Nervous when SP are too hot?

[AlexConor]

Is it just me or when I book SPs that are too out of my league I get nervous.

I sometimes do not even book the 10/10 physical SPs.

What do you think?

 

[AnthonyAnderson]

Is it just me or when I book SPs that are too out of my league I get nervous.

I sometimes do not even book the 10/10 physical SPs.

What do you think?

I'm like that, too. Generally speaking, the more attractive she is, on first meeting, the more nervous I am. Things usually improve on the second meeting. In all transparency, the explanation behind this, in addition to a natural propensity for nervousness/anxiety, is likely a feeling that one will not be able to satisfy the high standards of his exceptionally attractive partner.

 

[LeDodo]

Is it just me or when I book SPs that are too out of my league I get nervous.

I sometimes do not even book the 10/10 physical SPs.

What do you think?

I don't get nervous but more excited and once meeting her I just don't know what to do or say lol

 

[Samuellou666]

I do get nervous easily if she DDG but it gets ok depending on the SP attitude, if she is friendly and responsive to foreplay (most of the time I choose carefully now) then I relax immediately, otherwise it will be a mediocre meeting and no repeat of course.
I also tend to book longer the second time if the meeting was pleasant

 

[Fradi]

Is it just me or when I book SPs that are too out of my league I get nervous.

I sometimes do not even book the 10/10 physical SPs.

What do you think?

Considering the age difference they are all out of my league lol.
No I don’t get more nervous, they are women just like any other, treat them with kindness and respect and everything will go well.
Why not pick the most gorgeous one that fits your budget, do you pick the meal that is just ok from the menu or the one that you crave.

 

[Zero_Six]

 

[twenty4seven]

Agreed. Not nervous but just apprehensive at first, until we talk and can then the walls fall down. Unless they act like they know they're hotter than the sun, but then I know we're never gonna repeat.

 

[Wildstar]

Is it just me or when I book SPs that are too out of my league I get nervous.

I sometimes do not even book the 10/10 physical SPs.

What do you think?

I don't understand this at all. I don't think any girl is out of my league. Maybe I'm overconfident, but to think this way, especially about a girl you are literally paying to provide a service, is an alien mindset to me.

 

[Samuellou666]

I don't understand this at all. I don't think any girl is out of my league. Maybe I'm overconfident, but to think this way, especially about a girl you are literally paying to provide a service, is an alien mindset to me.

I think it’s just a natural brain reaction for some , in my case I can get a bit shy and nervous with a very hot girl in a normal life situation so my brain triggers the same signals and adrenaline for a moment , but luckily I get past it very quickly if the vibe is good .

 

[AnthonyAnderson]

is an alien mindset to me.

Some people are introverted, some people are extroverted. Some people are very anxious, some less so. Your experience may vary.

 

[PSEfreak]

Is it just me or when I book SPs that are too out of my league I get nervous.

I sometimes do not even book the 10/10 physical SPs.

What do you think?

This might be the reason I've not booked a session with Katrina Vianna

 

[void747]

When she's too hot or better than I expected (if picture doesn't do justice). I can do my first release quite fast due to the sheer amount of dopamine. That's the hardest moment since I kind of paid for 1hour, but release within 5-10min....Some SP can be understanding and let you have a second shot.

 

[Wildstar]

Some people are introverted, some people are extroverted. Some people are very anxious, some less so. Your experience may vary.

Yes people are different, breaking news. If she's a service provider, she's in my (and everyone else's) league, res ipsa loquitur.

 

[Samuellou666]

Yes people are different, breaking news. If she's a service provider, she's in my (and everyone else's) league, res ipsa loquitur.

I think he just meant out of his league if she was not a SP and in a non transactional situation

 

[Enjoying life]

Considering the age difference they are all out of my league lol.
No I don’t get more nervous, they are women just like any other, treat them with kindness and respect and everything will go well.
Why not pick the most gorgeous one that fits your budget, do you pick the meal that is just ok from the menu or the one that you crave.

If you feel fine than they are fine!

 

[urquell]

Couldn't give a fuck one way or the other, and absolutely not intimidating at all. Once you been around the block a few times you discover that looks have absolutely zero to do with talent in bed and so why should you care one way or another what the girl looks like? If it's about sex then it just simply doesn't matter. If it's about being next to a female esthetic then that's what you're paying for so why be intimidated? Just enjoy it, because that's what you signed up for in the first place.

I'm a thousand times more interested in how capable the girl is in bed (creative, imaginative, funny, fun and open-minded) and how well we click together than I'm ever going to be about how good a job the plastic surgeon did on her boobs or how white and shiny her teeth are. Nobody is out of anybody's league, if your sense of self-worth is healthy (without being arrogant.lol)

 

[Torycats]

Am I the only one who reads this and wants to know who those uber hot providers are lol

 

[EastWind]

Is it just me or when I book SPs that are too out of my league I get nervous.

I sometimes do not even book the 10/10 physical SPs.

What do you think?

Don’t know how long you have been doing this but after a while you meet enough of those who you think that are out of your league and they disappoint you well that is when you evolve. Then there are those that does not hit your radar at first then they hit you like an emotional truck and you can’t get them off your mind for days, weeks or even years.

This hobby is not just about paying for sex. It is a quick crash course in women and pealing off all those layers in you to reveal what you are truly attracted to beyond the superficiality of looks. You become immune to physical beauty and become emotionally resilient.

I guess once you reach this point in your life your hobbying dies down or you just walk off from this altogether. Congratulations. You have gotten needing to bang hot girls out of your system without being bitter while still maintaining your soul. It is a super power. If you ever attract that civie woman into your life she should thank all those SPs who have crossed path with you.

 

[HDarrow0]

Who exactly are these 10/10 sps?

 

[EastWind]

Who exactly are these 10/10 sps?

There is no specifics really. It is what your version/definition of 10 is. Your 10 could be a 2 to me vice versa. Okay I am being extreme here but you get my point. I hope.