MILF: The ambiguous meaning of a common acronym

[Anna Bijou]

So we've been discussing the problem with having no consensus about what DFK (or LFK) means. Unlike something like DATY, which is pretty clear to everyone.

I've been thinking about other acronyms I can't really figure out and when I try to look it up, everyone seems to have a different interpretations,which makes them kind of useless if using them leads to different understanding of what is actually being said. No?


MILF

*Is there a certain age requirement?

If so, what age?

*Does one have to be a mother?

Would a 25 year old mother be a milf?

Would a 40 year old child free woman be a milf?
30 years old?
50 years old?

*What's the difference bet milf and cougar?



I have another one to add but I'll do that later.

 

[Albacor]

GOOGLE has the answer for this:
A MILF is any woman with children who has men that want to have sexual intercourse with her. The term is also sometimes used to describe women above a certain aged (30 or 40+) who are not mothers themselves, but are deemed to be sexually attractive, and also have men that would like to partake in sexual intercourse with them.

 

[Anna Bijou]

I have googled but there are tons of different interpretations out there lol


So a 25 year old mother could be a milf.

So basically milf includes all women over (30-40?) and some younger women who have children. Well that narrows it down haha

So what's a cougar?

I always thought a cougar was a milf without the mother part lol

 

[Fradi]

A cougar to me always meant a much older woman on the hunt for younger men, I would definitely never be able to meet a cougar at my age as she would not be able to hunt anymore and probably forgotten what to do once she has captured her prey.
A MILF I have never been able to understand, to me it just means a woman 40-60, who is still attractive and I wouldn’t say no to.

 

[Anna Bijou]

A MILF I have never been able to understand, to me it just means a woman 40-60, who is still attractive and I wouldn’t say no to.

40 to 60 Kids or no kids. And not younger mothers. That's what you are saying?

 

[Shan2021]

I love Milfs, I'm a young guy, but there's just something about an attractive older woman whos still got it. In my books, if she's older than 30 with our without children, she still can qualify as a milf. At the end of it all the acronym means a mother I'd love to fuck so whatever that looks like in your world, that's what a milf is.

 

[2fast2slow]

i never like the acronyms DFK/LFK...deep full kiss is pretty clear. What the heck is light full/french kissing??

 

[Fradi]

40 to 60 Kids or no kids. And not younger mothers. That's what you are saying?

I am saying I have no idea what it means. to me that is what it means, kids no kids does that make a difference to her being attractive and desirable. To me it just means an older woman 40-60 who is still sexy as hell.

 

[Anna Bijou]

I'm asking because I was a bit surprised when someone referred to me as a milf when they texted me for info. I didn't know whether I should take it as a good or neutral thing or if I should be upset. Lol it's happened a bunch of times since then.

I don't have any kids so I never even thought of the possibility that I could be referred to as a milf. Maybe I'm sort of in the age range for a young guy but I don't feel my age and I feel like a milf is old. I'm not old. Lol

Anyway I'm ok with it but I don't particularly like it either. I'm a baby milf if anything haha

 

[Anna Bijou]

I love Milfs, I'm a young guy, but there's just something about an attractive older woman whos still got it. In my books, if she's older than 30 with our without children, she still can qualify as a milf. At the end of it all the acronym means a mother I'd love to fuck so whatever that looks like in your world, that's what a milf is.

30, to me, is too young to be a milf. At minimum 40.

30 is young!

 

[Fradi]

I'm asking because I was a bit surprised when someone referred to me as a milf when they texted me for info. I didn't know whether I should take it as a good or neutral thing or if I should be upset. Lol it's happened a bunch of times since then.

I don't have any kids so I never even thought of the possibility that I could be referred to as a milf. Maybe I'm sort of in the age range for a young guy but I don't feel my age and I feel like a milf is old. I'm not old. Lol

Anyway I'm ok with it but I don't particularly like it either. I'm a baby milf if anything haha

You are not a MILF yet, but someday you will be, like I said someone 40-60 still hot as hell with or without kids.
BTW you don't have to feel old even when you get to 60.
Age is something you should never worry about, we were all young once, but only the lucky get to be old.

 

[Connoisseur12]

I'm asking because I was a bit surprised when someone referred to me as a milf when they texted me for info. I didn't know whether I should take it as a good or neutral thing or if I should be upset. Lol it's happened a bunch of times since then.

I don't have any kids so I never even thought of the possibility that I could be referred to as a milf. Maybe I'm sort of in the age range for a young guy but I don't feel my age and I feel like a milf is old. I'm not old. Lol

Anyway I'm ok with it but I don't particularly like it either. I'm a baby milf if anything haha

Ya I agree with you. If you dont have kids, your not a milf and I dont get why anyone would call you one. To me, a milf is a woman who had kids, but doesnt look like she did

 

[Anna Bijou]

You are not a MILF yet, but someday you will be, like I said someone 40-60 still hot as hell with or without kids.
BTW you don't have to feel old even when you get to 60.
Age is something you should never worry about, we were all young once, but only the lucky get to be old.

That's what I'm saying. To be referred to as a MILF makes me feel like someone is putting me in the "old" category when I don't feel old at all and probably won't either 10 years from now. I guess I'm not a fan of the term, and it's silly when it doesn't even mean the same to everyone lol

 

[General TAO]

Strange discussion.

MILF cannot be defined by a specific age for the same reason BBW cannot be defined by a specific weight, because people wear their age/weight differently and the term is relative to the person using it...

For illustration, a 80yo dude who generally gets serviced by 50yo+ aunties might consider 37yo to be a special decadent treat in juvenility he would only dare indulge in once a year for his birthday. On the other hand, a 30yo guy generally meeting 20-25yo agency girls might consider booking 37yo as a kinky experiment with a senior lady if he's never been with a woman over his age.

The only reasonable threshold test for these terms is the one made popular by Justice Potter Stewart in Jacobellis v. Ohio to differentiate obscenity from porn: "I know it when I see it".

At 37 yo, i honestly can't understand why you would be apprehensive to being referred to as a MILF. Its clearly a compliment, it means the guy would love to fuck you. Many guys value service and attitude over youthfulness. Nothing offensive or wrong with being categorized as "older" per se. This is of course dependent on the person at the other end of the dialogue and how they use the term when they approached you.

 

[Anna Bijou]

Strange discussion.

MILF cannot be defined by a specific age for the same reason BBW cannot be defined by a specific weight, because people wear their age/weight differently and the term is relative to the person using it...

For illustration, a 80yo dude who generally gets serviced by 50yo+ aunties might consider 37yo to be a special decadent treat in juvenility he would only dare indulge in once a year for his birthday. On the other hand, a 30yo guy generally meeting 20-25yo agency girls might consider booking 37yo as a kinky experiment with a senior lady if he's never been with a woman over his age.

The only reasonable threshold test for these terms is the one made popular by Justice Potter Stewart in Jacobellis v. Ohio to differentiate obscenity from porn: "I know it when I see it".

At 37 yo, i honestly can't understand why you would be apprehensive to being referred to as a MILF. Its clearly a compliment, it means the guy would love to fuck you. Many guys value service and attitude over youthfulness. Nothing offensive or wrong with being categorized as "older" per se. This is of course dependent on the person at the other end of the dialogue and how they use the term when they approached you.

Interesting. BBW was the other acronym that I find hard to understand. Same as with MILF, BBW means different things to different people. You look online and it's all over the place.

I don't know why I feel meh about being referred to as a MILF. I'm over the initial shock lol but that's not the image I have of myself so I guess it just feels odd. Like the first time a young cashier called me madame. I was like no no no no.

It's silly and just in my head because I don't actually mind aging. But that's because I don't feel myself aging and I don't see myself any different. The MILF thing was weird because that's not how I see myself and it felt imposed on me. I don't know if that makes sense.

OK TMI lol

 

[just some guy]

I've always hated the term Milf and never would use it to refer to anyone despite what age. You can't get a clear definition of what this means but it seems to be an older woman and that also depends on what era you are talking about. At one time it was women in their 30s, today it seems women in their 40s. Strange term that really describes nothing. To me I look at woman as Young or Mature and nothing else. When I was 18-19 years old , 36 for a woman was the magical number for me and it still is to this day.

 

[Shan2021]

Strange discussion.

MILF cannot be defined by a specific age for the same reason BBW cannot be defined by a specific weight, because people wear their age/weight differently and the term is relative to the person using it...

For illustration, a 80yo dude who generally gets serviced by 50yo+ aunties might consider 37yo to be a special decadent treat in juvenility he would only dare indulge in once a year for his birthday. On the other hand, a 30yo guy generally meeting 20-25yo agency girls might consider booking 37yo as a kinky experiment with a senior lady if he's never been with a woman over his age.

The only reasonable threshold test for these terms is the one made popular by Justice Potter Stewart in Jacobellis v. Ohio to differentiate obscenity from porn: "I know it when I see it".

At 37 yo, i honestly can't understand why you would be apprehensive to being referred to as a MILF. Its clearly a compliment, it means the guy would love to fuck you. Many guys value service and attitude over youthfulness. Nothing offensive or wrong with being categorized as "older" per se. This is of course dependent on the person at the other end of the dialogue and how they use the term when they approached you.

This is probably the best response to this.

 

[MonkMcG]

MILF can be taken two ways - In your neighborhood, it means a mother who is hot She has to be a mother, unless you dont know her, but assume she is, ie "Man I saw this hot MILF at the supermarket!"

In Porn/Escorting, she doesnt need to be an actual mother, she just needs to be over 30 or also playing a bit of a housewife role. ie "MILF seduces her hot stepdaughter" No one verifies that the younger girl is an actual stepdaughter, just as no one verifies the older one is a mother.

Tori Black is a mother in real life, but she's not a MILF. Lisa Ann is not a mother, but she is a MILF. Has to do with a more mature, sexy look, over a young innocent look.

 

[Max15411]

Interesting. BBW was the other acronym that I find hard to understand. Same as with MILF, BBW means different things to different people. You look online and it's all over the place.

I don't know why I feel meh about being referred to as a MILF. I'm over the initial shock lol but that's not the image I have of myself so I guess it just feels odd. Like the first time a young cashier called me madame. I was like no no no no.

It's silly and just in my head because I don't actually mind aging. But that's because I don't feel myself aging and I don't see myself any different. The MILF thing was weird because that's not how I see myself and it felt imposed on me. I don't know if that makes sense.

OK TMI lol

At the end of the day I don't think it really matters which acronym is used. If a woman is attractive, she will be desired by men or women regardless if they are a MILF, a cougar, BBW, or none of the above. Women are beautiful creatures and men see beauty differently as they get older.
I'm in my forties now and what I find attractive or sexy is very different from when I was in my twenties.

Looking at your profile picture and your website, I sincerely doubt that men over 30 will have any objections to spending time with you.

 

[Bbw hunter]

A Mother I would Love to Fuck, or MILF for short, is a term that I believe was popularized by the film American Pie about 20 years ago. It was used to describe the character played by Jennifer Coolidge. The term as I understand it refers to a middle-aged mom or housewife who is still sexy and alluring. The age range would be about 35-55 I would say.
A Cougar refers to a sexually aggressive older woman looking for younger men. She is so referred to since she is compared to an animal on the prowl or a cat in heat. I first heard this expression in Ontario about 20 years ago since it was virtually non-existent here. In English Canada it was way more common. However it would be a bit weird for a sp to refer to herself this way since the term refers to an older woman on the prowl in singles bars. Places that had these women were actually called Cougar Bars.