Married guys - what excuse do you use for leaving the house

[Uandi]

You mean leave cloths outside the building. I did once for the same reason and the result was not pretty. and had to run fast covering my front and back with hands.

Ha ha ha!! No... man that must've been a sight to see!!!!

I meant that I leave my clothes in the bathroom where she's not.. the smell on her isn't going to transfer as much then. The very few times this happened, she had so much perfume on her I didn't even kiss her leaving... told her the poème would stick on me going back home... and winked... she understood...

 

[transatlantic]

This topic has already been covered in 2020.

https://merb.cc/xenforo/threads/married-and-working-from-home.196211/post-1299262

 

[Shantie_mtl]

How many of you are honest.

Today was really impress by the customer ...

Few years togheter... and her wife let her go to make a treesome fantasy so he come to see us ♡ it's not easy but with a good trust and communication never impossible

 

[Uandi]

How many of you are honest.

Today was really impress by the customer ...

Few years togheter... and her wife let her go to make a treesome fantasy so he come to see us ♡ it's not easy but with a good trust and communication never impossible

Wow... j'avoue... ça prends une relation basée sur l'ouverture, ce n'est pas toujours le cas... c'est la grande majorité des fois une relation basée sur l'unicité... ça donne pas grand place à l'aventure.

Il doit être réaliste et savoir qu'il a une relation ouverte et qu'elle sera tentée elle aussi de visiter...

 

[Julia Sky]

How many of you are honest.

Today was really impress by the customer ...

Few years togheter... and her wife let her go to make a treesome fantasy so he come to see us ♡ it's not easy but with a good trust and communication never impossible

I love this! I had a wife book me for her husband because she wanted him to facefuck her and he was afraid of hurting her so she told him to go see the best in the city to try it first.

Another time a client was texting his wife while I was sucking his dick and she was saying hello, asking if I'm pretty and telling us to have fun hahah

 

[GreyPilgrim]

Il doit être réaliste et savoir qu'il a une relation ouverte et qu'elle sera tentée elle aussi de visiter...

You know what? If I knew for a fact my partner would always return afterwards, I honestly would not even mind!

I mean, isn’t that basically what I (and most of you!) are doing: enjoying great sex elsewhere and returning to the one you really love after? And I truly 100% believe that is a healthy and wholesome thing to do.

My only issue is: I’d be worried she‘d see a regular dude instead of a SP and somehow, somewhere down the line, feelings would get involved. That is the main reason I see SPs instead of going for an affair: no feelings.

Also, I know for a fact she would never, ever, under no circumstances, consider an open relationship.

So, yeah… mark me down as « proudly dishonest »!

 

[Skym]

-Going to the gym
-Going for errands (making sure I get back with some stuff)
- rarely, but I used a few times , guys'night out

I'm not married. So I don't need to use any excuses to see any SPs.

 

[Numerati]

If I want to I wouldn’t have an issue as my wife travels much at times as she runs yoga retreats to far away as in Europe and to even Africa once. Only issue is I have to find a babysitter lol.

 

[LC18]

One of my clients told his wife he was playing [insert sport]. He always comes with a gym bag and he bought stuff so that she wouldn’t question it. It also explains why he’s exhausted and freshly showered when he goes back home.

It makes it so that we have a weekly date to not raise suspicions

 

[bodick7]

One of my clients told his wife he was playing [insert sport]. He always comes with a gym bag and he bought stuff so that she wouldn’t question it. It also explains why he’s exhausted and freshly showered when he goes back home.

It makes it so that we have a weekly date to not raise suspicions

I never shower at gym so I only clean my dick before coming back.

 

[T'storm]

I'm thinking of making out a friend like "Ricky Staniky"(the movie) if you have seen it good for you and now you know my plan. I went to college many years ago and had a lot of friends there so it would be possible to make it up. Even just find a guy that would send you texts to confirm the sad event of being in a hospital etc...

 

[LC18]

I'm thinking of making out a friend like "Ricky Staniky"(the movie) if you have seen it good for you and now you know my plan. I went to college many years ago and had a lot of friends there so it would be possible to make it up. Even just find a guy that would send you texts to confirm the sad event of being in a hospital etc...

That movie was surprisingly good. I loved it but yes if you want to create an alibi for your sexcapades try to find a name that’s not as ridiculous

 

[cru_33]

I'm in an open relationship, so when I go see providers, I tell the wife "I'm going to see cuz, be back later!"

I go in and out of the hobby world, because sometimes I have available partners, but sometimes I just like simple, easy, and to be with a lady that is probably out of my league otherwise...


Only rule is I can't spend our joint account money unless she's with me lol. Otherwise there's no issue (I went through a phase where I was hobbying weekly, and at +/- 250$, that's 1000$ a month that could easily have gone elsewhere...)

When we were not in an open relationship, I would just tell her "I am going to get a massage"... Just didn't specify any more lol

 

[redfried]

One of my clients told his wife he was playing [insert sport]. He always comes with a gym bag and he bought stuff so that she wouldn’t question it. It also explains why he’s exhausted and freshly showered when he goes back home.

It makes it so that we have a weekly date to not raise suspicions

This is exactly what i do. And i'm back at the office 5 days a week. Easier for daytime appointements.

 

[curly]

One of my clients told his wife he was playing [insert sport]. He always comes with a gym bag and he bought stuff so that she wouldn’t question it. It also explains why he’s exhausted and freshly showered when he goes back home.

It makes it so that we have a weekly date to not raise suspicions

Will you ever be able to trust any man in your life after hearing all these excuses?

 

[LC18]

Will you ever be able to trust any man in your life after hearing all these excuses?

No but as long as he uses condoms and has money I don’t think I would be that sad.

 

[Mandouke]

If I were married I would not be engaged in this hobby, that is definite.

 

[Dasiana]

If I were married I would not be engaged in this hobby, that is definite.

I believe a good 50% of SP’s clients are married men. They even hide it to SPs because they could feel ashamed or because they try to have an angle with her

This is what I know after having talked with many of SPs.

And the reason is you get bored to be with the same person after so many years. You fight more often, and if you have a kid, it’s hard to have fun like before…

So having a sexy / horny girl friend without a baby yes you might not need an SP to satisfy your sexual desire, but married I don’t know about that lol

 

[Dasiana]

I am sure the wifes will like this thread and learn about the strategies lol

It’s actually the wifes who discover the infidelity that got mad so bad to escort agencies, texting bookers, checking with condo’s management. It’s intense

 

[Mandouke]

I believe a good 50% of SP’s clients are married men. They even hide it to SPs because they could feel ashamed or because they try to have an angle with her

This is what I know after having talked with many of SPs.

And the reason is you get bored to be with the same person after so many years. You fight more often, and if you have a kid, it’s hard to have fun like before…

So having a sexy / horny girl friend without a baby yes you might not need an SP to satisfy your sexual desire, but married I don’t know about that lol

Yes. I agree with you, this is precisely why I never married. I find many things off-putting about marriage in a modern setting. I view it as an institution that no longer would benefit me in any way possible, financial or otherwise.