I can see the appeal either way. I honestly do wonder if some women dread an outfit/roleplay request bc it seems like so many offer it and they don't all look comfy to be in.
The ears and tail seem really fun to me lol. I had someone request that I wear elf ears before. I thought that was adorable. If it's playful and funny, I won't mind an outfit request and even enjoy it.
But sometimes they do bother me and that's why I don't do roleplays. I'm not a big fan of when someone tells me to wear a specific outfit personally.. and certain costumes have this submissive kink element to it that makes me uncomfortable, like when I first started people would ask me to dress like a school girl etc, I started to really hate it.. It's not for me. If the client wants to dress up as a schoolgirl or a maid he can go for it lol
However if I have to dress up as a fox warrior with chainmail lingerie I won't say no if he brings the costume!