Meeting Stripper Lover: The Wise Realist vs. the Naive Idealist

[General Gonad]

The fact is...

While SL kept hammering his point that we are all equal 'Johns" to an SP, I find it hard to believe that SPs do not enjoy some encounters more than others. That it's all just business. Look at all of us reviewing them on these boards - why do our reviews differ so much on some of the ladies?

Maybe one day an SP will write an exposee and reveal the "Truth". Sorry SL, I want to hear it from the horse's mouth!

GG

 

[The Wizard of Oz]

Hey!

GG!

That's not nice ... but completely hilarious!

 

[The Wizard of Oz]

What about ...

Oliver,

Each time you write something I have to read it a couple of times ...
It always look like something is said or not.
The thread so far reminds me of that movie ... Clue!
You think it's over then realize there is a second conclusion to the mystery murders ... and again and again till you got the real story! Hum ...

 

[godddess_harmonia]

Clearing up some assumptions

Goddess is new to the board and there was a shill on her. The thread was deleted by MODS.

Before posting any comments, you should at least read the thread and understand where we are coming from. We are not disparaging SP`s here.

That`s a bad way to start your introductory welcome to us.

First of all, I suggest you read the post I wrote in Fetish and Fantasy, which should clear up what I think about the so-called "shill". Also, it wasn`t removed by a mod. It was removed by my client willingly for personal reasons.

***More information Here***M5

Second of all, it`s very mature to assume that I didn`t read the thread. I did read what was posted, and I just wanted to point out that I didn`t take your manipulation and exploitation statement too well. If you don`t mean what you say and say what you mean, and if I understood it incorrectly, then I apologise.

Third of all, just because I don`t post much on the board doesn`t mean that I am not known. I, personally, choose not to advertise directly, but I do spend time in chat getting to know people. So this is not really an introductory welcome to anyone.

Let me end this post on that note because I can go on, but choose not to at this point...

 

[General Gonad]

Trust...

i trust no one
i listen
but i believe 1/2 of what i hear at most

Olie,

You cannot go through life not trusting anyone. Even SL told me he demands loyalty from those he considers to be his friends. When I trust an SP to keep personal information to herself, it is like a vocational iron clad rule. The foundations of this industry are built on trust, not money. Think about it - would anyone partake in hobbying if there were no discretion?

I think some of you are more cynical than others because of your life experiences. You shared some on this board. SL told me he was always a cynic as far back as he can remember but he also admitted that he was burned by more than a few ladies in his youth.

Our life experience shapes our views. That goes for SPs as well. We can deny it all we want but nobody is born a cynic. You might become cynical over the years but to say you were always cynical is utter bullshit.

GG

 

[CryWolf]

First of all, I suggest you read the post I wrote in Fetish and Fantasy, which should clear up what I think about the so-called "shill". Also, it wasn't removed by a mod. It was removed by my client willingly for personal reasons.

Second of all, it's very mature to assume that I didn't read the thread. I did read what was posted, and I just wanted to point out that I didn't take your manipulation and exploitation statement too well. If you don't mean what you say and say what you mean, and if I understood it incorrectly, then I apologise.

Third of all, just because I don't post much on the board doesn't mean that I am not known. I, personally, choose not to advertise directly, but I do spend time in chat getting to know people. So this is not really an introductory welcome to anyone.

Let me end this post on that note because I can go on, but choose not to at this point...

Let me continue your post, if you read the thread well (as you implied), you should have known I wasn't the one that was talking about "manipulation and exploitation", I was quoting it from somebody else's in my reply.

Apologies accepted and please do bark at the wrong tree .

 

[godddess_harmonia]

Let me continue your post, if you read the thread well (as you implied), you should have known I wasn't the one that was talking about "manipulation and exploitation", I was quoting it from somebody else's in my reply.

Apologies accepted and please do bark at the wrong tree .

I was actually talking about your ROE, which makes you invincible to the manipulation and exploitation of some SPs, and which enables "the reverse to be true in their regards"...

What kind of tree are you talking about anyway?

 

[General Gonad]

simple --this applies to anyone and everyone
dont tell me anything you dont want repeated then you cant blame me for anyhing after

So I should stick to shrinks? But they don't give me woodies.

the boards are full of shit
i have a good memory--
i see situations where people are critized for stupid stuff and made fun of then low and behold the critizers go and do the same thing and this is ok
no its not
you can be sure when stuff gets writen i will give my hones opinion like it or not
oliver

The boards are full of shit. Most of the time egos take over and like men full of rage and testosterone, we have to prove whose is bigger.

One thing I am realizing is that nobody has the monopoly of wisdom. Not me, not you, not EB, not SL, not Regnad, not SK, and it goes on and on. We are typical males that think we know it all and the females just smile and have a hoot watching us make asses of ourselves.

GG

 

[godddess_harmonia]

the tree the dog pissed and shit all over
oliver

Oliver... genuinely amusing

 

[General Gonad]

hey i know im not the sharpest tack in the box
but im not the dumbest either
i know many people who have a lot of accomplisments
but for every one they have
there is 10 things they would like for people to forget
oliver

You're sharp enough but a little rough around the edges. Nobody wants to admit their failures in life but the irony is that it's your failures that make you in life, not your successes. It does take courage to fail but we all try and forget them because of our fragile egos.

take care,

GG

 

[CryWolf]

I was actually talking about your ROE, which makes you invincible to the manipulation and exploitation of some SPs, and which enables "the reverse to be true in their regards"...

What kind of tree are you talking about anyway?

One of my ROE is not to get involved emotionally (in this case, the bad ones). So I guess business is slow in the fetish world these days, huh? That explains your need of exposure here.

Good luck.

 

[godddess_harmonia]

And I quote:

"Third of all, just because I don't post much on the board doesn't mean that I am not known. I, personally, choose not to advertise directly, but I do spend time in chat getting to know people. So this is not really an introductory welcome to anyone."


I'm not posting on here for the exposure... And business is going well, thank you!

 

[CryWolf]

And I quote:

"Third of all, just because I don't post much on the board doesn't mean that I am not known. I, personally, choose not to advertise directly, but I do spend time in chat getting to know people. So this is not really an introductory welcome to anyone."


I'm not posting on here for the exposure... And business is going well, thank you!

Business must be really booming, right now only 4 people are viewing "Fetish & Fantasy".

Have a nice life, your "15 minutes of fame" end right now!!!.

CW out.

 

[Gee]

*ding ding ding*

-And thats the end of round one ladies and gents and my oh my are we seeing a breathtaking match between crywolf and harmonia today.

-Yes Bob, both contestants seem to have trained hard for this fight and the asinine comments are really flying low, although we haven't seen any hits below the belt yet.

-Your absolutely right Roger, why I haven't seen that much hairpulling and scratching since that 50% off everything sale at macy's a few years back, Are you as excited as I am Roger?

-Oh yes Bob, I can hardly contain my woodie.



*ahem* moving right along


Between Realist and Idealist, I preffer to stay closer to the middle, It's nice to think your special once in a while without letting it become unhealthy, It helps boost self confidence in some cases.

It can be unhealthy on the other side as well, one of Oli's comments is a prime example of this, "If you paid for an expensive dinner you still inadvertently paid for it". At this point it's as if you don't believe women are human.

I'm not so sure about SL's 1% remark, it could be less or it could be more, We're still dealing with two human beings interacting here and what happens is unpredictable at best.

But I think every single one of us should learn how to read people at least a little so that we don't fall into the traps of those who really are being manipulative and exploitative and that applies for normal relationship as well.

 

[General Gonad]

Stripper Lover, where are you?

This thread has certainly taken on and evolved into different machinations of thought within a 12 hour period.

Yes, everybody put their two cents in except for SL!

 

[Gee]

Your "realism" towards women and men as well is skewed Oli, that is what I was trying to point out, you're not the only one out there who thinks that way but it's not a healthy way of thinking.

Of course your entitled to think whatever you want, I just happen to dissagree

 

[CryWolf]

First of all, I suggest you read the post I wrote in Fetish and Fantasy, which should clear up what I think about the so-called "shill". Also, it wasn`t removed by a mod. It was removed by my client willingly for personal reasons.

***More information Here***M5

Second of all, it`s very mature to assume that I didn`t read the thread. I did read what was posted, and I just wanted to point out that I didn`t take your manipulation and exploitation statement too well. If you don`t mean what you say and say what you mean, and if I understood it incorrectly, then I apologise.

Third of all, just because I don`t post much on the board doesn`t mean that I am not known. I, personally, choose not to advertise directly, but I do spend time in chat getting to know people. So this is not really an introductory welcome to anyone.

Let me end this post on that note because I can go on, but choose not to at this point...

So it was your client who deleted the post. Your client`s name is Silently_dozing AKA Godddess_Harmonia.

You`ve been exposed to the world as a shill, SHAME ON YOU ...

https://merb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=4715&page=5

You think merbites and MODs are numbskulls and you have the nerve to speak about "manipulation and exploitation".

If I were you, I would change my handle to SHAMELESS_GODDDESS and never post on MERB again.

Have a good one!!!

 

[CryWolf]

The tree that has been shit and pissed on is having the last laugh now ....

Now that's genuinely hilarious, Godddess AKA Silently_dozing.

Are you there? Oops, she fell off her chair ... as she was dozing away ...ZZZ

 

[CryWolf]

*ding ding ding*

-And thats the end of round one ladies and gents and my oh my are we seeing a breathtaking match between crywolf and harmonia today.

-Yes Bob, both contestants seem to have trained hard for this fight and the asinine comments are really flying low, although we haven't seen any hits below the belt yet.

And the winner is CW by TKO .... Gimme the championship belt Gee.

 

[Gee]

actualy the win seems to be from outside interference so I'll just keep the belt, or hand it to Mod5