Since we are all strangers here with a decent level of anonymity
what’s your most taboo fetish or sexual fantasy?
I was introduced to cnc by an ex partner. At first i was fully against it, it took much insisting from her over months for me to accept trying that.
The closest thing to that i had ever experienced was 'sleeping girl that wakes up' type scenario's.
I was surprised (even shocked) to find in some of my research just how common and widespread the cnc kink was.
That portion of my life and many of the fantasy's this girl introduced me to have somewhat turned me into quite the little freak. Since then i have had many levels of this cnc kink play and spinoff variations such as the timestop porn fetish where you pretend to freeze or unfreeze time and do as you wish during the timestop portions.
Also living doll/unliving doll, variations of sleep play, consensual 'slave' play,
Some of the weirder ones are things involving locations outside of home.
Ex: meet my girlfriend at a store in the mall or in a park or on a street and pretend we are strangers, then act out a scenario that goes as far as having sex in a store clothing room or bathroom or on a dog walking trail etc.
These tend to be the most stimulating of all.
Also much playing dressup... costumes galore, all types of outfits. Currently my new kink is one piece full kigurumi bodysuits in pvc or latex or one piece bodysuit with hentai or anime masks.
Years ago i was into "trapped" or "stuck" porn style scenarios.. washing machine, dryer, stuck in cabinet, stuck behind couch, stuck anywhere really lol.
I don't think anything is wrong or questionable in terms of fetishes/fantasys/roleplay as long as its consentual and enjoyed by both partners. Anything that is forced or over-suggested to the point of leaving one pressured is wrong and a no go. If you need a fetish or kink to enjoy sex, then it has become a problem and is beyond the realm of a fantasy imho.
Also communication is always key.
WHatever acts are played out, always have discussions about them before & after.
I remember one girl i dated who initiated a specific scenario. I played along and enjoyed it, but there were certain things about that particular roleplay that bugged me.
She initiated this same scenario on multiple occasions and thinking it really turned her on, i then initiated it over the next few months a few times.
During a fight that we later had, she used that specific roleplay scenario against me as an attack and she let it out just how much it 'bothered' her.. i reminded her that she had initiated it almost every time.
She then let it out that she did that thinking i liked it or wanted that particular scenario.
(Not to leave you in suspense, she was a beautiful girl who was mixed and had darker skin and i am a european white guy. The fantasy was that i was some kind of slave master of sorts and she was doing kinky acts to not have to work out in the sun or get attacked or starved or whatever she was rambling on during those moments. This was filled with her calling herself degrading racial slurs that have never been in my vocabulary in my life.
And p.s, when i mentioned i had been into slave kink earlier up above, i did not mean this type of slave stuff, i meant like a person being held captive in a bdsm dungeon scenario or in a cage, so she did not know about that and did not think i wanted this type of play due to my prior fantasy plays)
So after initiating this thinking i somehow wanted that, she never spoke on it really out of the bedroom and nor did i.
That is something that i learned over time is to always have a follow up discussion about things you did in the bedroom..
Had i known she initiated that thinking it was a thing that i was into, i would have made it clear right away that i have never thought of such a thing and it was kind of weird to me, i played along to make her happy.
(The same girl also initiated this face slapping during sex stuff and choking... the slapping was also a thing she hated and initiated it thinkimg i wanted that and during that same fight she vented on how much she hated that and it bothered her... i was taken aback, but even if it was her initiations, i apologized and said i wish she had mentioned all this earlier, i was never even into those 2 specific kinks)
