Knowing your MERB handle and Reviews.

[johnybird]

Quick question.

If you know an SP knows your MERB handle or when you're going to post a review and it's going to be obvious to her who you are (If she's on MERB of course). Does it affect what you write in your review and does it also affect what you post about any other SP's or any other subject on MERB for that matter.

It personally doesn't bother me and doesn't affect what I post anywhere else. I am honest when I'm with them so I see it as another way they get to know me, good or bad. I also enjoy it when SP's comment on these forums it gets to show us a bit of their personalities.

 

[Special K]

Have you written a review yet? I can't seem to recall anything but I haven't taken the time to check your posts. Most seem to be asking questions etc.

 

[lougazebo]

In fact , I would really like if the girls are reading my reviews, so she can see what her customers think of her service and correct it, if there's anything to correct.
From what i can see most of them are not reading the reviews.
But i don't really like to comment on there physical apparence , because beauty is different for everyone.
But if she give me a very bad service, be sure i'm gonna talk about it.

 

[johnybird]

Have you written a review yet? I can't seem to recall anything but I haven't taken the time to check your posts. Most seem to be asking questions etc.

Yes of course I've written a few reviews Special K

 

[Merlot]

Gents,

I usually ask the lady if she would like a review. I also ask how discreet or indiscreet she would be comfortable with seeing the language or details about the encounter. Some don't want anything written. Some leave it up to me. Some say they want a review but won't read it. Some say you can do what you want and it's all fine with her. I always take that into consideration, but if there were some negatives about the encounter I never ask her advice about that. I try to either imply those negatives simply by omitting the usual compliments and superlatives, or I try to make a light almost vague reference to whatever may have not been up to par as one would reasonably expect. But one thing I never do is pump up a review in excess of what she may deserve. Oh sometimes I'm emotionally high about great experiences gushing about it, but if I don't feel it I leave it out.

However, most of the time they do not know my Merb handle, and I still consider the lady's feelings regardless of that anonymity.

Cheers,

Merlot

 

[Lily from Montreal]

My type of ''clientele'' rarely post review,I am fine with that as it kind of take away the feeling of shared privacy of our encounters...

That being said if I realize there is a review of course I read it and I do not need to know your handle to recognize who writes...
Although I always joke that I draw very well and count very bad I can still add 1 and 1 loll, a meeting and soon (lets say in the next month) a review? I will know the author...

 

[Doggyluver]

I never mention to an SP that I am a member of the board and would certainly never tell them that I am planning a review, positive or negative. I think for a review to be honest it must have a certain anonymity. I realize that other members have used this as a threat to have an SP "perform " above and beyond.......that should never be the case

 

[rumpleforeskiin]

Have you written a review yet? I can't seem to recall anything but I haven't taken the time to check your posts. Most seem to be asking questions etc.

I checked. The correct answer is "No."

Yes of course I've written a few reviews Special K

I understand that you're new here so you're probably not aware that your posting history is quite public. Would you like to change your answer?

 

[AmberRose]

The one about me got merged with another, which is why it doesn't show up;
http://merb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?121604-Amber-438-880-6559&highlight=6559

And like Tina said, he recently wrote on her as well.
He's new and curious, nothing wrong with asking lots of questions

As for this thread, most board members don't exactly mention their handle, and I don't ask. I always find seeing a review as a nice surprise, so I don't always want to know ahead of time.
It is also good for them to remain anonymous if they're writing something negative, as it may piss off the SP, but constructive criticism is always good to get too!

 

[johnybird]

Johnybird wrote 2 reviews, one about Amber (which I can't find for now) and one about me.

The one about me got merged with another, which is why it doesn't show up;
http://merb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?121604-Amber-438-880-6559&highlight=6559

Thank you Ladies, for defending my Honour. I send you soft kisses & bear hugs

I checked. The correct answer is "No."
I understand that you're new here so you're probably not aware that your posting history is quite public. Would you like to change your answer?

Why all the negativity and anger reumpleforeskin ? I've also written a few reviews on clubs as well. I am quite aware how forums work.
Just chill (do they still say chill these days)? and enjoy the forums. I do post a lot of questions, just having some fun...didn't know it would stir up such emotions.

Enjoy yourself, life is too short to be angry

 

[gologill]

Even if I know that the girl know my merb handle I don't care I wrote an honest review of my experience I doesn't change anything because I know she's gonna read it.

I happen only once that the girl ask me to make a review on merb and I did it but it was a very nice encounter. She wasn't really reviewed and she was quite new in Montréal and she wanted some help to get notice. But like I said I posted an honest review of her and she was great so it was easy to do.

My last encounter the girl told me she read the review and she was mad about a guy saying she should lose 5-10 pounds and I understand her cause she had a perfect body so it was real funny.

 

[jacep]

it doesnt bothr me if a lady knows my merb handel. some ladys that i repeet with from agencys know my handel and ask me about my revu. some bookers also know my handel.

them knowing doesnt affect wether i write a revu or not. in terms of what i write, i allways belief in how to write facts without negative insulting descripsions. good experiance or bad experiance, insults dont have a place in revus. ladys or bookers knowing my handel doesnt change that for me.

 

[panthere]

First off...i have to say it never botters me if the lady know who i am...except i always try to not say my name in case the lady do a little bite of work and find my thread or my post of my encounter...But in all situation i give my honest opinion ..ALWAYS ..it is a MUST FOR ME!Ok i could be enthousiams on some encounter ...but if you go read my many encounters you will see that for some i am reallly less enthousiams...so sometimes you do have to read between the lines..but you would know and feel my vibe in my post...cause no matter what i am still diplomatic about it..

Yes of course I've written a few reviews Special K

I understand that you're new here so you're probably not aware that your posting history is quite public. Would you like to change your answer?

Even iffffffffffffff he is new here...Do you think SERIOUSLY that ALL MERBS MEMBERS HERE INCLUDING MYSELF ..Post allllllllll of the lady that with see...damn... you should think again since 2007 YOU are here...You should have know by NOW

 

[rumpleforeskiin]

Johnybird wrote 2 reviews, one about Amber (which I can't find for now) and one about me.

http://merb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?114234-Tina-MTL-independant&p=826695&viewfull=1#post826695

Here's the review of Tina, quite nicely written and suitably discreet. Please accept my apology, Johny...and keep on writing.

 

[johnybird]

http://merb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?114234-Tina-MTL-independant&p=826695&viewfull=1#post826695

Here's the review of Tina, quite nicely written and suitably discreet. Please accept my apology, Johny...and keep on writing.

Thanks Rumpleforeskin (love the handke btw), no apologies necessary although appreciated.

 

[Halloween Mike]

I don't mind them knowing my name or anything, i try to always remain classy, polite, and put the positive before the negative. If an encounter turn to "ape shit" i will mention it, as it mean anyway i will never see this person again. BUT i will make sure first there was not something that made it happen from the outside, or in other word give the SP all the chances possible.