, why are you going down on her? The only reason I can think is HOPEFULLY you like her pussy and it's nice and clean but yeah....not cool of her. Too many people stay together when they're not really (at least) sexually compatible. But then again here we are in relationships and on a SW review site and all ... partaking.I might be biased but here is my take
BBBJ? Mostly safe plus feels great!
DATY? Risky.
Just kidding!!! But try to reserve some activities for your gf. In my case I do daty with her so don’t do it with sp’s. Since gf rarely gives me bj then I can reserve bbbj for sp’s
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I know I shouldn’t be surprised — everyone moves at their own pace and looks for information when they need it.
But coming to MERB to ask questions about sexual health will always surprise me… especially in 2026.
But coming to MERB to ask questions about sexual health will always surprise me… especially in 2026.
I agree, this is just not the right place to ask these questions. If you go to a testing clinic they will gladly answer these.
Why is no one mentioning HPV?
It's the main cause of throat cancer in men , almost 80% of women will get at least one type in their life once they become sexually active . High risk HPV can develop into cervical cancer and low risk causes warts . Those warts are sometimes very hard to see ( hidden ) and it's transmittable through direct contact. But anyways , to answer the main question yes it's risky . You can get many things , even with condoms..
It's the main cause of throat cancer in men , almost 80% of women will get at least one type in their life once they become sexually active . High risk HPV can develop into cervical cancer and low risk causes warts . Those warts are sometimes very hard to see ( hidden ) and it's transmittable through direct contact. But anyways , to answer the main question yes it's risky . You can get many things , even with condoms..
Yes that's also a real concern. I really recommend getting the HPV vaccine.
I got it in 2024 because of a post here on the forum saying they were vaccinating 25+ adults for free instead of wasting the vaccines that were getting near expiration date
Make sure you get Gardasil because that's the one that protects against the most dangerous forms of HPV.
You gotta be careful with condoms. In my 4 years of being a SP the condom never broke. However it happened many times at first that the condom slid off.. In a few instances it seemed like it was done on purpose and the guy kept going even if the condom had slid off, I only realized later. Otherwise it's just that the person doesn't know how to use condoms properly and make them work.
It needs to be the right size and you need to hold it at the base if you feel like it's starting to slide or get loose. After you cum you also need to hold it and pull out asap. Personally I always check and I hold it for the client if he isn't doing anything.. Guys need to be careful with condoms if they have ED or if they tend to get soft suddenly because that's when it can slide off. It's not that hard to inform yourself about how to use condoms.. Here's a simple guide
https://www.cdc.gov/condom-use/resources/external.html
Basically you have to be fully hard. I've seen some guys use lube under the condom and that can also make it slide off. Massage oil can also cause the condom to break.. Personally I don't trust condoms a new client is using. I've seen some clients carry condoms that were too big for them or that were sketchy and seemed old.. Ppl rarely check expiry date
If you put too much, that's true, but for uncut guys, a little bit of a lube in the condom is often the difference between a good time or not. If used sparingly, it won't make it slip off.
I've seen LOTS of SP putting lube on the dick before putting the condom on. Especially the younger..at this point im wondering if gen z SP's are watching bad tiktok sex ed videos.
Not everyone who joins this industry has perfect sex ed.. There were a lot of things I didn't know when I started, and I was over 25. People's employers don't necessarily teach them anything and it's not like you get training for this.. Thankfully we have some good clinics here and fantastic organizations and 811 for questions. A lot of girls join this industry when they are still a bit naive and idealistic about it, or because they are dealing with an emergency situation.
I think sometimes it's up to clients to make good decisions. I often read things like ''the girl didn't put a condom on or offered a pussy slide''.. ok then why didn't you stop her? lol same thing with little mistakes like this one, you can just wipe off the lube briefly and explain why later. Same thing with getting tested. Yes it's up to us to be informed and get tested on a regular basis, but clients also have to take this responsibility.
In my opinion in this industry safer sex and sexual health isn't just one person's problem, everyone involved has to make informed decisions and be careful. I've heard people tell me stuff like ''ew xyz has gonorrhea'' or I see clients talk about how a specific SP gave them a STI but in reality in order to avoid these situations completely things would have to change in a significant way.. that's why I'm saying, if you want to keep getting your bbbj and giving your daty, get tested. if people keep being careless maybe in the future more and more SP will refuse to provide these services..
Sure, but you're still increasing the risk a little bit, and I've seen some guys put large amounts of lube that I had to wipe off before putting the condom on, that's more what I'm referring to
Stupid question , but nobody is worried about diseases…. Excuse my ignorance but can’t you catch something?
It’s discussed at a bunch of other places in this forum. Yes there is a risk, like in everything else. I have stopped counting the number of encounters I’ve had since I started seeing girls but it is likely over 150 encounters (reputable indies and agencies). Always DATY action. Get tested couple of times a year. Always negative. Maybe I’m lucky but from what I can read here I’m not alone in this situation. Enjoy your DATY my friend.
There is a risk, lower of course than other sex activities but still... Personnaly as I am in relation, I yet always resist to do both but damn it would be much more fun mmm so tempting but you have to consider can transmit its and be tested if you do daty and bbbj.
