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jalimon

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AlexB I am no psy. My only advice would be to just make sure you let know the booker and/or directly the SP a bit about you and what you are looking for.

Seriously I would say 95% of the agency or advertised indy here would never care to see a guy who suffers from anxiety and who is not social. Judging you?
Believe me they probably judge more the wanna be porn star who miserably fails haha

Just make sure to:

1. tell them you are not weird and creepy!
2. smile

Your shyness, judgement, lack of sexual experience... They dont care. Why would they? You pay them, have good hygiene and you are sweet and nice right?

Just make sure of one thing. If it goes well. Remember that this is not real life. This is a fantasy that can help you build up your confidence to see and aboard real girl. Do not fall for them as then you will become weird and creepy and they will be scared ;)

Just have fun!!

Cheers,
 

AlexB.

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AlexB I am no psy. My only advice would be to just make sure you let know the booker and/or directly the SP a bit about you and what you are looking for.

Seriously I would say 95% of the agency or advertised indy here would never care to see a guy who suffers from anxiety and who is not social. Judging you?
Believe me they probably judge more the wanna be porn star who miserably fails haha

Just make sure to:

1. tell them you are not weird and creepy!
2. smile

Your shyness, judgement, lack of sexual experience... They dont care. Why would they? You pay them, have good hygiene and you are sweet and nice right?

Just make sure of one thing. If it goes well. Remember that this is not real life. This is a fantasy that can help you build up your confidence to see and aboard real girl. Do not fall for them as then you will become weird and creepy and they will be scared ;)

Just have fun!!

Cheers,
Damn man that cuts deep into my feels, I appreciate your advices and honesty. You rock:rockon: and yeah, I wouldn't go so far as to say I'm weird or creepy in any case, I'm not so far gone haha!

Would you advise in longer sessions or a short one? I was thinking I'd start with opening a bottle of white with a bite to eat while appreciating the company just to relax the mood and my nerves lol. I obviously know better than to think I would be adequate in bed, so what I'm wondering most of all is what I should expect when it comes to the deed really. But I guess that's a entire different matter that wouldn't be resolved by asking you guys, but the provider of companionship herself. Ah well, I guess just talking about it already lifted a bit of weight over my shoulders.

Thanks again!
 

Hercule Poirot

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SPs have told me that guys have went to see them to lose their virginity as well as a friend/brother/father/uncle bringing in a guy to lose their virginity.
 

AlexB.

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SPs have told me that guys have went to see them to lose their virginity as well as a friend/brother/father/uncle bringing in a guy to lose their virginity.

What was their opinion on the matter? I'd be interested to know and actually would love if any SP on the website would weight in on the subject too.
 

jalimon

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Would you advise in longer sessions or a short one? I was thinking I'd start with opening a bottle of white with a bite to eat while appreciating the company just to relax the mood and my nerves lol.

Entirely up to you. Really.

When I began this I had a complete 4 year span without sex following my separation. I found a girl on the north shore she was so bad. But she was the cutest and absolute best body I had ever been my whole life. First time I met her for a 30 minute session I was done under 10 minute. Second time I took an hour and told to keep her clothes. I would remove them myself as I wanted. I would massage her and use her perfect body as I wanted. I told her to just lay and let me have my fun. She did :) I discovered all of her body including a long time studying her pussy. Only fuck her in the last 5 minute and came in 2 haha My point is if you are relax and cool they will let use them to learn. And that is cool.

Cheers,
 

Mistral

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BTW if you're contemplating P4P, you don't have to start with escorts. You could explore the massage scene first, with a massage parlor or indie. Not as high mileage but can still be highly enjoyable. Many options to choose from. Mascarade could be a good choice, nice ladies and laid back ambiance.
 

AlexB.

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Hey Mistral, thanks for taking the time to post, and also to all others who did before.

Honestly, coming from a boxing background in my younger days, seeing P4P I just think Poud-for-Pound, and think Mayweather Jr., GGG, Lomachenko and what not. Then you mix in Massage parlor in your post and I'm all kinds of fucked up for the day and just intend to drop in a fetus position in a corner somewhere never to open my mind or eyes again. :pound:

To be perfectly honest, I've received absolutely great information in my private mail since then. As some might have noticed in my first post in the thread, I have had a case of agorophobia for a while now with which comes severe anxiety that I take medication for. I've been made aware that outcalls to residence is mostly a no go and yeah, when I think for a second there I can definitely understand why and see the point of view of the courtesans in not accepting. Still feels like: :rain:though lol. There's also the other side where giving your address to a agency is a bit much.

The experience is definitely still tempting and wanting, but further improving myself will most likely need to come first if I inted to go forth with it.

On another note, I've also had interesting private messages that seemed a bit too sketchy coming from someone who once had multiple handles on the website. Please take notice people, my lack of sexual experience nor my current situation don't make me incapable of thought process. I would appreciate refraining yourself at trying to take advantage of a new soul coming in here. :hippie:

For all those that sincerely tried to help, you know who you are and I appreciate. Thanks again.
 

Halloween Mike

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Hey buddy, whats up. Im Mike, but obviously its not my real name, you probably figure.

I am one who lost his virginity with a sex worker and honestly, im happy how it go despite being "on the pouce". Im also french, so should i switch to french ... Hey pourquoi pas...

Bon voila. Moi je dois avouer je n'ai aucune phobie ou peur de quelque sorte comme tu mentionne. Oui j'ai toujours été du genre a pas aimer me faire dire non mais sa compte tu? Je sais pas lol. J'ai toujours ou presque été assez chubby et les bref periode ou j etait plus en shape on dirais je me voyais encore comme un fat dude donc je cruisais pas, je me sentais pas comme qqu de confident. J'ai aucun probleme a sortir ou whatever pour du fun mais avec lles filles j ai pas de confidence fuck all.

Donc bref j ai commencer par , a 21 ans or so, a allez au danseuses. La premiere fois pour ma fete avec mon cousin et au final jsuis devenue accro. Ajd je trouve sa "drole" a quel point j ai perdu du cash pour juste "pogner des totons" comme on dit mais a cet epoque s etait the best thing ever. Aussito j avais du lousse j y allais et je voyais ma preferer. Je callais avant d y aller voir si elle etait la la majorité du temps et le peu de fois j y allais avec des chums sans caller et qu elle etait pas la j etait decu lol. Enfin bref.

En 2009 je decouvre merb et j ai eu la chance qu une indy de haute reputation du board workant pour Devilish a l epoque vienne dans ma ville (sherbrooke) alors j ai pris le risque. J avais deja essayer des escorte local mais le resultat fut desastreux au point que j essaye d oublier sa et que je les compte meme pas a ma feuille de route lol. Bref mon meeting avec la fille de Montreal fut super et sa ma donner la piqure. J ai meme pas baiser... lol, juste un blowjob mais j ai pus faire un COF qui etait ma fantasy personel que je voulais faire depuis que je watchais du porn haha. Un mois apres je viens a montreal pour ma fete, je fait le party avec des potes et dans la foulé je vois une escorte. Une fille de Satin Dreamz qui existe plus mais bref j en ai tellement pour mon argent. 2 sog dans l heure, 2 cimsw, je la baise et en plus criss qu elle etait belle. Lister a 18 ans en plus (jen avais 24 le jour meme) , une belle femme avec des cheveux auburn ondulé , un visage rapellant Avril Lavigne, des seins de taille C genereux tellement beau. Bref a se jour still un de mes best meeting ever.. et ces 2009 lol.

Bien sur etre a refair je bookerais un 2h au moin, acheterais de l alcool, prendrais le greek extra (pourquoi pas haha) qu 'elle offrais, mais serieux en prenant en compte que s etait mon premier meeting a montreal et mon second "vrai meeting" je peux pas vraiment demander mieux. La fille fut super, mon party de fete apres genial, bref one of the best time of my life. Je me rapelle encore que s etait l econolode sur saint-andré mais je sais plus quel chambre... dommage car j aurais aimer y retourner pour le principe. Au moin jpeux retourner a l hotel... fun story sa jamais arriver.. l hotel a jamais eu de grande review et j ai toujours pensé que j avais ete luckeu que la fille accepte de me voir la haha. Vu que j ai eu des refu d hotel (pas de moi, bref la fille m avais pas vu encore) a cause d hotel moin aprecier sur saint-hubert en 2009.

Toute cette histoire pour te dire, oui ces sur j aurais aimer que ma premiere fois sois avec une fille que j aime, qui me voulais pour qui j etait, je le cacherai pas, mais criss a 33 ans je serais encore vierge si j avais pas eu les escortes, alors dans la mesure du possible je me considere chanceux que ma premiere vrai baise sois une fille super belle, open mind, qui ma donner ce que je voulais. J ai eu du fun noir cette journée la et si la fille avais pas "early retired" 3 semaine apres que je l ai vu, surement je l aurais vu encor et encore...sans en voir d autre tellement elle etait genial. Serieux apres elle j ai vu des fille cool mais jamais a sa hauteur, sa pris pas mal de fille differente avant que je repeat lol. Jcrois mon premier repeat fut.... Kate Goodgirls/Mtl GFE haha. Que j ai vu 10 fois au final. Funny enough je regardais mes notes et je l ai vu genre 4 fois en l espace de 5 meeting.. genre 2 meetings, 1 autre escorte, puis 2 fois a nouveau... j etait vraiment accro lol.

Enfin bref je veux pas tourner sa comme mon thread mais je voulais que tu vois que je suis genuine, je te dirais que ces ok de perdre sa virginité avec une escorte mais prend la bonne mec. Genre fait tes recherche. Sa peux etre une fille d agence no probleme, certaine sont aussi hot que les indies. Mais si pour whatever reason ces canceller, accepte pas un replacement, meme si elle a l air belle, genre stick a la fille que tu choisie en premier pour avoir le depucelage de ta vie.

Prend une fille bien reviewer, que les photos te font saliver, qui est reputer pour un service superbe. Plan sa comme y faut et t aura du fun mon gars ;)
 

AlexB.

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Hey Mike, ouais c'est sûr que je choisirais evidemment la plus belle a mes yeux, mais cest pas necessairement ma priorité #1. Jai besoin de quelqu'un d'à l'aise avec ma situation, et jvoudrais certe pas juste un quick bang et aurevoir. I dont necessarily want it to be the same as what a actual first time would be. Hell si j'pouvais avoir le role play similair d'une enseignante avec son étudiant ça serait the ultimate fantasy to be frank with you :lol::lol:. I need a boost of confidence obviously but so much more than that, I want to learn how to pleasure a woman.

Anyways, thanks d'avoir pris le temps de poster et d'avoir été authentique à ta personne, c'est apprécié mon gars.
 

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Hilarious video, thank you STN. The voluntary return of the payment at the end was nearly as implausible as the compliments.
 

Kermit the Frog

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The first experience civilian or not is not usually the best experience. It is a start, especially if someone is late in the race.
 

Rosie Sparkles

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Every girl I know would love to have a virgin. It's really special to share this moment with someone. Don't be discourage by people making jokes at you, it's absolutely ok to want to loose your virginity and if you don't want drama/don't have a girlfriend why not turn to a professionnal? Cum in peace, dude!
 

jalimon

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The first experience civilian or not is not usually the best experience. It is a start, especially if someone is late in the race.

Exactly. AlexB should note that as what matters when you start is quantity.

I can vividly remember my first time loosing my virginity. Yup I remember the whole minute and 12 seconds it took. And I will remember the girls remark for the rest of my life as she wonderfully said: "That's it?"

Cheers,
 

AlexB.

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The first experience civilian or not is not usually the best experience. It is a start, especially if someone is late in the race.

Yeah I'm aware I wouldn't last long, even moreso considering the fine ladies on merb.cc. But as I've said, learining to pleasure a woman would be my first priority, and not simply nutting and being done with it, I'd obivously also want to enjoy a longer session 3 or so hours so that we could it a more than once or twice too. I can see a lot of girls being turned off by this or not being comfortable with it.
 

DisguisedToast

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This is my first post so Im losing my Merb virginity.

Just wanted to give some perspective as I was in the same boat when I was younger and did do what you mentioned. I was a student at the time. It was the best thing I have ever done for myself. Once I lost my v card, sex wasn't a big deal anymore and I started being able to get women on my own. The first time I was so nervous I couldn't even finish so don't worry if that happens. I don't agree that the SP will ruin other girls for you. Going to a good restaurant won't ruin Mac and cheese for you either. Besides, I've slept with women who are better than any SP I ever saw. I recommend you see several 3-4 SPs over a period of a few days and do the same the following week. And maybe a few a couple months after. (thats what I did) It is expensive but as someone who has gone through what you are going through, I can tell you it is worth it. Going to a shrink might be more expensive and may not work so it is worth every cent depending on how you value your happiness. I do not rely on SPs now and am more confident, higher self-esteem and have no trouble with women since. Good luck.

Lose your virginity asap. It's not a big deal. Also, go to the gym and quit your drugs. If I was a woman and read your self pitying post I wouldn't want to sleep with you either. So yet a grip. Stop making a big deal about it. Lose your v card and man up and do something productive.
 

DisguisedToast

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Another thing. A temporary prescription of Cialis 10mg fixed my performance anxiety. Some who lose their v card late have that. I still use it actually on first dates because I sometimes get performance anxiety. Best of luck. I can't recommend a good Sp unfortunately because it was long ago, but maybe members on this forum can recommend one. I would say go for an experienced and patient one. Not a débutante. Mine was a débutante and was visibly turned off when I told her I was a virgin lol. I don't think you need to take her out for dinner or dinner what not. Just order an outcall to your place and get it over with. It's not a big deal and you won't feel any different after. You will just realize how stupid you are for making a big deal about it till you were 28. That was my feeling afterwards. Personally. Good luck.

And another thing. Don't stress about pleasing her. Just please yourself. Make her do what you want. After your first few times you can worry about that. The first step is to simply get over your hang up.

Sorry for typos I'm on my phone
 

Halloween Mike

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I can vividly remember my first time loosing my virginity. Yup I remember the whole minute and 12 seconds it took. And I will remember the girls remark for the rest of my life as she wonderfully said: "That's it?"

Cheers,

Damn lol

For me it was longer. I had years of "simulator practice" tought :p The first meeting i had was just a BJ , i wasted so many times with chit chat and other stuff... even the SP had to remind me why i was there. lol. Second time (with full service) i didn't made the same mistake. Didn't took me long to unzip my pants. Got a BBBJCIMSW first round, recharged super quick and then another BBBJ/FS and another CIMSW afterward. Oh good times :p
 
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