I can see the appeal either way. I honestly do wonder if some women dread an outfit/roleplay request bc it seems like so many offer it and they don't all look comfy to be in.
It depends what the request is. Role-playing is 1 thing, I don't play pretend very well, but I do have many sides of myself that can enjoy different aspects not so much of role play, but satisfying internal parts of yourself. Less acting, more just being in the moment letting a part of yourself be that doesn't generally get to exhist. If that makes sense.