Meeting an MP outside of salon

[energystar15]

Hey everyone!

Just curious for thoughts and also looking to calm my inexperienced jitters in the upcoming matter:

Long story short, I've seen an MP 2-3 times and have had great sessions. I, off the cuff, asked if I could see her more privately. She doesn't work often... To which she said "ya for sure". She seemed very easy going and nonchalant about it. Confirmed what the price would be, which she again seemed very easy going about (same price as mp visit)

I tried reaching out to her twice to schedule something after and never got response. However, tonight she replied and said she was free to meet tomorrow at a hotel of my choosing.

I guess I'm a bit nervous cause I haven't done an outcall in more than a decade, and she's not affiliated with an agency or advertising as an Indy - so obviously my brain jumps to the "I hope I don't get scammed" or anything. Since I'm married, ect

I can't say that she's behaved in any way that should lead me to believe that it won't be anything but great. Very chill, classy lady

But again, my lack in experience gives me the little tick in my brain.

Anyways , thoughts? Any tips on what to look out for or am I being ridiculous?

I'm planning on booking a 4-hour type hotel, which she was cool with

Thanks in advance!

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

It has been over a year i haven't seen her though, i am sure if i suggested to her, she might be openned to it.

If its who I think, she definately will agree to arrange something

 

[Ogre Tones]

I am still meeting an MP outside of salon. It has been for many years. I meet her at her appartment and it is great. Recently, she quit all salon work and as far as I know is of the radar.

I am not sure I would do hotels.

OT

 

[energystar15]

I am still meeting an MP outside of salon. It has been for many years. I meet her at her appartment and it is great. Recently, she quit all salon work and as far as I know is of the radar.

I am not sure I would do hotels.

OT

Thanks everyone!

Any specific reason why no hotels?

So I guess general consensus is that I shouldn't worry and that it's common to meet mp outside of salon

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

So I guess general consensus is that I shouldn't worry and that it's common to meet mp outside of salon

I wouldnt put it that way. No its not common but when it happens, you should give it a try if you like the girl. Its something that, most of the time, benefits both parties.

Just dont fool yourself thinking there is something more to it(emotionaly speaking), it only shows she trust you and she will make more $$ that way.

 

[energystar15]

I wouldnt put it that way. No its not common but when it happens, you should give it a try if you like the girl. Its something that, most of the time, benefits both parties.

Just dont fool yourself thinking there is something more to it(emotionaly speaking), it only shows she trust you and she will make more $$ that way.

Oh ya for sure! I am not expecting or thinking this is anything but a more convenient way for us to meet. She also won't have to give cut to salon, pay room, ect

I was just on the fence due to not wanting to be scammed/screwed over (due to being married, ect) as I am more comfortable meeting in an established place

 

[STAEDTLER]

If one can visit a current or former mp at her place..., then IMO it's all about trust, mutual comfort and personal situation.
I've only met two ladies at their home while they were still active: one mp and one sp.
Every time was quite enjoyable, making the experience more personal.

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

She also won't have to give cut to salon, pay room, ect

This is how I see and do things:
if I give her 180 at the mp, in private I will give her the same + the room fee I would normally pay at the salon.

 

[energystar15]

If one can visit a current or former mp at her place..., then IMO it's all about trust, mutual comfort and personal situation.
I've only met two ladies at their home while they were still active: one mp and one sp.
Every time was quite enjoyable, making the experience more personal.

If all goes well, this is more than ideal for me. I live really far from the salon, and we both live within 15-20 of eachother.

The cost is a bit more overall, hotel room+her, but worth it to save 2 hours each way

 

[energystar15]

This is how I see and do things:
if I give her 180 at the mp, in private I will give her the same + the room fee I would normally pay at the salon.

Not a bad plan

 

[User_9]

It's not that rare of a thing, and it saves money for both parties since the house fees are avoided. I've made these arrangements myself a few times. Being a regular first would help of course, but some salon girls are working alone or other places using different names already.

 

[energystar15]

Met up with her and it went great! Much more convenient, that's for sure.

Thanks for all the help!

 

[envelopes]

Just curious, how often do you guys see an SP outside but they don't ask for $?

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

Just curious, how often do you guys see an SP outside but they don't ask for $?

Never! It always costs something. My only luck was with strippers when I was much younger.

 

[gaby]

Same here...never...i always paid for having SEX ....c'était toujours une entente avec les girls.....

 

[energystar15]

Just curious, how often do you guys see an SP outside but they don't ask for $?

I've had that once in my life, about 10 yrs ago. Met her at a massage parlor. Exchanged numbers (where I thought it was to pay for an outcall), but we just chilled the first night. Then flirted back and forth by text. Met up two times for some fun. Never any money exchanged. I even asked to clarify if it was expected

Also saw her on tinder during that time and she told me she was looking for something serious. I wasn't looking for a relationship, coming off a long term breakup.

Fun & chill woman and we went our seperate ways. And eventually had a good laugh when she walked in for a presentation at another spa few years later lol

 

[energystar15]

But this was in my youth, being single and not stressing about being exposed or scammed (age really jades a guy lol)

 

[AirBo]

Just curious, how often do you guys see an SP outside but they don't ask for $?

Happened 6 times but I'll tell you what... I got the highest of highs and the lowest of lows out of those "relationships". The passion phase is really something to go through though...