Merbits age?

[sadbuttrue]

I'm 55 and have little or no interest in having someone these days. I realized that a few years ago. Lots of people go "Oh that's not good", may even think I am gay(usually not after they know my activities :smile, or think all of what I do is an afront to the order of things. Well, I married at 20, was married for nearly 20 years, inherited the kids and got divorced and let's say was none too pleased with women. (At this point I have to note that being inept with women prior to marriage, meant that after getting divorced, I realized that I had never had to deal with the original problem.)

Visiting exotic dance clubs started immediately the night of the divorce. I never got into this until age 50. I can't say I am completely happy, but mostly, and know that any attempt to relationship would not work because my heart is just not in it and what I seem to want is not love and a life companion, but some sort of affection, beauty, sex and consistency.

Many SP's have tried to get two out of me in an hour, but it still eludes them. I think two hours might work. Marie-Eve from Asservissante was able to get two, but with a dinner hour in between. I can keep up with them physically still, but not sexually.

Sad

 

[luv2kayak]

Interesting. I thought I'd be older than many of the members of this board, but it turns out that I'm pretty close to the norm (late 40's).

 

[Siocnarf]

So far it looks a lot like the demographic distribution of the population. We can conclude there's no age to be a merb member.

Except the >69 are underrepresented. Either they don't hobby much or they don't like them computer thingies.

 

[Lily from Montreal]

One thing I am told is that among other things, older men do not argue the price.
Sinbad

So true, that's kind of a clue for me ( and the spelling mistakes) that if men writing to me starts bargaining, it means he is too young.

And guys it is the ultimate turn-off, if 20$ make a difference you cannot afford to meet...a few weeks ago I bend my rule about young pretty thing and when we agreed on a meeting and I explained the rate for siesta he wrote ''can you help me and split the room?'' hum...no???

And contrary to what I thought older men have way more stamina , I do not offer or enjoy 15 min (!)session, well I did ended meeting for 20 minutes a few time and guess what? he was below 30 ...once the deed was done, that was it, no encore...

 

[TonySoprano00]

Im 23 yrs old , probably the youngest member on here

Im coming up to montreal with a few of my buddies soon. im from the united states. never been to Montreal or with an escort but have been with a lot of strippers. There are only a few good ones on the east coast where im from but one in particular i got to know the owner and i used to go up there all the time and mess around/ and sometimes bring the girls home. However, in the states, this is very rare.

I was spending a lot of money in general, kinda in my compulsive nature but after this trip, I am going to have to start to conserve. Anyways, I would suggest spending your money on escorts rather then strip clubs cause in my experiences most strip clubs are teases (but like i said im from the states, its different).

 

[jonny71]

I myself am younger than most doing this and most if not all my buddies don't have disposable income but i figure while I'm young and have abit of money, why not enjoy it? But i
would never try to haggle with a girl and i always make sure I'm a gentleman to them, I've had good experiences so far

 

[jonny71]

And tonysoprano00 I know how you feel spending money, I'm younger than you believe it or not

 

[TonySoprano00]

And tonysoprano00 I know how you feel spending money, I'm younger than you believe it or not

i used to have no problem with it, but i had a legal issue arise and lets just say the amount of income coming in is no longer there. and i owe 1,000 dollars on a credit card as well... yeah i need to learn better impulse control when it comes to spending money.

most young guys like us cant afford this lifestyle so thats why were the youngest that i know of on here

 

[jonny71]

Yeap shit happens everyone eventually lol and yea i agree 100%

 

[Lily from Montreal]

That's also a issue for me when I use to agree to meet younger: I realized after the fact that they could not afford it and I felt guilty for them...Not all of course but enough to make me reconsider, I do not want to be ''une folie'' loll
Now that I restrain my clientele to my age group (and up) I am reasonably sure that meeting me might be a luxury, but an affordable one, not a mistake financially .

 

[jonny71]

Lily you seem like a nice women, I wish I was abit older for 1 day so i can experience a meeting with you

 

[Lily from Montreal]

Thank you! Have fun with this great hobby, and remember a hobby implies that it is not serious , just fun ...and the best cardio exercise you can find loll