Is this a common way you guys find clients ?

[Toaster123]

I was eating alone in a restaurent in old montreal on a saturday (so yes i am not in a relationship). I was eating while looking at the street.

A girl passed and smiled at me. Around 2 minutes later she came back enter the restaurent and proceed to ask me my phone number. No disrepect or anything but by her look im 99% sure she was an escort, plus im not attractive.

I found this a little bit weird to say the least.

 

[LC18]

I was eating alone in a restaurent in old montreal on a saturday (so yes i am not in a relationship). I was eating while looking at the street.

A girl passed and smiled at me. Around 2 minutes later she came back enter the restaurent and proceed to ask me my phone number. No disrepect or anything but by her look im 99% sure she was an escort, plus im not attractive.

I found this a little bit weird to say the least.

Uh…that would be a first for me? Never heard of something like that. If her intentions were to turn you into a client then that’s solicitation.

Maybe you’re just her type. Who knows?

Did you get her phone number? If so did you Google it to see if it would match an ad?

 

[Obvio-0bvio]

Come now, my friend, I struggle to comprehend your hesitation. What could possibly be amiss with a lady finding you attractive? I must confess, it is a rare occurrence for a lady to take the initiative and ask for your phone number. Typically, it is the other way around. However, it is not an everyday sight to witness a lady approaching a gentleman to request his phone number. Even in the context of a service provider, such a scenario is considered unusual. Whether she is a service provider or a regular woman, such instances do happen, although I concur with those who find it uncommon.Allow me to firmly adhere to the belief that there is a suitable match for every lady, just as there is for every gentleman, irrespective of one's physical appearance. It is possible that you may not perceive yourself as attractive, but rest assured, there is always someone out there who will find you captivating and appealing. I implore you to cultivate greater confidence in yourself. Life is not always filled with idyllic moments, but there is always that one person who will appreciate you for who you are. Regarding the specific situation at hand, I highly doubt the lady in question is a service provider. It is not customary for someone in that role to go out of their way, make a sudden turn, and enter a restaurant just to ask for your number. My recommendation is to embrace the flow of events and see where it leads you. In my personal opinion, her proactive approach in asking for your number is a strong indication of interest. Best of luck, my friend.

 

[envelopes]

Maybe you're just a sexy thang

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

This is Montréal and girls tend to flirt as aggressively as guys, sometimes even more. I wouldn’t be surprised if she was not a SW at all. It was not so uncommon in my younger years, alas these days are behind for me now.

 

[IamNY]

You have to strike while the iron is hot and jump at the opportunity right then and there! It could have been your lucky day where everything was aligned perfectly. Now, it's just an after thought. I've had similiar things happen to me and the first time it happended I was like @Toaster123 . Blew an opportunity of a lifetime. After learning that lesson I've jumped all over opportunities right then and there that have come my way and it has always worked out. Should have taken the number, ordered her a drink and asked her to join you at your hotel room.

 

[gaby]

I was eating alone in a restaurent in old montreal on a saturday (so yes i am not in a relationship). I was eating while looking at the street.

A girl passed and smiled at me. Around 2 minutes later she came back enter the restaurent and proceed to ask me my phone number. No disrepect or anything but by her look im 99% sure she was an escort, plus im not attractive.

I found this a little bit weird to say the least.

,,and what happened then..it's the most important to know...lollllll

 

[gaby]

Am living in this area...not that lucky....the only ones who are interested in me sont des itinérantes looking for money too...lolllllll

 

[Sylar]

I highly doubt that this was a SP, and dont think that this approach would yield a lot of new customers.
Embrace the situation and go with the flow. Attractiveness lies in the eye of the beholder.

 

[Anong]

Around 2 minutes later she came back enter the restaurent and proceed to ask me my phone number

If she asked me, my smile will be up to my ears. even she was teasing me wants to make me fool. Escort or civilian, no problem.
What I would do in that situation, ask her to sit down, order her a drink and ask her what she likes to eat. Even she never contact me after, just have a fun to chat with her.

plus im not attractive

You never saw me then that how I look. Still when I pay to girls they tell me that I look like 25 years old and they compare me with Brad Pitt.
Every one is beautiful their own way. I do not know how you think that you are not attractive. The lady came 2nd time and you still consider yourself unattractive??
did you give her your number?

 

[Obvio-0bvio]

Should have taken the number, ordered her a drink and asked her to join you at your hotel room.

wouldn't it be just hilarious if your lack of respect resulted in a delightful slap across the face? What a comical consequence for your charming behavior!

 

[IamNY]

wouldn't it be just hilarious if your lack of respect resulted in a delightful slap across the face? What a comical consequence for your charming behavior!

Lack of respect? Girl walks up to me and asks for my number and it's disrespectful to buy her a drink and invite her back to my hotel room? It's called confidence and going for it. The alternative is being a pussy and complaining about how you blew an opportunity or worrying about getting slapped in the face.

 

[Obvio-0bvio]

Lack of respect? Girl walks up to me and asks for my number and it's disrespectful to buy her a drink and invite her back to my hotel room? It's called confidence and going for it. The alternative is being a pussy and complaining about how you blew an opportunity or worrying about getting slapped in the face.

how delightful it is that you're attempting to educate me on the marvelous world of opportunities. I can only imagine the depth of your expertise if you were in a nightclubs and Amsterdam's infamous red district. It must be truly thrilling to whisk a lady away to your chambers mere hours after laying eyes upon her. it's about time you ditched those X-rated scenarios and stepped out of your fantasy bubble. With all due respect buddy, bravo to your unparalleled knowledge and experience!

 

[Mandouke]

I was eating alone in a restaurent in old montreal on a saturday (so yes i am not in a relationship). I was eating while looking at the street.

A girl passed and smiled at me. Around 2 minutes later she came back enter the restaurent and proceed to ask me my phone number. No disrepect or anything but by her look im 99% sure she was an escort, plus im not attractive.

I found this a little bit weird to say the least.

Goodness gracious! The question that has not been asked yet is; Has she called you yet?

 

[IamNY]

how delightful it is that you're attempting to educate me

Not at all, your sheepish lack of respect comment wasn't necessary. Either you have balls or you don't. No shame in being a follower, I'm sure it will work out for you.

 

[IamNY]

Goodness gracious! The question that has not been asked yet is; Has she called you yet?

Totally agree, how does this story end?

 

[Don Julio]

how delightful it is that you're attempting to educate me on the marvelous world of opportunities.

Basically if a female is forward enough to ask for a ph # sex would be implied and why not get it out of the way. As the great one said, some have balls and some don't.

 

[What's My Name]

You have a problem, first stop watching porn because this what starts posts like this. Also stop thinking that every lady that approaches a man to talk or ask a number is an SP. She dug you and took a chance. Make her read this post and see if she still finds you attractive. wtf

 

[Toto beefcake]

You have a problem, first stop watching porn because this what starts posts like this. Also stop thinking that every lady that approaches a man to talk or ask a number is an SP. She dug you and took a chance. Make her read this post and see if she still finds you attractive. wtf

Aside from porn , maybe people have been indulging in sp activities for quite awhile and actually forgot what it is to actually pick up proceed, and see what happens. Never know in life, could even be a keeper

 

[Obvio-0bvio]

Basically if a female is forward enough to ask for a ph # sex would be implied and why not get it out of the way. As the great one said, some have balls and some don't.

Well, look at you, the imagination extraordinaire! Your brilliant idea of a man taking a lady to a room just because she asked for his numbe, like some sort of modern Cinderella story, is just too funny. I mean, who needs logic and rules when we can live in a world where chivalry is still a thing and pigs soar through the sky? Let's grab some popcorn, kick back, and watch a rom-com where women chase men like it's their full-time job. Your charmingly innocent view of romance reminds me of the fairy tales we used to believe in before reality rudely interrupted. Bravo, my friend, for your sarcastically amusing take on love and happily ever afters! Don Juan, you've truly earned your title. Keep those imaginative ideas coming.